How do I bring up pegging?

I am guy and I want to try pegging (having my girlfriend penetrate me anally with a dildo/vibrator strap-on) but have no idea how to bring it up? Any ideas?

 

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  • GravyGirl pretty much has it right...ease into the idea by first just bringing up the subject and judging her reaction. If she says something along the lines of "oh my god, that is so weird and gross! I can't believe a guy would ask his girlfriend to do that?!" then you know not to approach it further with her! But she may be fairly calm about it and then you could tell her you would like to try it. Have you ever talked to her about fetishes before? Try it. Some people can totally get down with them, so I wouldn't worry too much. Personally, I MIGHT try it with a boyfriend...if he honestly really wanted me to and either way, I would definitely thank him for having enough trust in me to bring it up and ask (because it's kinda scary to share weird fantasies and when you can, I think it shows a strong relationship). The idea doesn't turn me on at all, but I am of the mind that it's only fair to at least give a partner's fetish a chance. "Pegging" isn't an uncommon turn-on for guys and it isn't one of the crazy-weird fetishes out there, so I think you stand a fair chance at success.

What Girls Said 4

  • I'd ask her if she's even heard of it first. Like in a neutral sort of way. I don't think I'd be down for this and I'm not sure how many girls would, so if you lead with really wanting it you might scare her. If she's familiar with it and doesn't seem freaked out by it, then you can start hinting that it might be something you would like.Just curious, do you consider yourself at all bi-sexual?

    • All males, straight and gay, have sensitive spots up their ass. That doesn't make them gay or bi, just smart.

    • I didn't say it did, I was just asking.

  • Ask her if she wants to try anal. Chances are that she'll say, "you try sticking something up your ass!" Then you will say, "sure!" There you go, problem solved haha.

  • 3mo

    Just ask sugar. Dont be afraid...just be honest..and if im the one being asked..I prefer the male assure me he's straight or is turned on by my female attributes. .thats just me though. My ex bf LOVED it and he was straigjt as an arrow

  • 39d

    Dont Do It!! Unless you want all her friend

What Guys Said 2

  • talk about fetishes, that's how I figured out my girl was like..obsessed with wanting to do things to my butt (ie licking, fingering, toying)

  • Ask her?Ease into the topic. Is she willing to finger you first? Use a butt-plug?If she's willing to get comfortable with those things, you can then try easing up to a strap-on.

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