i am a bisexual virgin. I haven't acted on anything, but I will someday soon. I love girls. I only recently came to terms with my sexuality a couple years ago. I spend a few years since high school thinking about it and figuring out how I feel about women. You don't have to f*** people to figure out how you feel about them. That's not directed toward you. I'm just saying it's annoying that people don't understand the difference between attraction and experience, or rather that they have a double standard. When I tell people I'm a vigin with guys as well its "omg you're so pretty why not? that says a lot about you, so respectable." then when I say I'm into women its "well, how can you be sure if you haven't been with one yet?" basically you can be straight without being with anyone, but in order to be gay or bi, you have to f*** everyone. makes sense.
you shouldn't go to craigslist. do you have any gay friends? Or even just some girl friends who are open minded? > you can easily go to a gay club and pick up a guy. no surprises, you get what you see generally. you could have a one night stand but I recommend that you get tested first together and make it a friends with benefits thing. If you do the one night stand thing, at least use a condom.
Gay clubs are fun as sh*t. And like any club, its pretty much a pick up scene for many people there. sex sex sex and no pregnancy :D
shemales and lady boys are insulting and degrading terms for trans people. If you fetishize a transwoman who hasn't had bottom surgery, make it known that you are only interested sexually. they have enough on their plate without being unknowingly used and objectified. I don't see too many going for that, though, as they see themselves as women, but hey maybe someone who just wants a hookup and won't care. its possible.
maybe its because I have tons of gay friends, and live in a very liberal city, but guys hooking up with guys doesn't seem like some unattainable fantasy in my eyes. it seems like an everyday occurrence.
My family doesn't support me, but I've already come out to them. They make threats to cut me off, but they never actually would imo (or maybe they would) because I'm their only child, their little girl. they freak out if I don't call them for one day and they don't like when I stay out past 12 lol I highly doubt they would dump me on the sidewalk if I dated a girl, which I definitely will. They just are ignorant and narrow minded. I told them that I don't care though, that its something they have to deal with but my job is to be as honest as I have been with other things on which we disagree. I can't live my life for my parents, I have to do what feels best for me.
Thats talking about dating or possibly marrying a girl though. You're just talking about sex. I doubt I'd call my mom while I'm covered in come to confess my sexual exploits with a guy, so having sex with a girl isn't something she has to know about either.