First of all, (virtually) ALL guys WANT sex. You can go ahead and assume that any guy who is paying any extra attention to you is at least somewhat sexually attracted to you, even if only in a very general way.
So the question is: is sex ALL that the guy wants, or does he want something more?
A guy who only wants sex isn't going to hang around very long after you tell him that he isn't getting any anytime soon. For him, why would he bother, when there are other girls around who are much more willing? If sex is all that he wants, he's going to try a whole lot of girls for a short time, filter out the ones who aren't willing, and focus on the ones who are. That's pretty straightforward.
Now, if a guy actually is interested in a relationship, then he's going to be willing to wait longer (not forever, but longer), and he's going to be willing to put more effort into the relationship, because he wants the relationship.
Right now, it's too early to know what he's looking for, but it's getting close to the time when you'll have your answer.
In the future, you need to learn not to ask questions that you won't like the answers to. His past is his past, and really doesn't matter anymore. His present is what is important, unless his past is continuing to affect his present.1 0 0 0I see.. Do you think I should contact him or just wait? I was gonna contact him to see how he was doing but not say anything about the date and see what he says.. Is that a god idea?
Why didn't you ever initiate back? I don't know why things didn't go out on the dating.. But I'll tell you my opinion on initiating conversations/dating at least. I hate doing it all the time, and I think the girl is just leading me on/isn't interested.
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0 1no I would continue trying because it really does sound like he wants to date you, allthough it might be for sex and I don't know if your chill with that
0 0 0 0How do you know it's for sex? How'd you pick up on that?
if like after 4 dates you don't give him anthing sexual he stops talking to you
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