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I lied about not being a virgin...what should I do?

so I lied to this guy that I'm talking to about not being a virgin. so he thinks that I'm experienced in having sex. the subject cam up when he told me what he wanted to do to me and we kind of sexted for awhile. so now anyways he thinks I'm not a virgin and he wants to hook up with me. not that I don't want to hook up with him but I'm still a virgin and he doesn't know that. I don't know if I want to tell him either because then he'll know that I lied to him and probably won't want to be with me!
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Well the guy is experienced with having sex with a few girls. Not sure how many because I never asked lol. But I don't want him to think I'm just a prude or something. I do want to make him my boyfriend at some point but at time I do think that he only wants me for sex. So how do I find out that it's just for sex because I wouldn't really want to lose my virginity to a guy like that I guess.
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  • I guess it depends on what sort of relationship you're looking for with this guy.

    Do you want him to be your boyfriend? if so - then honest is the best policy. Just tell him that you got nervous, and didn't know what to say - that you were worried about sounding inexperienced and immature and it just came out. And you didn't know how to correct yourself. But let him know that you are, in fact, a virgin.

    Just a hook up/friends with benefits? I don't necessarily in this case think you need to sort out the truth from lies. Whilst I think it would have been better if you were honest in the first place - hindsight really is a bitch and you can't go back and do anything about it now. So whilst not necessarily tell him you lied (to save yourself some embarrassment) at least tell him that you are inexperienced. Let him think of it as he will - either deduce that you lied, or think that you've only done it once or twice. And as such - tell him that are you to do anything - you'd appreciate due care seen as you and your body aren't all that used to it yet.

  • Definitely depends on what you're looking for. If sex is a possibility, tell him before, because it's going to be obvious. You can't control how he reacts but just be honest about why you said what you did. Depends on the guy but I doubt he'll be too offended.

Most Helpful Guys

  • It's not a problem, but if you want him to be extra gentle your first time, you're going to have to tell him..

  • Tell it to him : it's of no real importance. But if it's your virginity that swings him, beware.

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  • Just tell him, it's not really that uncommon.

  • Go to local bar and have sex with random strangers a couple of times, dah isn't that obvious lol...or you know, you could just tell him

  • So? Dump the guy

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