How do I surprise my boyfriend by dressing in lingerie for the 1st time?

[bmo83]

My boyfriend and I have been together for about 6 months now. He's a very, very special man that is slowly becoming a huge part of my life. He's sweet, thoughtful, caring, intelligent, funny as hell, and just an all-around sweetheart. We have yet to even get into a fight. Anyway, let's get to the juicy part: our sex is really good. No complaints whatsoever. We're very much attracted to each other and our chemistry is off the charts. I want to surprise him this weekend by showing him a bit of my devious side. I love sex, dressing up sexy, and am very comfortable with my sexuality, but I'm feeling a little confused about how to actually execute this idea of mine. See, we only really see each other during the weekends (Fri. night-Sun night). If he doesn't have to work the weekend, I sleep over his house from Fri. to Sun. He lives with his parents (moved back home from NY because his mom got sick), so it's a little difficult to be able to pull this off. I was wondering if you guys had any ideas to throw at me and, also, if ALL guys like their girlfriends to surprise them like this. Your suggestions are GREATLY appreciated. Thanks! :)

[AustinMan]

If money permits, I'd take this little show & tell off site to a hotel so you get the privacy to even make a little noise. I'm going to presume you're a pretty vanilla couple and spare you some of the spicier tricks that come with a more kinky relationship. If I'm wrong, let me know.

You probably know your guy well enough now to know what blows his skirt up. The style you choose for this adventure has nothing to do with who you really are. You're taking on the role of the vamp so be his kind of vamp. For me, it's the trashy look: short, tight, low cut, exposed. You know what he likes. Maybe you surprise him by showing up in an overcoat and TAAAA DAAAA you flash him your outfit. Strut your stuff, use those bedroom eyes of yours and just generally give him the come catch me come f*** me look. I suggest you wear at least 4" stiletto pumps as they are the sexiest shoes on the planet. If you need a source, see sexyshoes.com. If you like to play games, you can mock resist and make him work to get at your smokin' hot body. That builds passion.

[CRamos3]

I couldn't agree more -- especially with the heels suggestion and that very kind... a lover came into the hotel room I had gotten for us with a long coat and pointy toed red stilettos and nothing else...she slipped the coat off and it was game on! and BTW...dont ever take the stilettos off ;)

[AustinMan]

Agreed. The pumps stay on the whole time unless he takes them off. I personally like a G string or tiny boy shorts to go with the pumps just to have something to rip off and make her feel completely exposed and vulnerable to her big, bad daddy!

[CRamos3]

AustinMan - ill give you that -- ripping clothing off is extremely hot and does add fuel to the already flaming fire!

[stubbsy]

Execute your Lingerie with a game, try asking him questions he might know about you, and when he gets one correct, remove an item of clothing, when your down to your las two items, ask him a question that he possibly couldn't know, then put back on some clothes, eventually his heat will grow for you beyond anything before, and after a few scarey moments of you putting on clothes, you eventually remove the lot, but because your Lingerie was sexy, he will want you there and then, but don't allow this, let him wait until he wins and gets you naked, because then, he will be so pleased and up for anything, you will be an amazing part of his future and past, trust this when I say, this will never fail, good luck and enjoy,x

[squeakyclean]

do it sneakily. sort of wear a skirt and bend over to pick something up to catch him off guard. then after that sort of bend over from the front so he can see what bra you're wearing. I think that's really kinky.

if you can't get a private space, travel elsewhere so you have an excuse to rent a place..

personally, I'm not a fan of the lingerie but I would be happy you took the effort to dress up.

it's nice of you to want to please your boyfriend that way. good luck(:

[debsman]

If its possible to get a nice hotel room for one of those nights then the sky would be your limit. Sexy lingerie, wine, etc. I for one love to have my treat wrapped in a nice wrapper, if ya know what I mean.