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Would you stop talking to a girl if there's a chance she gave you an std?
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I've been friends with benefits with a guy for almost a year but at a point he said he had some stuff going on and he stopped talking to/seeing me. That was for like 3 months. I saw him at school before I officially considered he was probably never going to talk to me again and I waved he looked at me and kinda of looked past me. So I tried to avoid crossing paths with him etc... he parked near where I did... ( I just don't like searching for parking spots... (one day he came when I did after that so I parked somewhere else when I saw him) Then I started "dating"<(not fwb) one of my old friends and we had Protected (with a latex condom) sex 2 times then we realized we weren't right for each other and went our separate ways.( maybe b.c I guess I always thought about the guy I was friends with benefits with before and would be like if I could have a perfect guy he would be it. b.c I would forget we were not just friends anymore) Then the guy I was friends with benefits with texted me out of the blue one day then later we started hanging out again. Before then me and him always had protected sex but the last 3 times we didn't. like we had sex bare until he was about to be done then he'd throw a condom on. I get STD tested every 6-7 months. I don't not wear a condom with any one usually. I've only had unprotected sex with him and my ex boyfriend from like 3 years ago. I guess I really didn't care with him either. I also got pink eye from my job.. At my job there's this family with 7 kids 5 out of 7 of them had pink eye and no other kids / teacher got it except me. It was 100% a bacterial eye infection b.c it had all the mucus stuff on it. And I had some some med from a virus pink eye once tried it didn't really work... I just didn't go to the doctor because last time I had it it was $210 for diagnostics... + $78 for the meds. One day when I was changing one of the little girls diapers she was playing with me and she poked me in my eye. ( she didn't look like she had pink eye yet so I didn't think anything of it but her baby brother had it.) she did that on Wednesday or Thursday and I was off on Friday then on Monday before I got to work I had pink eye. Then a couple days later I had an appointment for a STD test. and to get back on birth control if he was still going to want to have unprotected sex (I can't afford a baby right now.) The doctor asked me about my eyes and I said I think its pink eye and she's like you need to go to someone and get that checked out and she gave me a referral. ( I threw it away.) then a week later I got a call saying I had some sort of curable STD... then it came up being chlamydia. I called this STD hotline thing and asked them is it possible to get it in your eye and he said yes. maybe I accidentally got the bacteria from my eye to my vag while showering. I texted him and told him what my results were he said thanks for being honest... blah blah. then I texted him a couple more times, he ignored everything.. If it was your situation would you ever talk to me again?
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there would be 3 ways I would have gotten it. A) I caught it from him. B) the condom broke with my ex date(it didn't slip off for sure) C) I got it from the kids poking me in the eye. ( I know for sure you can get it in your eye) And it's not like I was all around the world screwing everyone and he and I were never dating according to him and I told him that I had it the same day I got that call.
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