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How to ask for pegging

Wondering how I can ask my wife to do me anally. I want to explore that part of my body. Girls, how would you like to be asked? Guys, if done already, how did you ask? or was it proposed to you? How did it all work out? Please give details

Updates:
Asked this weekend and she seemed neutral on the subject... Will try again later on this week. It was a great make out session, otherwise.. Can't wait to make it work.
Sent her some links to some educational stuff about prostate massages, to help her get into the idea. With the right techniques she'll have me screaming for more...
Bought a 1.5'' butt plug the other day... tried it this morning in the shower, felt great after a while ... now I really want her to do me good... how big should I dilate myself? should I do the butt plug before and how long before the pegging should I do the butt plug? any advice?

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  • I'd prefer him to just ask straight out, but I'm not sure how well that would work on other girls. I've done this with my partner, but my partner and I have always been very open about our sexual fantasies, and when we found out it was something that we were both interested in, we went out and bought a strap-on. Does your wife do any anal play with you (i.e. prostate massage)? Have you talked about anal play at all? I'd start there and see if she's into the idea, and if she's cool with that, then ask her how she'd feel about pegging.

What Girls Said 5

  • I'd want him to ask me, I'm open to trying new things. I actually ask my boyfriend if he'd like me to play in that area (return the favour) but he doesn't want to. For some reason I'd love to try a strapon on him

    • He's lucky... but you mean you've asked him and he said "no"?

    • Yeah, I've said I'd like to and he said no

    • I think he doesn't know what he's missing...

  • Information is always the best place to start, because there are so many misconceptions about pegging (gay, it hurts). Sometimes it takes time to get over those misconceptions, though, so a mix of patience and information is what has the best chance of success. DO NOT show her pegging p*rn because it is always accompanied by humiliation, feminization and verbal abuse.This article covers all the information you are looking for: link Good Luck!

  • Ask her opinion on pegging, if she says she is game...then it is a go. If she cringes, it is a no...and a good indicator that she is not going to be very fun and not very concerned about your pleasure.

  • I wouldn't be able to handle it. I think that might actually be the end to my relationship. In my head, I'm reasoning: if you want something up your butt, then go get a man.That's just me though

What Guys Said 3

  • the longer the better she will be able to pg you !

    • it's not about length it's about width...

    • i was talking about the guy who bought a but plug, I was answering him but I agree with you

  • my wife gives the best blow jobs with a finger in my ass once and a while. so I came home with a strapon, after watchin on youporn a few amateur clips together. she did me and we were both amazed. I try to get her to suprise me but she needs me to beg her, I want her to beg me

  • Tell her that you want to spice things up romantically. She'll ask how, and you can ease that part in (no pun intended).It feels amazing. Be sure to use lots of lube and keep it clean.

    • thanks! but already tried anal by myself, and now want my wife to do me..

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