I wouldn't really think anything of it. I'm not always going to be around when he's in the mood. He may have had it since before we got together, and will probably still have it after we're done. Having a toy for personal use on one's own time doesn't have anything to do with our sex life together, unless of course we choose to incorporate toys. My boyfriend and I have discussed it, and we do eventually want to bring in some toys, though I only have the one vibrator at the moment.
The only reasons I'd have a problem with a fleshlight, or p*rn, or any other kind of 'aid', is if he preferred it over activities with me, rejects me in favor of toys or other methods, or it otherwise negatively affects our sex life.
I'd wanna touch it, cos I've always wondered what they feel like...
But nah, it wouldn't bother me. I think there is this huge stigma attached to men owning sex toys, and it's a complete double standard. It's common, and even 'sexy', for a woman to own a sex toy. Why can't it be the same for a guy?
ENJOY YOUR FLESHLIGHT, BUDDY!
I'll comment on that, It fells soft, spongy, (add hot water + lube) = similar vagina sensation, each thrust gives as much pleasure as the first if not more, also for each thrust depending on the air vent (variation) adds or lessens the suction. When I first got it. 7 strokes of 0 air vent and I was over.
Dang. Then I think I'd feel threatened by the fleshlight. lmfao No, seriously.
It's not really sexy if a girl owns a sex toy I don't see where you got the idea that owning a sex toy is sexy lmao.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!it doesn't bother me. I have one so why can't he? Although if we're dating hopefully he'll be using less of them and more of me. :)
it wouldn't bother me at all... there is nothing wrong with owning toys of that nature heck I have a few myself
pretty upset because it would make me feel like I'm not enuff. now if he just gets off continuously on doing various things and that's just him -then fine or if its for when I'm not around then fine but if I catch him in the act and like it was a secret-BIG PROBLEM
It wouldn't bother me... depending on how things played out in our relationship. Am I still able to satisfy him sexually? Would he let me use it on him? Is he open to other toys? What does he think of me having a vibrator? It just depends. I'm sure guys feel similarly for girls that have sex toys.
That'd be cool. I have a dildo so why shouldn't he have a Fleshlight right?
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