Is it possible that he is sexually attracted to me and that's why it's so hard for him to discuss?

[Anonymous]

I have several platonic guy friends that have NO problem talking about sex. "when I was doing this girl doggy" or "when she was on top"...even the shy guy friends I know have no problem. I got into the topic with this guy I like. He usually teases me and flirts with me anyway so what the heck. But it's different from him. He's BRIGHT red. Was beginning to describe a funny situation with an ex and he would pause and give me this dr. evil kinda smile like it was kinky but silly. for instance "yea...so I put her up against the couch"...evil kinky smile...then blushed..."I was behind her..." evil kinky smile...blushed some more...yea...and...yea...he covered his face and was beet red. Seriously, I know guys of all types that have absolutely no prob talking about it like it's some macho man thing to do. Why so different with him? I even joked "aahh...I see, thank you for the visual" and he was BEET red again. is it possible that he is sexually attracted to me and that's why it's so hard for him to discuss?

[KukyElric]

Its normal if he likes you there could be 2 reasons why he's shy he could be feeling bad because he's talking about and ex with you and he likes you, or he could be in a weird way thinking about things he could do to you I've been there I have tons of guy friends I talk about everything with them but when its a guy I like I have my blond moments ( no offence to anyone) and if I'm talking about sex and he's there I think (hey maybe he would like to know that I like this or he would like to know I'm open for this type of stuff and so on) and that's why I blush ... I'm a dork :P hope it helps

[Asker]

So helpful! He use to have no prob telling me and now suddenly he can't. It was interesting when he was just pausing especially the description part. In fact, he was so shy to tell me at first and then I forced him. He could barely look at me!

[Confussions]

Most likely he was shy talking to you about it because he likes you and waa a bit embaressed. You may think all guys have no problem talking about it but some guys are more modest then others lol

[Asker]

So what do you say to the fact that he had told me this same story before with no problem? In fact, he never had a problem talking about it before.

[Confussions]

Because his feelings probably changed, or this was a differant situation. the psychology of the human brain is quite complicated lol

[Asker]

or this was a different situation? No, it was the same story. He use to tell me them as a show off thing just as my other guy friends. Now he is embarassed and can't.

[Confussions]

Yes because he likes you now! he probably didn't before therfore had no problem telling you

[Asker]

it was an embarassing story but he wasn't even embarassed the first time. macho and much less details. This time, much more details. The thing was that he would pause during the "set up" of the story. Where they were, how he had her. wow. He was so cute and red! But I never know, ya know?

[Confussions]

well is he was describing it more its probably because he trusts u, feeling change :)

[Asker]

well as I said before, I joked :thanks for the visual_ and he blushed! Covered his face!

[Countryman]

I think you are exactly right. I think he wants to try to talk like the rest of the guys, to tell his storys to. but he likes you so its tough for him.

[Asker]

He use to have NO problem telling me too!

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't share my sexual fantasies with anyone, except a partner. And I wouldn't share details of my past with anyone... not even a partner!