What is the most important part when giving a blow job?

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Females only, what is the most important part when giving a blow job?Is there a differnce between a good blow job and a bad blow job?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

First of all, why don't you ask the guys as well? I mean, by all means, they should know!

Anyways, most important thing are:

- THE BALLS, gently cup them with your hands or wander over there with your tongue every one in a while

- No handjobs, I mean, if a man can choose between a blowjob and handjob he will choose blowjob because he can do the handwork himself right. Many men like it if you use no hands on the penis, only mouth

- And since you're hands are totally free now, use them to massage his balls or touch his body or even hold his hand (yes some guys like this a lot)

- Also, try taking it in deep (not deepthroating, but as deep as you can go) and after that work your tongue around the frenulum (is it called like that? anyways, the part that connect his head to the shaft) or the hole on top of his head (where he pies out, yummy). Try mixing up these things and then suddenly surprise him with your mouth taking in his whole penis.

- Now, you'll notice it when he's about to cum, or maybe he'll tell you, so now you slow down a little and after a couple of seconds you start again but now faster, and don't think about stopping, NEVER stop when he's about to come unless he wants you to (but most guys really don't).

- Hopefully he has shot his load in your mouth, now, smile at him and be a big girl and swallow it. And if he's a big guy, he'll kiss you right after. And if you don't want him cumming in your mouth just use your boobs or whatever and smear his load all over your titties.

So there you have it, manual to good blowjob. Entusiasm is, by the way, a must. If he sees you like 'doing' him, believe me, he'll love you way more (it shows you respect/accept him).

Some people say blowjobs are degrading to women, now don't take that sh*t. It's not true, you actually have his whole world in your mouth right there, I mean, good blowjobs can honestly give you a lot in your live.

Nelly-Nells · Accepted Answer

SUCKING! most girls forget that your mouth is not like your vagina it dose not automatically suck. I mean yes sometimes I don't suck as much as I should but hey it's called trial and error for a reason. Go and get a cosmopoltian mag and read it it tells you all kinds of tricks you can use to give him a kick ass bj. Try things out and see what works for him. THats what make s a good bj when the chick is willing to try new things and SUCK!

queenofpeen · Accepted Answer

Enthusiasm and genuinely enjoying it. You can go through all the physical tricks of a blowjob with finesse, but if your attitude and facial expressions make it look like it's a chore for you, it kind of ruins it.

ManFromHat · Accepted Answer

Even if you feel you know how to give great head already, you may find something in this article that may further blow your man's mind. When you completed foreplay and his d*** is proud and erect you have two options - One is that you immediately start giving him head, jump right in there or you can slowly tease him and make him wait.

Both options are fine, it all depends on the mood you're in. If it's a quick blow job in an elevator (we'll talk more about locations later) then yeah - go for the first option. But if you're more relaxed, at home, just having fun then why not make him wait just a bit. By taking your time, you build his anticipation and arousal to an incredible level. Talk dirty to him, massage your breasts with his shaft, tickle his d*** with your nails, softly touch the inside of his legs. Tickle his balls. All this will make him go crazy. But don't wait too long 'cause it can be frustrating. You have to know when to stop with the teasing.

When you're finished with foreplay you have several techniques you can try out. The options are endless actually. The art is combining all of them, using the right one's at the right time and being ready for the grand finale. So, here are a few things you will be using.

Stroking Some girls have absolutely no idea how to give head. Why on earth do they use only their mouth? Use your hands. You have to use everything you can, you're mouth is just part of the blow job. You have your hands, tongue, nails, breath, teeth (don't use them if you're a beginner 'cause it can be really painful for your partner), voice, words. Everything. If you need more tips, read Jack's Blowjob Lessons

Good luck :)

NothingGoldCanStay · Accepted Answer

It is like me asking a questioned titled. Males only! What is the most important part part when going down on a chick? lol

Stacyzee · Answer

Good blow job - No teeth Bad blow job - cut the guys penis up like you are using razor blades.

systemsuck · Answer

I like how non of the answers so far answer your question, including mine xD

darkraven · Answer

hahaha that is a question that def needs to be asked of men. I could give you some good pointers that have worked really well, but not all things work the same for all men. One thing I can tell you is you can not ignore playing with their balls. Lol