It freaking hurt! Baaaadd...Waah!
Well me and my boyfriend had sex for the first time...well wouldn't really call that embarrassing situation 'sex'.
I mean..he couldn't even barely get the head of his d*** in me without me screaming! It felt like I was being punched in the vag! He was going in slowly but I had to tell him to stop, the condom be bought was not well lubricated and neither was I. Things got a little awkward afterward and I could tell he was disappointed..but so was I. I didn't expect mind blowing orgasms right there but at least have him go inside me all the way! Sheesh -___- I wonder if its just because it was the first time and I'm really tight or if I have some sort of condition where sex is always going to hurt. =/
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It was because it was your first time - and the first time experience is mostly horrible for everyone.
So don't worry; you don't have "some sort of condition where it is always going to hurt"
Next time, try to remain relaxed - it's not good when there's tension in the muscles.
Try a lot of foreplay (for you) so that you are up to the task as well and not immediately jump into the act.
I heard taking a hot shower before helps "loosen and ease" the process if it is difficult the first time.
practice makes perfect; but always be safe and use protection.