I'm turned on by the idea of penectomy/castration...is this healthy or do I need mental help?

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So..I know this logically makes no sense...and obviously I wouldn't like this to happen in real life. But a couple of years ago I watched a movie called "teeth" (here's the wiki page if you are not familiar with it : link ) My response was odd..I was horrified and even actually kind of angry someone would make the movie because I totally perceived it as an anti-male movie. I also felt bad because even though I'm not a rapist or predator...there's guys in the film that get mutilated by her for just being jerks. I remember being a jerk to girls when I was younger (like middle school)...I matured and actually became very shy and disconnected from all girls...I have even gone to the other extreme..im always worried ill do something that a girl will find to be sexist or something...but I felt guilty when I was a jerk and kinda worried some girls back in the day probably would have liked to ger revenege on me of they got a chance...i never realized how angry women can be, and seeing girls cheer on Dawn (the girl) as hero, concerned me that I'm an object of hate..or was atleast..or might be in the future.

BUT...at the same time...it REALLY turned me on...just like the idea that a girl can be sexually dangerous and at any moment could just like emasculate me and cause pain/humiliation...I can't explain why..it just does...and to be honest I'm a virgin and never had a girlfriend or actually even kissed a girl..and I have like this fetish for women's hatred and vengeance and really get aroused by it. but I also feel kinda dreadful about it.

I watch "teeth", and other related clips from movies, other movies, or stories...I wonder if this is healthy or just crazy...what do you think? I do have this fetish but do feel dread about it too.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I think the idea of sacrificing my manhood for the perverted pleasure of a hot 'goddess' is the sexiest fantasy, bar none. The idea of willingly placing my manhood up for her knife, knowing that the orgasm I'm about to have will be my last. The idea of being tempted into giving it up to her by my own arousal, she coos softly in my ear "if you promise to give me your cock I'll make it worth your while, I'll make this final orgasm the ultimate one" and wanting to hold back but at the same time being drawn into the heat of the fantasy. Gah. So exciting. My wife and I used to roleplay with rubber bands and a knife, getting me all huge and purple, and having her rub the cold steel against the root of my member, but she wasn't as into it as I needed her to be so we've kinda stopped playing that game. Still, she was kinda floored by the idea that I'd be so pleased to see her pleasured, could be so enraptured by the moment as to forget or sacrifice my sexual future, that I'd give up my penis. When were going at it and she's had hers and its starting to chafe, she brings up this fantasy to get me over the edge.

ElijahCynicism · Accepted Answer

That school of thought is fairly common, you're on the extreme end of the spectrum granted, but it's a fairly decent sort of fetish. I'd say it was a paraphillia, because it comes from a psychological or emotional standpoint, yeah? Don't worry about it, anyway, it's healthy until you actually get castrated, but even then, it transcends healthy and becomes badass.

I have a fetish for Russian Roulette, ahaha.

Hadasha · Accepted Answer

Well for starters I just want to say that it is unfair to place the burned of someone else's hurt on yourself. Yes there are a ton of angry, bitter women in the world. And yes a lot of them have a reason to be. However, this does not mean that you should fear them or be concerned about being yourself around them. At the same time it is not a reason to be a jerk. Just be yourself and if you find out that you have offended someone simply apologize and move on.

As far as being turned on by dominate female sexual behavior, no it's not odd or strange. It is actually called sadomasochism in which men or women can be dominate. Dominate females are called dommes. Sigmund Freud said, "The only unnatural sexual behavior is none at all." I hope that helps.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I don't think you're crazy. Sounds like you may find S&M a pleasurable experience? You really don't have to worry about being perceived as sexist or whatever. if something a guy said offended me in any way I'd want to talk about it with him... and I feel like in that process I'd pretty easily figure out if you meant it or now. I think you'd probably find being in a sexual situation where the girl is dominant and you're submissive kind of exciting/arousing. it's a really common fetish, don't worry about it! as long as it's not like interfering with your life and daily interaction with women you're fine. if it's starting to affect your life maybe think about talking to a therapist or something? you sound pretty stressed out about this

cuteLiLbunny · Accepted Answer

ok well aside from the description of that movie scaring me, maybe your just submissive or something. and fantasies don't reflect life so I wouldn't worry to much.

l-hedoniste · Answer

It's a fantasy, and fantasies are for enjoying. As long as you don't slice yourself or do any permanent damage, knock yourself out.

P.S.: I am POSITIVE that there are girls out there who plug in well with your kink. If you're open about your desires, I'm sure there's a pleasant surprise out there for you.

Mac-One · Answer

If a guy is not having penetrative sex he does not have any need for a penis or testicles. The penis is not necessary for peeing; with a proper urethra reroute he can easily pee sitting and might even find that to be more pleasant and convenient.

gtnair · Answer

I have similar fantasy. That is ok as long as it make believe I often think it would be nice to be castrated. Some times penis removal is part of it as well. But then I am old and nothing workd any more so lately it is even more exciting to image a smooth look with no ball's and my stubby penis barley a half inch so nothing but a bump

Rnbull1947 · Answer

I have a strong desire to have the surgery. I'm three years post radical prostatectomy. My penis has atrophied and is useless. My testicles are also smaller and sore most of the time. I don't think having emasculation surgery has anything to do with being a male or a desire to be a female. I guess I just am past all the desire and want to be a gender neutral person. I doubt I will ever have the surgery as most health insurance won't cover it. So I'll keep the fantasy going.

Anonymous · Answer

I actually have the same fetish. That's all it is. Just a fetish. It's pretty much the only thing that gets me hard these days is the thought of a woman ruining my manhood. You just have to embrace it and learn to control it. I told my girlfriend all about it (after three years of dating) and she enjoys it and loves to threaten my package. She's not crazy or anything she just knows that I love it and wants to make me happy. Don't ever feel like a freak for having this fetish. It's a lot better than eating shit fetishes or stabbing yourself fetishes. But hey, there are women out there who are turned on by the thought of having their breasts ripped off or their clitoris' cut off. So never, ever feel strange about what gets the blood flowing down there. You sound like a smart young man with a lot of potential. Good luck.

I'm turned on by the idea of penectomy/castration...is this healthy or do I need mental help?

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