Is using blowjob skills a bad idea for who I choose to marry?

[Anonymous]

It is not common from me to have an orgasm from a blowjob? I have only blown my load from a blowjob about 4 times in my entire life of at least 200 attempts. Ranging from at least 15 girls. 4 different girls have done it. The first three did it after many attempts and a long time of trying. One did it with complete control where it was the best in my life. I immediately wanted to marry her. Unfortunately it was a girl I met in a South American country that I will never see again. Basically, the very next girl that can blow me, and make me orgasm in under 10 minutes with complete control, I want to marry her. Girls will get older, and not look the same. Many other things will change about them, but I don't think they will get worse at giving blowjobs. So isn't this a reasonable reason to choose to marry a girl? *disclaimer. This does not include fat chicks. Even though I hear they give good blowjobs, I want them to be sexy and fit at least when we first get married.

[angel1142]

Your disclaimer is soooooooooooooooooooooooooooo superficial!

No I don't think it's a reasonable reason to choose to marry a girl... We all learn from our partner and get better at giving more when our love for him and relationship gets more intense...

How are you at cunis?

Would you like a girl wanting to marry you because of that...and because you're not fat just and only because of these two reasons?

Wouldn't it completely suck to you?

[fatalcharm]

Not just the disclaimer, but the whole post!

[IdontWantToBeMe]

lol you are so right

[Asker]

Do girls ever choose to marry a guy based on his income or status? Woman marry for superficial reasons every day.

[angel1142]

I wouldn't, and I think it is really sad. So I still completely disagree and ask you again: would you like someone to marry you just and only because you're good at cunis...not even loving you, nor caring for all your other qualities and awesome personnality... I would never marry a guy because I can make him orgasm with a blowjob. Marriage is way much more, on a total upper level!

[Asker]

I would love to marry a girl who only wants to marry me because I give her good cunnilingus! That is, as long as she gives good blowjobs. Blow jobs are very important to me and I want it to be important to my wife as well...important to her to want to give me blow jobs!

[shortshortss]

Most girls will probably be offended by your question && the whole fat chicks thing lol... but I get where you're coming from. And, honestly, I do think it's a reasoable thing to consider before marrying someone. Sex isn't love, and relationships are definitely not all about sex but sex is still a very important factor. I think it's important to be with someone who satisfies you in all aspects of the relationship, including sexual aspects!

[Asker]

Yeah, it might be offensive, but I should be able to choose my perfect mate. I don't want to get married and then divorced because I didn't marry the girl that I wanted.

[shortshortss]

Yeah && if the sex sucks, things will probably go down hill !

[Asker]

YES! I want to be happy! I promise that I am a very great guy and all of my previous girlfriends have really loved me and tried to get me to marry them. Trust me! I am a desired guy! But one "deal breaker" is the blowjob. I think if women have so many standards that they say their man must meet before marrying them, then I have standards my woman must meet!

[shortshortss]

Yepp! Nothing wrong with getting what you want.

[Rebelle]

hahahaha. or the woman you marry may not be a pro at a blowjob in the beginning but, because of her love and care for you and your BJ pedestal ...surely she will work on it...(if you are not an ASS like your question comes across as..and encourage her and also give back :P)...and give you the best one of your life and many more to come. ASS. hahaha.

[Asker]

Girls have tried for years to make me orgasm from a blowjob. The ones who were ALREADY good at it made it happen. The ones who tried and tried there little hearts out never made it happen. This is not like "the little engine that could" and everyone can succeed in the end.

[l-hedoniste]

If that's your deal breaker, then it is what it is. Just let them know up front.

[Asker]

"deal breaker" is the perfect word to use.

[fatalcharm]

I think you should choose who you want to marry based on compatibility, whether or not you want the same things in life and of course, love.

[Asker]

So what if the girl chose to marry me because I am kind, considerate, wealthy, great at sex and great with children. Am I not allowed to want her to give phenomenal blowjobs? Women demand things from their mate, why can't I demand things from my mate, whether they be superficial or not?

[fatalcharm]

I am not saying that you are not allowed to want a woman to give great BJs, I am just saying that there are more important things. What if you met a woman who gave the most amazing BJs ever, but was really annoying every other moment of the day? The only time that you would be happy is when she is giving you a BJ and every other moment you will be feeling irritated. Eventually you are not going to want her even near you because she bugs you that much, then you will be without BJs and a companion

[Asker]

Either way, it is more likely that she will bug the hell out of me anyway. I might as well get a good blowjob out of it during SOME PART OF THE DAY. Think about how many guys have wives that irritate the heck out of them all day AND don't get blowjobs?

[luv4all]

lol really? every heard of compromise, you can't have it all. am sure there are other things that are essential for a marriage to prosper and sex isn't the only thing.

[Asker]

What I am trying to say, is that I think the blowjob would be one of the essentials for me.

[Anonymous]

so what happens some day when something happens to her mouth and she can't give you blow jobs? would you still be married to her?

[Asker]

When something happens to her mouth? Do you have something in mind that is common and scientifically true that I am not aware of?

[Opinion Owner]

maybe a tumour or facial paralysis, there are a lot of medical conditions that can affect the nerves supplying the mouth anyways my point is don't love someone because of something that she has or can do. so what happens then when she doesn't have it or she is not able to do it?

[Asker]

That is a good question, but that is exactly why I would put emphasis on blowjobs. Girls won't always look pretty, or young, or fit or tight. But they will always be able to give that blowjob.