Having cerebral palsy first time having sex... What do I do?

Ok so I have cerebral palsy and it's spastic diplegia and I'm about to start dating this guy and I know we're going to have sex and I'm scared... Show More

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  • Echoing the other answerers, relax, have fun, don't expect everything to work perfectly, because it never does, and just enjoy it. If something isn't working, giggle about it and try something else. Don't freeze up or make a big deal about it, because he won't mind; he's HAVING SEX, so he's not going to be complaining.

    Sure, you may have some limitations, but do the best you can, and make having an enjoyable experience your priority. Don't have a lot of huge, high expectations that you (or he) can't hope to live up to, or you'll worry yourself to death and won't have fun. And that would suck.