My first time...which position is best?

[Anonymous]

My big day is finally here! Okay it's probably TMI, but I need some advice. So me and my guy played "just the tip" a few days ago and tried out some different positions to see which one I was comfortable with before we actually have sex. All the reading I've done says girl on top is best for the girl's first time, but we tried that and it's just weird to me because though I can control the depth of penetration, I can't willingly cause myself pain, you know what I mean? I'm really tight and I liked it better when he took control with his penis and inserted his "tip" into me. So my question is, will I regret not doing girl on top for the full penetration? Or will missionary be fine? What's your experience?

[Prometheus42]

I'm going with missionary. Easy for you, you can relax, be more comfortable and allow him to enter you slowly at first etc. If he's a virgin too, it's good for him, he can get familiar with the thrusting action, holding his weight so you don't get crushed LOL etc.

Just the tip? Is that just the tip of his penis entering you? Cos I would struggle to do that and not want to go deeper :-D

[Asker]

Haha yeah just the head of his penis. We discovered that I'm really really tight and I don't think he wanted to cause me much more pain at the moment, so we held off. But I do hope he was struggling and that he wanted to go deeper!

[Prometheus42]

Most girls are tight/somewhat tight at the immediate entry - but one you get past that it's all good. A lot of guys "definitely" do not want to hurt their gf's/partners in bed, so yep he probably wanted to go deeper (it's a great feeling for a guy!) he has a "sentitivity chip" that kicked in - that puts you and your needs/feelings ahead of his own :-)

[dnately]

I think missionary is the best position to start with. It's a simple position that seems to work best for everyone.

But more important than that, is to remember to not treat this like rocket science. Take it easy. After all, it's suppose to be fun and enjoyment. Try missionary, if it doesn't work, try something else. And don't forget to relax and have fun.

[Asker]

You're right...Im def over thinking this. Okay my mission (no pun intended) is to relax, enjoy myself and let him do all the work!

[dnately]

Let us know how it worked out...

[Asker]

I just had sex! Haha, okay it was actually almost 24 hrs ago, but I'll say it hurt. A LOT. Def glad I went with missionary. I was with a very caring and gentle man, and I couldn't have asked for a better experience. Still waiting for sex to feel good though...how long do y'all think that'll take?

[dnately]

Congratulations! I'm so happy for you. It won't hurt as much next time. Maybe still a little. Will probably not hurt at all in another 3-4 times.

[stubbsy]

on your hands and knees butt in the air4, but make sure its you in control of penetration, as he will get over excited and want to go deeper and faster, so tell him to leave everything to you, as this can become sore for girls as your hymen rips the deeper he penetrates, but this possition is the best as you are able to pull away if you felt the need, enjoy,x

[bubbakong2006]

Missionary is best and you both get to watch and he can see your pussy and your tits which will make him very horny and hard plus he can tell by the look on your face if you are enjoying it or it’s hurting you slowly thrusting till he’s deep inside you then pump harder and faster till he cums deep in you and I bet you will cum to it’s awsome

[Anonymous]

tell him to be gentle, make sure you're lubed up, and missionary is the most comfortable for a lot of girls. I lost mine in missionary and it did hurt, but I think doggy would've hurt much more