Do you prefer a girl who does not have a stick skinny body?

[Anonymous]

Would you prefer a girl who is actually skinny with some curves but nothing that out there (not flat or flat assed though), or a girl who is normal weight..not overweight but not skinny, with big boobs, a big butt, thick toned thighs, and a slim waist? I'm more like the second. I wear a 4 or 6, and I'm short. I'm not fat or chubby, but I'm just not skinny. My waist is small, my stomach is flat, my boobs and butt are very large, and my thighs are muscular. I'm definitely not a stick, but it seems like guys find my body very attractive. I definitely "have a body", I'm not waif like. At a point in my life I thought I was fat and I used to try to starve myself, but I just realized I'll never be a stick and I have come to terms with it and learned to love and accept my body even though it's not as fragile as other girls'. But I was reading old magazines and people were calling Jessica Simpson fat when she wasn't at her skinny point. There was this majorly widespread picture of her in unflattering high waisted jeans at a bad angle (which can add a lot of weight) but she really was not fat. She just has curves. I'm more like that, maybe slightly smaller but not much. But according to the media, and many commenters, she's "fat". people were so quick to call her fat, even Obama remarked on it, but the sad thing was she wasn't even fat. especially compared to general America. She was just a normal sized girl with a curvy frame, which I thought was found to be attractive. So, what is really preferable? Because I think it's a lot more attractive to have a body than be stick skinny, as long as you aren't overweight. Most women I see who are pretty and who get a lot of guys are not sticks, they are average weight or so.

[MrOracle]

I could be equally happy with either body type. Both have pluses and minuses, but ultimately, the person inside the body is what matters. Sure, I have to find the girl reasonably attractive, but I've dated girls with both of those body types and have been plenty attracted to them physically.

Remember that TV/Movies/Porn is largely fantasy, and people have VERY different ideas of what they want in their fantasies than they want in real life. On TV, almost every woman is stick-thin, which is neither reflective of the real world, nor of what guys actually want in the real world. But TV is fantasy, and filling the TV with a lot of "average" women simply wouldn't sell (it's been tried, and failed).

Women are actually the ones who are the most critical, BTW. Guys are less picky.

[gonyr]

bones are for dogs, meat is for the man

girls with a body are WAY better. not obese or anything like that though lol. but a girl with a normal body who works it to its fullest advantages is way way better.

our media has really f'd with body image. A lot more guys would actually prefer the girl that's got t*ts and an ass and a real body over the petite model type.

my favorite model is Kate Upton. look her up and see what the hottest girl ever looks like and why

[Asker]

Kate Upton is heavier than many models but compared to the average girl she is still quite thin.

[gonyr]

yea and I love it lol. but seriousl, I know compared to most she's thin, but its the same thought. I'm against boney bitches lol but in regards to Kate Upton, I just found out she's with Jets QB Mark Sanchez. I feel betrayed because I thought we were gonna spend the rest of our lives together. :( lol

[Asker]

haha sorry to hear

[peace-love-couture]

Curves =/= fat

She was chubby and could stand to lose weight back in those days. Most women in America could stand to lose weight.

Let's be honest, you said yourself you're a 4 or 6 and compared to the typical American, that IS thin. So you are apart of that thin category, you probably look a tad bit more filled out, which is fine.

[Asker]

Thanks. Very true, I just know a lot of girls my height (I'm only 5"1 with really short legs) who wear a 0 or 2, yet I know girls who are a few inches taller and wear a size 8 or even 10 and don't look fat.

[Giogiogio2011]

I would prefer a woman who isn't brain dead stupid or a shank. Tired of these people thinking life is a MTV reality show.

[kraftty]

don`t worry you sound yummy! just the way you are if you are happy and healthy don`t worry about the rags that tell us what women should like! Just be comfortable with you! paull

[PoliticallyIncorrect]

Long answer: Yes.

[elpistolero1]

mmm, girls like you are preferable,

[Anonymous]

We're all different. I prefer slender but I might be in a minority. Note sure about that.

[Anonymous]

Its OK to be insecure but I think you might be offending some of the slimmer figured ladies when you call them sticks, not very nice, doesn't make you a pretty person.

[Asker]

Stick isn't necessarily an insult, nor was it meant as one.

[Opinion Owner]

i doubt that

[gonyr]

some people are attracted to those "sticks" nothing wrong with that at all. we like what we like. its not that a petite girl isn't attractive, but for me personally I just am not into it. they can be pretty, I guess. but not really that hot

[Opinion Owner]

ya some guys look like sh*t and I am not attracted to them