I am just curious, so don't wave the perv flag ok? Are teen girls attracted to men age 35-45 if they are still very fit? Example: Tom Cruise, Brad Pitt. If so, what about them is attractive?
Girls, thank you for the responses. No offense guys, but I asked for "girls only" to comment.
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Not ones in my life because that's around the age of my dad and would make me feel weird. I love Brad Pitt but its different because he's in a movie and you can imagine him being whatever you want and a lot of the people he plays is really hot (achilles in troy). I just couldn't do something like that in real life.
hell no for me. when I was a teenaged girl I liked the guys whom were around my age or a little older. I wouldn't go out with someone who's old enough to be my dad or lacked the maturity to be with some girl his age.
YES! well at least I am...i don't know why...but I think it is just because they seem like they treat you a whole lot better then teenage guys do because the older men seem to know more and their not childish...and as for them being very fit that's just an added bonus for me...i just love older men like tom cruise and brad pitt...but leonardo decaprio is the ABSOLUTE BEST looking one EVER! and he seems very nice
Yes, I have been attracted to an older man before... I think the oldest was like, 36ish?
I'm mostlly attracted to them because either they are good looking, or their lives are developed to a point where I see myself being at that time... Business men to me for some reason are sexy.. always have been! I guess its cause they seem to have their shit together and have done well for themselves..
Yes I'm a 16 year old girl and I find older men very very attractive. Actually I have since I was 12. I'm not really sure what makes them so attractive but I just love the way they look. Not only the famous actors I'm attracted to your average every day guy. I think the laws are stupid, society's view on it is really screwed up. Who are they to say how old or young you have to be to be with someone. The first guy I was in love with was a lot older than me. As long as its not forced I don't see what the problem is.
Yes! I'm 18.. So 45 is kinda pushin it! Lol. But I think nice looking guys around 20-35 are really hott! I don't know why tho but I just really like them! But once you hit like 45 && 50... that's just kinda gross!
Well when I was like 14 or so I sat in class fantasizing about brad pit and tom cruise and christain slater in interview with a vampire. I wasn't aloud to see the movie but from the previews with kirsten dunst who is about my age kissing Brad Pitt, yes I remember going to the bathroom in school and wondering why my cotton hanes were so wet.
Yes, I'm 17 and I've been attracted to older guys for as long as I can remember. My friends used to think it was weird that I said 30-45 guys were good looking. I find boys my own age alright also, but I just appreciate the way older men carry themselves. They're more intelligent, engaging and I find their physical features much more attractive than a teenage boys. No, I wasn't abused by my father and I'm not going around trying to be Lolita, I just think they're appealing.
I've found older men attractive since I was very young. I'm actually in a relationship with a great guy in his early 50s. He's caring, mature, great sense of humor, and great in bed. I had a crush on him since I was 16 but didn't talk to him about it till I was 18
I've never been attracted to celebrities. I find the "celebrity mania" quite disturbing and depressing, and hence have never really appreciated the sight of an extremely famous and middle-aged actor.
I've been attracted to the occasional male peer, however my attraction to these teenagers has never compared with my attraction to particular middle-aged men. I developed my first major crush at the age of 14. The man I desired was somewhere in his fifties, and bipolar. It was frustrating and intense. I recall constantly attempting to attract his attention, but those attempts were always failures.
Now, at 18, I am intensely attracted to a man 30+ years my senior. I'm quite sure that this is 95% because of his excellent personality, intelligence, subtle confidence and way with words.
I think that part of the reason I enjoy the idea of older men is the prospect of a challenge and chase. Older men usually don't want to "give in" to girls decades their junior, and this makes it both fun and taboo to pursue such relationships. Waha. Gosh, I sound like such an evil villain. "Come here. Come on, middle-aged man, I have some candy for you..."
I am 17, 18 in 2 months and I have a secret relationship with a man who's 47. He's very attractive and sweet. No, I wasn't abused when I was little and my self esteem is very high so I just find him attractive.
I would think most girls aren't attracted to older men but as cliche as it sounds... I'm not most girls. I'm 16 and I've liked older guys since I was about 13. I'm not really sure what makes them so attractive though. I like guys from 25-35 but admitively, I've liked guys older but I try not to think about that because my mum is 38. (Dad not in picture)
I am one of those young girls who are only attracted to men in their 30's and up. I wouldn't say all of them that I am attracted would be consider a "Brad Pitt". Gray hairs and some weight doesn't bother me at all since I fall for who they are on the inside. Once I fall for who they are on the inside, I will naturally fall for who they are on the outside.
Well we are both in the same bracket so I ask, don't you remember having a crush on older women like elizabeth taylor, Raquel Welch , Betty Grable , Doris Day , Marylynn Monroe..your moms friend...your teacher ...etc?
I would have to think teens still get crushes on older folks as well, I sure did when I was a teeny -bopper. :-)
Oh Mrs.Wigdor, my 5th grade teacher... :-) oh and my pre-school teacher..whatever her name was..she looked like mary taylor moore with a 70's bra-less tight t-shirt look and the scarf around her neck...MMmmmmMM .."memories, like the corners of my mind"
I am sure it happens,for some bizarre reason young girls fancy old men,it's most probably for their money or lifestyle if they are famous,thankfully though ugly old men like myself with nothing to offer won't get any attention from any women at all let alone underaged ones.
Girls like Brad Pitt because he's FAMOUS, wealthy and good-looking. If you're famous or wealthy, a different set of rules govern your life. Good looks alone don't cut it.
Wealthy 40 year old guys can score with hot 20 year olds. Famous 40 year olds can rent apartments on the French Riveriera with their 19 year old mistress. Good looking 40 year olds who work at Circuit City and try picking up on 20 year olds a a joke.
Aint fair, but it's life.
Plus, men who go for far younger girls are usually hugely insecure. They're commonly terrified of mature women.
But keep trying! You're good enough, you're smart enough, and dog-gone it, people like you!