How many times do you see a girl before you try fingering her?

Seems most of the guys that date me don't wait that long.. I'm first year uni, honestly its a big change from high school.
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ALSO: do guys generally expect a hand job after they finger a girl? If not sex that is...
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Depends on the girl, her views, and what she wants out of the relationship.

    Same thing with me... Depends on what I want out of the relationship.

    A serious one. A couple of dates til I am ready, but I will wait however long til she is ready.

    If just a fling or a casual dating kind of thing, and we both are just going with the flow and if it turns into a serious relationship then so be it, but if not and it turns into a fling then that's cool too... I would say, whenever it happens...Could be the first time, could be several times down the road. Whatever happens happens, and just going with the flow.

    • Expect a handjob or sex after? No. It would be really nice, but my job as a guy is to pleasure the girl. The girls job is to pleasure the guy. All I am going to do is focus on doing my job, I don't expect her to do her job, but it would be really nice if she did. If not it's not my problem it's hers. If she doesn't want to please me then so be it, but I'm going to focus on doing my job and do anything I can to make her feel as good as she can.

    • you're amazing.

    • Thank you! :)

  • I'm married, but if not, a couple dates. Not many though.

Most Helpful Girls

  • i kind of asked this same question this weekend check it out...

    do you let them when they try to soon?

    • Yea I don't know.. my perception of "too soon" seems to be changing rapidly. When in high school, it would be FOREVER, but now its like, after hanging out 5 times. When he did, it was only the second time we made out, and I had always thought it would be a few more times before we took it further..

    • I see, every time is different some guys have better ways to get us say yes faster right...

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  • I might try as early as the first date, but she doesn't have to let me. if the girl wanted to wait, I'd respect that.

    • As for your update... I think that if I'm getting you off by fingering you, it makes sense that you'd do the same for me. But this is not a contract and we are not negotiating. If you don't want to, then it's find if you don't.

  • Zero. I do this to random women on the street.

  • Depends how into making out we are in. If I start sliding my hand down there and she doesn't say anything then I go for it. Depends on the girls too. Could be first date or 7nth date.

  • Fingering woman is how I give hand shakes so I'd say the first time every time.