thing is, regardless of your sexual orientation, good anal play just feels good. we all have our bums wired the same way, and if you do it right for a man (or a woman), it is pleasurable.
for some people, it's something they want to try, for others not really. again, some people like breaking taboos, others like rules. personal choice.
as one guy here said, people have fetishes. just that. I love high heels, for instance.
btw male anal play, there's a technique called prostate massage. basically it's an analogy to women g-spot massage, and it makes a man come way over his head and have full-body orgasms one wouldn't even think were humanly possible. you might want to google it, if your man is into anal play, he'll just love it.
for me, a strapon is is too much ;) no way, but I once got a prostate massager out of curiosity, and wow, it used to give me hell of a ride.
when you start having a full body orgasm without shooting a single drop and it lasts.. and lasts.. and lasts.. you know you're having a time of your life.
having a toy up my butt is not something I want to brag about to my friends, but hell, the fun was definitely worth it.
added benefit is that prostate massage makes man shoot bigger loads, have stronger orgasms and better erection. the whole thing started as a medical procedure that got popular a few years ago and went mainstream.
you'd probably score like a hundred points from your guy if you just knew about it.
Yes some of us like strap on sex. A strap on can have an effect to make a bigger orgasm. It has nothing to do with being gay. Plent of guys like it and if they do they may not even say it. I like the thought of giving a girl domination control over me and taken by her strap on and perhaps spanked over their lap
This is something that is going to vary from person to person, but personally I have done this with my last 3 girl friends and I really enjoy it. Two of them really enjoyed the roll switch too and it just made for a better sex life, while one of them didn't want a repeat after the first go. It is something that happens maybe once a month or less frequently for me when I'm in just the right mood, but it does feel absolutely amazing, and to be open about your interests and fetishes feels just as good. I used to wonder whether or not this was a sign that id turn out gay but I have never been attracted to a guy or wanted to try this with one. Moreover to the jackass down there that said youd have to be into girls with dicks, this isn't true unless that really is your thing >.> all sex is personal preference in my experience. There is no black or white. It doesn't make you gay, it doesn't mean you are into trannies, it just means you like it in the ass too. When I have sex with my girl I almost exclusively play dom and I know for fact she gets what she wants. People need to be more open minded and more accepting of what they and others are into unless it clearly crosses legal boundaries, ie pedo shit. If its not for you, keep it to yourself, but if it is, why are you gonna lie to yourself? Have fun, life is short! :)
I used to be really into that (still am a bit), and unfortunately my boyfriend and I broke up before we had a chance to try it. My current boyfriend is very against it, so it probably won't happen.
But the reason I want to give my two cents is to speak up for the guys who like it and say that it doesn't say anything about their sexual orientation. It doesn't mean they're gay and crave a d*** up the butt :P It simply feels good. The male prostate is like the female g-spot, and I've even heard that it can be more intense. It's not for everyone, but those who like it shouldn't be judged. After all, it's not a stranger's place to evaluate someone's kinks anyway.
Also, he could be really into the idea of you dominating him.
thank. I used to be scared that maybe doing that type of thing made me gay or something but your it doesn't.obviously not into anymore but yeah it don't mean your a f** or anything.
so true I am not against it...if I ever had a boyfriend and I'll just bring in the talk about it and if he looks weirded out , I'll say it was just a joke and I just wanted to see if he would ever want to...but if e acts normal about it I'd tell him I'd try anything at least once so if he ever wanted , he won't feel bad to want it or ask me..if I love a guy I would but if it's not someone I love I won't do it
It's a thing some guy's are into. Has nothing to do with sexual orientation.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I would say that this is a fairly uncommon, but far from unheard-of, request. If I were to pull a number out of the air, I'd probably say that 0.5% or less of guys would want this, or 1 in 200. That means the vast majority of men would not be interested in this at all.
Having said that, probably 3 or 4% of people have (real) sexual fetishes, and this is one among many. If he likes it, and you're okay with it, then, hey, fine with me. LOL. What ever floats your boat.
Best honest answer and one that actually makes sense, I'm tired of see'ing the cliche "OH MEN LIKE IT UP THE ASS BECOS GSPOT 11ONE!" BS, but thanks for your realistic answer.
Yes I know a handful of straight guys that use dildos on their asses to get the pleasures and joy of anal.
It's got nothing to do with being gay or straight or bisexual... it's a good feeling. Period.
So do, yes.
Sometimes yes. My ex gf fucked me too. First i didn't want it coz the idea is gay or Bi but the roleplaying psychology is very nice. Thinking and put in other place to see how it is. Too bad i can't find anymore such girls round here, very hot and open minded...
I would think I ll enjoy receiving strap on from a girl and take the ride. I've heard its fun and why not give the girl a dominating control over me. it feels so good. I t may even be the next craze to take it from a girl with a strap on
i think its normalish. like to do it 1nce in a blue moon kind of way. if he wants it all the time he might be kinda gay. but if a girl is doing it , id say your getting best of both worlds and no extra d***s around .
This has been something I've wanted to do. If a woman asked to do this, I would probably be hesitant at first. Then, I'd let her...
Why are so many on this site so judgmental and condemning? Hetero guy's can LOVE anal play, and it is even better with a female partner that likes to play a little 'role reversal'!!
If you are afraid, judgmental and a coward, of course you won't try it, and just mock it, and say terrible things!!
The reality is that it feels AMAZING with the right partner, and who are you to say if that partner is a man with a penis, or a playful, lady with a strap-on toy?
Life is too short to get caught up in some STUPID ideas with all these labels!!
I was really surprised at how many of my female partners liked the idea of 'switching' roles!! make it fun, and enjoyable, and stop thinking it is wrong!!
IS it ok to want for my girl friend to fuck me with a strapon?
All butt sex is gay. If he gives or recieves. He may want the real thing instead of a strap on when he is confident enough to admit it, cause the real thing always feels better.
I'm going to go with a big NOOOOOOO on that one. But I'd imagine a lot of deeply closeted gay guys are into it. . .
I'd never thought of doing that but now that you mention it the idea of us switching places, her penetrating me, is kinda hot. It's not that I want d*** up my butt it's to try and experience it from each others' perspective, let her do a little thrusting ;)
Still not sure I'd actually do it but I can see some appeal
same here...i don't know if I was behind my boyfriend if I might giggle or laugh I don't know lol...but if I love the guy why not, if you love someone you wanna please em, I am not sure ether if I'd actually do it but I am open to trying anything once =)
Yeah it's nothing gay like all these guys are trying to say I'd never be interested in a guy doing that. But if there's a girl I'm in love with, switching places, seeing from her side of the bed so to speak so I can see what it's like for her in as much as I can, and vice versa. That's what it would be, not a homo fantasy. I'd have to really really like her, would never consider a girl I don't know that well do it either, it'd be more an intimacy thing than sensual enjoyment...?
yea I know what you mean...you want it with someone you love , who you trust and they know how you like sex so they can move to suit when they use the strap on, on you...it's something private to some people and it's kind of taboo and a new area to come upon for you and yur girl...if I love the guy I would take care of him and take it slow and not rush anything and just make the experience best that I can for him ( I sound like the guy hehe), I am not the one getting it he is :$ aw
some of them do some of them dont, it's all about personal taste
Wow...hell no! There's no way in hell id ever let a girl do anything to my a**hole, taking it in the ass is just not a desire or for that fact even a possibility of happening. He must desire a hermorph or really have fantasies of the same sex to be turned on by the thought of taking it in the butt.
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