Is it weird for guys to have their own sex toys?

or is it nasty and do women think guys are pervs for having them? or is that you think men cannot get a women therefore have to resort to using devices to get off? If its nasty to you or your find that guys are pervs for having them, why do you apply this double standard for guys then? and in today's day and age its not hard to get a women, not matter how shabby they may be...just saying
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Most Helpful Guys

  • In speaking with my male friends I have found that almost all of them have experimented with lubes during masturbation: baby oil, peanut butter, hand lotion, etc. Some have admitted to humping the bed, pumping a watermelon, or whatever. I never asked about sex toys directly, but I imagine most of us would try a fleshlight and those who like ass play would try the butt plug.

    I would be up for whatever enhances the experience. I know technology really gets some guys off: phone sex, skype/video chat, sexting, exchanging jpegs, I guess online p*rn could be included. So depending upon one's definition of "toy" I think most men could include their computers! Try a variety of toys and see what you like. If someone thinks its nasty, they don't have to play in your sandbox.

  • Anybody can get off with any toy they want, as long as they don't hurt themselves. As for those who would judge you: f*ck 'em.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Women have an array of sex toys available to them so why can't guys? I agree that shunning it would be a double standard and would be very unfair.

    And I wouldn't ever think that a guy with a sex toy only had one because he couldn't get a girl. Surely the same could be applied to women with sex toys? And there are plenty of couples who use sex toys together or even on their own while in a relationship. Its all normal.

  • I don't care :P you do whatever makes you happy. But in a relationship, I would hope I would be your main helper :) other than that, knock yourself out when I'm not around.

  • as long as its fleshlight its cool man, now if its a vibrator or a dildo then hell no

    • fleshlight is amazing that's all I will say :D

    • well good for you

    • What about a buttplug?

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  • What do you have? I'm very intrigued...

    • what if he said blow up doll? :P lool

    • i have a fleshlight, its amazing but will never be a replacement for a real women. you don't get the emotions, the warmth, or the same "feeling" that a real woman has, besides after you can't cuddle naked :)

  • So weird dude

  • Owning your own is not weird.

    Weird would be borrowing them from your friends.

  • First of all I applaud you not asking anonymous. and if you like it do it, your partner doesn't like it, its your partners fault not yours

  • Its that good huh?

    • pretty damn good

  • I myself own none. I've never seen the need to have any. Do I think it's weird? Yes, only because so few men (to my knowledge) have them.

    But, I really could care less. To each their own.

    • you could "not" care less... I believe that is what you intend to say.

    • Yup. Thanks.

  • you are my sex toy ;)

    • sounds great what are you doing to do with me