Do you like your boyfriend to play with your hair during bj?

Girls... will you let your man to touch your head or hair during bj or back and forth during bj it makes me a bit nervous I don't know what she is thinking and afraid to ask
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  • I like it when my guy does it, but it's definitely something where you need to let the girl take the lead on it until you know her comfort level. And if she pulls back, then you need to ease up and let her pull away if she wants to. Asking is always a good idea. My dude usually lays back with his arms behind his head and just lets me do my thing, but I do enjoy the rare occasions when he gets involved with his hands. In which case he'll stroke my hair or face, pull my hair back away from my face gently OR roughly depending on mood, or occasionally uses his hold on my hair to control my movements.

  • Its a completely personal.

    My ex rarely did, but the occasions when he did enjoy it so much that he put his hands on my head, scraped back my hair to watch me, I loved it. It made me feel closer to him - in some ways more romantic to look up and see him looking at me.

    I would start just by touching her hair, and if she's OK with it put your hand lightly on her head. After your done you can say "did you like it" and then she'll open up and say yes/no/actually I prefer this.

    Don't be scared, you're not about to break up, you just want to make it a more pleasurable experience!

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  • I like it, my boyfriend does it quite a lot, he strokes my face too, and touches my nipples, and they are all lovely things to have done to you while your giving a bj.However, one thing I actually hate is when a guy forces your mouth further down his penis.Not nice, and a bit disrespectful.

  • I love it when he grabs my hair during, let's me know he's starting to lose control

  • I think it's cute when the guy tries to hold my hair out of the way, I think it's nice. I don't think it's nice if he tries to move my head back and forth though, if he pushes too far downn!

  • Yes provided that he doesn't rip it out or get his hand super stuck in it. (I have curly hair).

  • Yes I love it a lot but that is me and I can't speak for all girls.You should ask her if she is okay with that idea.Some girls don't feel comfortable with that.

  • You shouldn't be afraid to ask her those kind of questions.. Besides, it's a good thing if you ask.. It shows her that you care about what she wants in bed..

    I, personally don't like my hair being played with during a blowjob.. No, no, no.. With the only exception is if he's grabbing my hair for a face f***, but that's really it..

    • Wait, so you like a face f***?

  • i love it. it feels so intimate, and lets me know he's into it.

  • I like when he plays with my hair...I don't mind his hands on my head unless he tries to force his **** deeper into my mouth. That's a no no.

  • I like it, just go ahead and ask her