How do I get her to do anal?
how do I get my wife of almost five years to try anal. I know she would like it if she tried it. I have asked I have begged like guys do lol and... Show More
Most Helpful Opinion
don't "Get her" to do anything if she doesn't want to. Just respect her wishes. Maybe once she'll be willing to try it, but trying to trick her or force her or guilt her will only be bad and really if you love her, just be happy to make her happy however.
What Girls Said 3
do something really nice for her in return
If she asked you to try it too, would you?
I'm scared of anal. Never did it. Maybe you have a big d*** and she thinks it would hurt too much. Maybe you should ease her into it with butt plugs and other anal stimulators.
What Guys Said 2
Dude first you gotta prep the butt. I have schooled a lot of my friends in getting there chicks into anal.
Dont listen to some chicks who say "I hate it but never tried it" Most girls really enjoy it. Especially because we guys enjoy it so much.
First off you have to put a finger or two in the bum when your having sex with her vaginally, and from there she will kind of get used to what it feels like. From there just be really relaxed and while having sex with her just take your penis out and rub it on her butt a bit. This will get her even more relaxed into the idea. Do this right after a shower for the two of you. She may be a little wary because of hygiene so this will help. In the pool or hot tub too.
From there, personally I would just put the tip in. Tell her how much you like it and how good it feels for you. Go slow and hold her lovingly.