if you know you actually do love him than its probably nothing to worry about. I think with movies and celebrities and the whole "Hollywood" scene, it takes away from real relationships by putting thoughts in your head such as "there must be something wrong because I don't feel the way they do". certain people relate to love in different ways touch is one of them which is what kissing would be under. maybe talking/flirting or receiving/giving gifts makes you feel more empowered and in love than kissing would. also it could be a lack of skills by either party in the kissing department that makes the passion so raw. maybe it is your mindset. think beyond just what you think you "should" be feeling and think more about what you are truly feeling, believing and thinking.
yea when I kiss someone I really really care about or love...the touches, the kisses and sometimes being held by them...just makes my tummy knot up...like bits of energy hitting my body...feeling like this energy spill from the core of me to the rest of my body...so when I am kissing him the guy I love I feel that feeling spreading all over my body and I get lost in the kissing and touching
You should definitely feel something.
When I'm an inch away from my boyfriend's lips and I smell his breath, I already feel intoxicated. When our lips meet, I'm in heaven. I feel so horny when we make out.
I just had my first kiss.. I questioned it just like you.. I didn't feel anything.. But I gave it some more time because I know both of us haven't kissed anyone befor and we like each other..
And ya so far its just been any normal kiss.. But the otherday she kissed me diffrently and it was so good.. I felt something then...
Id say just give it a little time.. And don't question it as much.. Just relax and enjoy the kiss..
But its up to you..
Thank you. :)
Is it even any fun? Sounds like you might be kissing the wrong boy.
I think you're right. :(
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Do you have strong feelings for your boyfriend? Perhaps you're over-thinking the matter, especially if it sounds like you joined the kissing game a little late. It could also be that one or both of you aren't good kissers. In that case, keep practicing would be my advice. :-)
No, I know I am a good kisser. :) I just turned 24 when I had my first kiss (which was in October). I am not over thinking either. Maybe he is not a good kisser.
Well, study up on the matter and get back to work. Kissing isn't something you learn on a website. Take it from me, you have to do your homework however there is no substitute for actually using the "hands on" or "lips on" approach.
LOL, OK. Thanks. :)
Do you watch a lot of romantic comedies?
yea you feel way more connected to each other when kissing...at least that's how I feel. But the only girl I kissed is reeaallyy special to me
First you have to like and love the person you are kissing, then Kiss him with your mind and the passion then you will know what is so special about kiss.
I haven't felt any special concetion from kissing before :( even if I really liked the guy. I don't even really like kissing :/
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