Why does my boyfriend enjoy me being fingered more than I do?!

My boyfriend is AMAZING at fingering... nobody has ever done it as well as him but when he does he gets really excited and actually moans... I don't get it? How could he be getting pleasure in his fingertips?! haha. Is it because I'm wet? Or because he can feel my muscles tightening around his fingers? Why do guys like fingering girls? I thought it was just to get the girl in the mood?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • lol! GREAT QUESTION - I rated 5 star. The response is kinda complicated and I don't really know. I do know that I love fingering and pleasing my girl BUT I don't get off to it. I might make some slight noise to let her know that I am enjoying myself and I might even be pretty hard and might be getting some pleaure just grinding up against the sheets but the main pleasure is probably from the looks, feeling, and even the pheromones.

    STILL - depending on how intense his moans are it may be the p*rnstar effect. - sorta how they moan so much waiting for the guy to come on them... like really? are you really getting off waiting to get come all over your face? or when they are moaning while have a D*** shoved down their throat gagging. I don't know but you should bring it up kinda sarcastically if it bothers you. say something like "wow.. do you really get off more than me while giving?" .. actually maybe that's a bad idea. idk.. glad he is at least good at it though!

    • wow...thats very descriptive...you seem to have a lot of expireience :)

    • wanna find out? lol I'm told I have magical piano fingers. but sometimes I have to save it for the ivories.

  • I LOVE to pleasure my girl. It is a massive turn-on to see/feel/hear her being pleasured, and it's also a bit of a dominance/control thing where I enjoy being in control of her pleasure. Her reactions are amazing, plus, I know that when it comes MY turn, she's going to go all out herself, so everything about it is good.

    Also, depending on the girl, sometimes I'm worn out and she's ready to go again, so I can use my fingers on her while I get a bit of rest.

    Finally, there are some things that you can only do with your fingers, such as stimulating her clit and penetrating her at the same time.

    I don't know that I enjoy it MORE than the girl does (she would argue that that isn't even possible), but I definitely enjoy it.

Most Helpful Girl

  • Try fingering yourself and see what he gets out of it.

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  • When I finger a girl, I get really into it as I do when I do anything sexual because I'm just awesome and passionate that way :D

    He's probably just enjoying that you are enjoying it. Personally, when I have a girlfriend, its ALL about her. I'd wait to come for hours (true story) just so she can come 4-9 times. I love it.

  • It's not that his fingers are sensitive, it's that the biggest sexual organ is one's brain. He gets excited from pleasing you.

  • I love doing it too! Like me, he loves the feel of the female body, especially the genitals, and for us, and most straight men, there's nothing more wonderful than a sexually aroused woman. The things you mention are all part of it too.

  • He probably likes turning you on

    moaning seems a bit excessive, but it doesn't really matter

  • He's getting pleasure from your pleasure. He enjoys giving it to you :)