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Should I only look for men with big d***s from now on?

Like not even out of preference, but out of the likelihood that no other guy will have me, if I break up with my boyfriend (god forbid!) ? Lol seriously. My boyfriend has a huge d***. He's 9 inches and thick on top of that. The guy I had before him was above average too, but I didn't sleep with him much. He was only 7 inches though and his d*** seems much smaller than my bf's. I think he has ruined me for Any other man. I was super tight when we got together and now I'm much looser. Could have something to do with the fact that we have sex a lot (my libido is through the f***ing roof, it's really distracting). So my question is to the guys of average size out there, who aren't too thick or too long. Would you go out with a girl who had been with a huge guy before and isn't as tight anymore? Or is it a turn off for you and you prefer tighter girls, just like some girls prefer bigger d***s? I don't have a preference at all. I'm just enjoying the guys I happen to fall for. It takes a while to get me in the sack anyway so it's not like I sought these guys out. Although I will say that men with bigger d***s seen to be attracted to me. The whole guys sending pictures of their d***s to girls was something that amused me a lot when I was single and flirting. Guys who wanted to hook up with me or thought I was a sure thing would send me pictures of their penises. My friends have experienced the same thing, it's nothing special about me, it's just the ones I have pictures of are pretty nice and thick, long sometimes. Probably my body type or something idk. I read somewhere that men with big d***s are generally (not always) attracted to curvier girls. I do have curves, unfortunately - wide hips and a big ass. Meh. So yeah give me some feedback. Would you want it or no? I need to know what my options will be in the future if I lose my love lol
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  • im above average, I'm not 7, and I'm not below 6...i think the average is 5.5-6? I could be wrong? I'm not super thick or super thin...kinda like in the middle...

    if you're insecure about being "lose" then stop having sex so often..

    i mean come on, I've been with girls who have had a lot bigger penis's than me and a lot smaller...its all about how the guy works it, I know the question is less for what you want but what "average" guys want...we all want something tight, but even the tightest p****** get wet...so I don't think because youve been with a big d*** for a while means you'll hasve to stick to "huge/hung" dudes...it should be whoever you feel comfortable with, once it hits an emotional level with your partner, no size matters...its all emotional

    hope this helps. best of luck to the 'average' guy who gets you next...lol, just don't be insecure...ive been with girls who say they've slept with 1-2 guys and are "looser" than girls who have been with 15-20...it actaully blew my mind...but hey, whatever lol

    • 5.588 is the most accurate and reliable 'average' length I've found in a study.

    • really? hmm interesting

    • I'm not insecure at all, please lol I'm just trying to understand the male mind that's all. Just because it's not a serious issue for me doesn't mean men don't take it seriously. If anything these answers say that men are picky about vaginas lol and I can't just stop having sex with my boyfriend Haha

  • Here is a little secret about your vagina: it's shape keeps changing. When you have sex a lot with a guy with a big d***, it gets looser. If you won't have sex for a while it will get tighter. So your vagina is probably quite stretched right now to accommodate those 9 inches you've been putting in there, but it'll be just fine for your next boyfriend no matter what his size is.

    I'm probably averaged sized and I've slept with a few girls who have had much bigger guys before me, and I never had a problem.

Most Helpful Girls

  • As many guys as I have been with big or small or average (which is abundant) my p*ssy seems to fit them all very nicely.

    We relax and muscles relax and we can take a very large penis, but it also stays secure around the tinyest of penises also and we have the ability to contract or vaginal muscles so that our pinky finger would feel tight in the hole.

  • I've had an 8 incher and then went to a guy who was about 5 inches. Honestly, I didnt' have any problem. I wondered if I would, because of the emotional hangup I had on the first guy. But when it actually came time for it, there was no problem. I came twice as often with the smaller guy, honestly.

  • Why do you even ask this question? Aren't you happy with your current boyfriend or is just a temporal thing? And most guys find loose p****** a turn off

    • No I'm happy but I'm just the type of person who asks lots of questions lol I thought about this because guys always complain on here about penis size and I kind of already thought many of the. Would be just as judgmental toward women if they could tell that girls like me were "loose" because we have been with bigger guys. And I do want to know what my options would be lol

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  • First of all, you can do exercises called Kegels to keep the tone in your vagina and prevent the looseness. Second, those muscles are elastic and if you stop having sex with guys that are huge, it should tighten back up on its own. I feel like you're too concerned with the size of his penis. If you're going to be happy with a guy long term, you need someone of adequate size, whatever that means for you, who makes you happy on many other fronts. Enjoy your guy now but when you start shopping for someone long term, don't make that your priority. After all, the old saw is right that says it's not the size of the dog in the fight, it's the size of fight in the dog. If a guy is too small, please, don't point and snicker. Just make an excuse and move on.

    • Tighten back up kinda in a few years if she doesn't use it at all

    • lol

    • Dudeman, not true. With the right exercises and given her age, she'll tighten back up if she was snug to begin with plus it's pretty minor surgery if it comes to that.

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  • doesn't really matter does it? If you want to be effective in bed, orals the way to go.There's a reason your tongue is the muscle you have the most control over.

  • Any chick who isn't happy with 7 inches sure as hell won't be happy with me. So no.

  • Other guys won't see it as a problem at all, just as long as you do NOT tell them that they are small and you've been with bigger and better.

  • Dont worry you will be OK ^.^

    • Apparently some people disagree with you xD But thanks girl :)

    • Yeh looks like it lol. And your welcome;)

    • Don't worry too much about the disagreement. There's too many people on here that know nothing about sex or the human body, who think that a vagina just keeps getting bigger and bigger each time you have sex. This is a large part of the reason you'll see so many comments about only wanting a virgin. I'm sure you've noticed for yourself that even though you are able to more easily take your large boyfriend now you still need time to get ready and he can't just put it right in.

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  • You'll be fine, muscles will get tight eventually

  • "He was only 7 inches though and his d*** seems much smaller than my bf's. I think he has ruined me for Any other man. I was super tight when we got together and now I'm much looser"

    So, basically, you're not going to feel it as much. So, you, most likely, have a preference. And even though women have moved on from guys like that, they still remain their preference. So, it's clear something has changed.

    So, would I date a woman with your sexual history? For sex, sure. For a relationship, no thanks.

    • That's interesting. I assumed the issue would be sex itself, but no, you have some personal issues with girls sleeping with bigger guys that prevents you from being in a relationship with them...thanks for that, now I'm even more curious lol

  • Its definitely a turn off but if you just stay with this guy what's the problem

  • Just don't have sex for a month and you'll tighten back up. Go too long and you'll revirginize yourself lol.

  • Yeah stick to guys with huge ones because if you don't and you ever let it slip that you've been with a thick niner you'll f**k his world up and he'll probably have a complex for the rest of his life.

  • I’m ok with it I’m a little above avg. but I’m ok with a size queen

  • I'm just an average guy with an average d*** and I would f*** you. Just to show you that it isn't the size, it's the effort given and the way you work it. Not saying I'm a sexual dynamo, but I would say that I'm an excellent lover. It's all about great foreplay and build up. Not just puttin it in and f***ing. I have been with 9 women and I could make all of them orgasm, except one, who said she could only orgasm with a vibrator. lol. So yeah, I'd do you! lol

    • I already know that but OK, thanks. xD

  • Ive been with a huge penis before a 9/10 and now I'm with a guy who is 5 inches and I am supertight. You just need to give your body time to get back to normal.

    • Stop f***ing the huge penis and then your penis will get back to normal. Vagina is like a rubberband.

    • **Typo** I meant Stop f**king the huge penis, then your p**** will get back to normal. Vagina is a rubberband.

  • To answer your question, no I wouldn't date a girl if I knew

    plus I'm not into fatties

    • Lmao. Oh damn, well at least you're upfront about it, right? Don't worry, we "fatties" will leave you alone from now on.

    • good

  • No I wouldn't want a girl like that, keep to your preference

  • If you break up with your current Boyfriend all you have to do is wait 45-90 days and your pus'sy will be tight again. It's muscle streches and shrinks. I think...

    • If somebody hasn't done the splits in three months they won't be able to do it anymore. Lol no way that sticks around for a long while

  • Well, if you have a lot of ass you'll need a big one in order to reach the goal from behind. . .

    • Lol goal from behind.

    • Hey, it's true! There's a reason why horses are so well hung. . .

    • So my big ass is average-sized-d*** repellant ? Good to know. I'm not sure if that's true but I can see the logic there

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  • what do you mean>>> "He was only 7 inches though and his d*** seems much smaller" ?

    u are ridiculous!

  • Funny things you said:

    "only 7 inch"

    "isn't tight anymore".

    • HAHAHHAHA I didn't even realize when she said "ONLY 7 inch" lololol

    • gaping whore!

    • Guess I am lol not much I can do about that though *shrug*

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