Why does a guy come back after he got what he wanted? (sex)

There was this guy who I ended up giving my virginity too and I haven't tried speaking to him in over a month. Well he ended up calling me saying how sorry he was for taking my virginity even though virginity means nothing to me. Afterwords he kept asking me for more sex. I thought that once a guy got what he wanted, he would leave? Isn't that what normal players do?


Most Helpful Girl

  • He probably thinks that because you gave it up so easily the first time, you'll be that willing to sleep with him again. He's trying to determine whether you gave him the golden ticket to your hoo-ha, or if it was just a one time thing. It's like the children's book "If You Give a Mouse a Cookie." If you give a guy some play, he's going to want more.

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What Guys Said 3

  • If you're good, he comes back for more. Careful, though--doesn't mean he likes you.

  • You're right, he got what he wanted from you, but now he thinks there is an open bar and he can get more any time he wants it.

  • maybe he isn't a player, duh.


What Girls Said 4

  • Not all players. Some guys come back for more because it was good or they have no one else to have sex with at the time and your were ok enough to have sex with again. And some guys who hit it and quit it and you never hear from them again. So don't be surprised if a guy comes back. it just means you were good in bed or he could really like you and it not matter if yall had sex or not. You just never what's going to happen after you have sex with a guy but never assume that every guy will leave you after the first time they have sex with you. Some may come back for numerous reasons. But a lot of guys do nowadays leave right after and some actually jus come around when they want sex.

  • well. maybe he really likes you. or maybe if he is only looking for sex, he doesn't care about virgins. idk

  • yeah, maybe he got dumped because he sounds like a douche. a guy did that to me, and at least he called you. mine just sent some fat bitch to talk to me instead. I seriously hate him.