My boyfriend wants me to have sex with his friend and watch?

Has anyone ever been asked to do something like this? He said that his friend told him that he wanted to get it in with me and that he wants me to do it with him while he watches us. I think its really weird I mean a part of me wants to because his friend is really hot but to have him watch us I fell like it would be awkward and why would he want to see that?

 

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  • I have no idea why but I do know that they make some p*rn over that, I wouldn't recomend it though because it could potentially tare you and him apart if you end up liking having sex with his friend more(because his friend could be bigger, more expirienced, softer, rougher, last longer ect.) But don't feel pressured into doing it if you don't feel comfortable about doing it or you feel you might be risking something. but f you wanna do it then go for it but be ready for some long lasting effects of it, good luck to the decisions you make :-)

What Guys Said 4

  • Too much media influence on our lives. So many guys I know personally are into this sort of fantasy these days. Take my word for it, they don't REALLY want this fantasy to become reality, but it IS weird to ask your sig other to do such a thing. This will lead to a break up or worse, take my word for it, so just tell him to stick to reality and not involve you in his fantasies.

  • He wants to see it because he thinks it's hot. Do you?

    • i think its weird and I don't think I could enjoy it with him watching how could that not make him jealous?

    • Some guys aren't big on jealousy--it's rarely useful.

  • I don't think it is about degrading you at all. I think he wants to be cuckolded.

    • whats that mean?

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    • thats weird

    • I could be wrong of course. But I think I'd like that.

  • So many ways of actually starting a response to your question. I'd say that if you're OK with 3somes or even getting at it with another guy while your actual boyfriend just watches and probably jerks off, then go for it. If you're up to it, you'll enjoy it.If you're not up to it, just say no, else this is the kind of things that has the potential of destroying a relationship. The way you wrote it, it seems these two have a very unique relationship, one in which it is OK for one friend to tell the other "i want to f*** your girl". It's usually the other way round, like your boyfriend tells you he has a fantasy, you agree to it and then he invites a friend over. The way you put it, it seems his friend just stated he wants to f*** you and your boyfriend said "well, I'll ask" or something like that.Watch out for those moments...

What Girls Said 3

  • Some guys may find that hot, it will turn them on. I have a guy friend who told me that when he was dating his ex, he wanted to watch her suck off a ton of guys at once, so he set up this whole thing, where his ex suck off 10 guys, I personally thought that was weird, but it turned him on, so yup.

  • as long as you're OK with being a used as a sex toy between him and his buddies I guess it's fine. I personally would be offended for my guy to even ask me something like this and it would change the way I saw our relationship but we're serious and have been for a long time so maybe you aren't as into this guy or you are into doing whatever it takes to make your man happy.I personally am not lol

  • Many guys have this fantasy. That's not really bad I guess. Provided you're OK with it. So the isuue is that you don't want him to watch?

    • yea ha like if he just said hey you can go hook up with my friend then I probly would but its kinda like a turn off if he was just sitting in the room watching us do it

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    • im guessing I don't know he didn't say

    • well, it could be pretty hot for everyone involved but it can also because problems. send a message if you want to discuss it inside out

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