How you do know he is bisexual?

This is a hard one. People pretty much can tell if a guy is gay, but not if he is bisexual... so what do you think would be signs of a guy that likes both sexes?

Also, if you find out that your guy is in fact attracted to men, what would you do honestly?


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  • I think that true attraction would be pretty obvious to notice. Otherwise, there aren't really any reliable signs, from what I've read. More people seem to be bi-curious than actually bisexual. It probably has to do with the difference between emotional attraction (which would be considered bisexual) and physical attraction (which could be bisexual or bi-curious behavior).

    The only way to know for sure is to talk with the guy. Chances are good that if he is bi-something, he won't tell you the truth for a long time. There's almost as much stigma attached with being bisexual as being gay (or even more, in the case of men).

    That's my guess, anyway.

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      I am a bisexual man. I have known it since I was 14 years old, and have hidden it most of my life. Over the years both men and women have asked me if I was bisexual, and most of the time I denied it. My attraction to men is predominantly sexual, mainly because the men I am actually attracted to for more than sex are either out of reach, or still locked in the closet. These days I am very comfortable in my bisexual skin, and neither flaunt nor hide it.

What Guys Said 2

  • Being bi as my as my old roommate and good friend used to say. Bi is just being able to have a deep emotional and sexual relationship with either sex. He is the only bi man I have known (also worth noting he was totally unwilling to have open relationships).

    Honestly if he is attracted to men you do the same thing as a man who is attracted to women. You fight for him or leave him.

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  • Well I have say that I have concluded that I must be bisexual. I don't know to what degree. I have never been with a guy in any real heavy sexual act. I love watching bisexual porn (limited gay porn) and lesbian porn. I almost never look at straight porn. I would rather masturbate in front of the hotest woman than have sex with her. Why, because I want her to watch me enjoy playing with my own penis. I love some of the girls I have dated. They enjoy doing bi things to me as well.

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What Girls Said 5

  • Talk to him. Does he look and comment on other guy's? If you are concerned bring up the subject casually.

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  • Honestly I wouldn't even care because if he was BI I would respect his decision and be like you do what you have to do. Because that's your decision I wouldn't treat them differently because everyone deserves to be treated equally. If you think he is BI be like I have a question I don't mean to be rude but are you BI?

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  • Well you could ask him... tell him "no offense but are you bi? I was just curious" he will answer you.. if he's shy about it he may start denying it but that would be the best way in my opinion.

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  • he has a bag wth his roll on, fface cream, toothbrush and cologn and he calls that bag his cosmetic bag. he's been in jail for 5 years and his friends seem to be like him

    is he somewhat gay

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  • I've been in a relationship with my child father for three years. Before he met me he was incarcerated years earlier. I'm curious if he is bisexual. I asked he always gets annoyed and denies it. He said he can never do anything with any man cause it would cause him to question his whole life. He said he wouldn't mind being friends with gay people long as they don't try nothing sexual. I'm curious why he likes to suck my fingers and Roughly have annual sex. Does he display signs of bisexuality.

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