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Is breast size the equivalent of penis size?

Is penis size the equivalent to breast size? While I'm not fond of the "omg its the end of the world cause my boobs are small" questions, one thing that bothers me about the questions is the answers *anonymous* male users leave. They'll leave ridiculous answers saying " well do girls want a small penis or big penis?" I guess because they assume penis size preference is the same as breast size preference. One of the most bothering comments I read was something along the lines of "A girl with an A cup is like a guy with a 3 inch penis." it wasn't a small boob question but it did have to do about size. I have big breasts but belittling comments like that bother me cause I know that's gonna hurt a lot of girls feelings. The user went on to say other things about proportion being best or whatever but still.
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  • I think there are similarities and differences and I'll try to lay out my opinions here. Beware that this may seem scattered, but most of what I think is written in there somehow:

    I think in some aspects they are similar. Obviously they are both viewed as sexual body parts in one way or another. But I believe their real difference (in terms of how our society views them) is that breasts are out in the open whereas a man's penis size is hidden until his clothes are off. And also people equate having a big penis to being more manly more than people equate big boobs to being womanly.

    Breast size preferences are actually kind of similar to penis size preferences in my opinion in one aspect. Penis size preferences come mostly from the desire to have good sex. Some women want the largest penis possible and that is fine, but I think the vast majority want a penis in the middle ground because there gets a point where a penis actually is too big. Most men I know like big boobs, but prefer somewhere in the middle ground. You don't see many men wanting boobs hanging to the ground and you don't see many women clamoring over 15 inch penises.

    I do think though that small boobs get less criticism than small penises. Guys who have 3 inch penises are not going to get many satisfactory reviews in sex, but many girls with A cups will because a lot of guys actually care much more about the rest of the girl when it comes to sex. I guess it is the same thing with girls, but still the penis is the sexual organ of the man whereas the vagina is the sexual organ of the female so a direct comparison cannot be made.

  • Good opinions have already been said, but I'll add mine. The big difference I see is twofold. Breasts are "passive" as opposed to penises being "active", and the former are more implicated in attraction, whereas the latter concerns performance. Let me explain.

    Breasts don't have as much a direct role in sexual encounters than has the penis. One is a primary sexual characteristic, whereas the other is a secondary sexual characteristic, in terms of biology. Sex organs, or primary sexual characteristics, are necessary for reproduction and directly concern performance (pleasure) in sexual intercourse. Breasts don't have a direct role in sexual stimulation. Men worry about penis size, because they think that this particular variable will affect the sexual pleasure experience in the partner, which is required to maintain a satisfactory relationship with a female partner.

    Secondly, penises are hidden whereas breasts are more visible with modern clothing, as was said by a previous user. So naturally, breasts have a more important role when it comes to attraction, rather than sexual performance, because women think that men are more turned on when those particular parts are big. You can't really initially be attracted to someone because of their penis size without having prior sexual experience with them.

    The common denominator is that both breasts and penis sizes worry their owner. However, for two different reasons, attraction and performance, as I explained earlier.

    I hope that makes sense.

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  • Honestly, A breast size and penis size have no connection.

    The guy is pretty much going to f** the girls vagina not her t*ts. The t*ts are the extra prop that a man can play with if he is into boobs.

    When a guy has a small penis, to some girls that may be a turn off because that isn't their preference.

    Like t*ts being an extra prop, the penis is the main deal. Its not really something you can look past because sex is a part of all of our daily lives.

    Btw, I <3 all penis sizes. To me it is all about the motion in the ocean.

    Just because a guy has a small penis doesn't mean his sex cant/wont satisfy you.

    • @stacyzee and equally a guy could turn down a girl if she has a loose vagina because that’s not his preference, yet the guy would be bullied online for that whereas a girl would be praised for not settling with a small dick…

  • Then you must not be paying attention to all the belittling comments women say about guys penises! For example you chould go to UrbanDictionary. com and type in any guy's name and see how women talk about guys penises ANONYMOUSLY

  • Good question! But I don't think it is..I have like these big boobs that everyone thinks are fake which they are not..and I've heard rumors about the guy I likes penis size and not so good but nope I don't think it is.

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  • BS.

    Boobs aren't necessary for sex. A penis kind of is though.

    I like girls that have overall 'balance' (small chests look better with smaller butts, bigger chests look better with bigger butts). If I had to state a preference, a handful is enough. I would have something I can grab onto during the ride.

    If she is flat chested, as long as her nipples are bigger than mine I would be fine with that I guess. There would be some problems if she reminded me of myself shaved though (have some light chest hair).

    I would say boobies are more like muscles on a guy. I don't want boobs that are so big that the balance looks screwed up, and I'm sure chicks don't want guys who have muscles that are gigantic.

  • I hear a lot of bishes say that SIZE doesn't matter. Psh! Let me get you drunk and then ask you that sh! t again! haha! Or put a secret camera on you when you're having an all-girls night. Any woman who says it doesn't matter is lyin' her ass off OR she hasn't experienced big yet. After she tries a big cock, it's GAME OVER and she'll be evangelizing to everyone that BIGGER IS INDEED BETTER! Both genders are guilty. Small t! ts are anything under a C cup. Men put up wit it, but you know we're secretly checking out the chic wit a big rack at the next table. I tend to be more of a prick in the sack wit chics who have smaller tits. The ironic part is, they seem to love it a lot (sort of like a degradation fetish or something? They know I'm a high status alpha male wit a huge cock and can get higher status women wit bigger tits, so they subconsciously try harder in the sack to please me!)

    I just so happen to have a huge cock (8.5 inches long and so thick you can't wrap your hand around it). I've heard the same shit you said above that size doesn't matter, but then after they try mine, they come back weeks or months later saying the smaller dudes just don't cut it anymore! I'm in the SF Bay Area if you're up for the CHALLENGE. I KNOW I can change your mind on the penis size issue. GUARANTEED! ;)

  • I'd say breasts correlate more to muscles where some girls like big muscles some like toned etc. with neither preference affecting how sex feels. An equivalent to penis size would be if you could look at girls and easily see how tight they were. I would guess that if that were true, girls would be pretty worris about that.

  • I don't think they're really equivalent, I mean with a penis you need to actively use it for sex, with boobs, they're just there to look good with sex (obviously they have functions in milk production post giving birth). That being said, I think both sexes overestimate the importance of one or the other, and I think penis size is a huge misunderstanding most of the time. I see Q's on here asking guys to post their size and girls to post the sizes they've had, and a lot of girls say they've had 10, 11, 12 inch penises but that's clearly wrong and a huge overestimation, less than 1% of males are that big so I think that makes dudes more insecure since they might think every dude apart from them is packing in their pants. I don't think breast size really matters a lot to me, I mean yeah if they're big that's great but even if they're not I'm still perfectly happy with that, they're just t*ts for god's sake lol

  • Yeah my balls are c cups

  • Well, maybe "equivalent" in terms of comparing to the average and relating to body insecurity. But usually the purpose of doing that as far as I've seen is to humiliate. Actually I didn't realize it was used to humiliate women until seeing posts like this here. Usually what I've seen is in "small penis humiliation" conversation, where it's implied that a woman with breasts that are comparatively larger than the guy's penis wouldn't be interested. As if she'd expect the guy to be just as endowed as she is.

    And when the two are compared in terms of function, it's usually the guy who is the butt of the joke there too. Since big breasts don't translate to more physical pleasure in the same way that a big dick might. In fact when I've seen women on the site complain about the comparison, I think it comes off a little like "breast size doesn't matter, penis size does". Which is just the kind of thing I've seen also said in the sph fetish.

    Not dismissing the kind of humiliation you've seen or experienced, just saying it goes both ways.

  • NO. When it is cold, do wee-wees shrink? Yes. Do Tits? No.-- And I DID say wee-wee.

  • Breasts have nothing to do with the quality of penis in vagina sex, whereas as having a small penis would would reduce sexual function, pleasurewise for the woman.

  • Women seem as obsessed by breast size as men are by penis size. Love what you got. A certain size penis on a short guy will look much different than on a tall guy so why does a measurement matter?
    What would you rather have, a overweight female with huge breasts or an extremely fit, tight female with small ones. Or a fit guy with an average penis versus a slob with a big one. It should be about the whole *package* rather than just one thing.
    I always thought mine was undersized given locker room glances, but I seem to be above average and in the ideal range. Would have been nice to know 20+ years ago in HS/College. The whole thing is stupid and many outlets are just trying to capitalize on all of our insecurities.

  • The correlation is anything you want it to be. Female breasts and male breasts, for instance. I guess people are under the false assumption because penis is mentioned that is has to do with actual intercourse. This may be true depending on who you ask.

    Whenever I see these questions, it's more about acceptance. Someone is saying I have "X" and I want to know if anyone will like me or prefer me. "X" can be areola size, cellulite, stretch marks, curvy versus skinny, weight, height and, yes, penis size.

    So, if a an morbidly obese woman asks will anyone find her attractive, it's fair to ask if she would date a guy who is four feet tall. Statistically speaking, they are about just as desirable by the opposing gender. The person doing the asking is looking acceptance. It's only fair to ask if they would accept someone with a similar set of challenges.

    Does it hurt when someone says they don't prefer you? I suppose, but you realize that you can't please everyone and move on to find someone who you can please. Both men and women state their preferences here all the time. Invariably someone is going to be left out.

  • No because lots of guys like smaller boobs, but no girl likes a small penis.

    • I wouldn't say no woman, but, there is a lot of truth to this statement.

  • No because small breasts can still be sexy and some men prefer them. Correct but I don't think any women seek out small dicks

  • Some men really love small breasts.
    More than you think.
    I do for instance.
    I also love big breasts, or average ones...
    It doesn't mean that I don't care about their size, it just means that I find all of them attractive. The exception would be really huge breast, like z cup or something, I don't know.

    Penis size is really important to me.
    My penis is 6.3" not bone pressed and 7" bone pressed.
    I am not saying that to brag, I never gave my real name here.
    I feel insecure because I never had a girlfriend, and knowing that I have a big one helps me feel better.
    It is ridiculous, but it is like that.

    The main difference between breasts and penises is that most of the time you can't see a man's penis size if you don't see him naked.
    I would like people to be able to see my penis size.
    So people tend wrongly estimate penis size.

    The other difference is that " bigger is better " tends to apply more to penis than breast.
    As I said, many men love small breasts.

  • I’d say no as although visually breast size may be pleasing, the penis size can affect sexual pleasure so a small dick is worse than small breasts.

  • Small boobs good small dicks bad.

  • In terms of visual satisfaction it could be more attractive to some men who are into big boobs. This is where it can be compared to the other.
    But in terms of sexual pleasure during intercourse, breast have no effect on how good it feels. This is where breast can not be compared to penis size since there are girls who get more pleasure from big penises. Just my opinion

  • Just because a woman boobs is big does not mean it's not sloppy. Same for dick just because it's big, does not mean it's operable.

  • Boobs aren’t genitals... not a valid comparison

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