I think I offended him while giving head? How do I fix this?

[louiseee]

Last night I went to give my boyfriend head and I noticed that he shave above his penis and his happy trail. I looked up at him with a weird look on my face and said, "Booooob.." and he looked at me with an equally weird look and said, "What.." and I said, "Well, why did you do that?" And he said, "Because it itches.." and I kinda just looked at him and sighed, I probably rolled my eyes. Then I tried to kiss him and he just looked at the TV and didn't really give in for a good kiss. Then I went back to work. SO, what do I do? Boys, would you be offended.. should I leave it alone or bring it back up and apologize.

[Matrim]

He shaved his penis for the very same reasons many girls shave their vaginas... Why would you act so weird about it? Unless you have a bush and want him to be hairy there too. And in that case you still shouldn't respond like he did something weird. The dude shaved his penis so what? Its not like he had panties on right

No need to apologize though, just show his manhood nothing but luuuuuveee next time xD

[louiseee]

He shall get tons of luuuuve. Ha. And he KNOWS I love his hair, so I didn't think he would do it for me.

[Matrim]

Hahaha way to go (y) Also the not talking about it might be really good for the both of you. It would just be awkward and its so easy to misinterpret things sometimes when you keep wishing you are not having a talk about a subject while having it. Talking is good, talking about everything is maybe not the best idea. That's where "doing" comes in. And you will be doing plenty of that ;) Besides you don't want him to feel like he should be afraidof experimenting. Its his body after all :)

[Matrim]

Also I'm taking it he meant the hair itches. Not some STD. And in that case it was just an afterward rationalization of what he did. But he shouldn't have to explain it to anyone. If he wants to shave his pubes then so be it.

[danndan6]

yeh, probably would be offended. It's a tough one for which there is no definitive answer. I'd like it brought up provided that while doing it, you reiterated that you're in to him and that he's your man etc. Maybe even have it out. "Why don't you wash?" lol

[louiseee]

What do you mean "Why don't you wash?" Ha? And can't I just compliment him lots and give him tons of sex today without bringing it up

[danndan6]

sure. so bring it up. that's what I'm saying. but I also don't think it's much point just apologizing. maybe you should even question him about his itchiness. you surely deserve to know that stuff if you're putting your face down there

[louiseee]

His skin is just really dry there. He works outside all day and with Texas weather, we get dried out. That area gets really dry from the friction of his jeans and undies, and then his feet are really dry from his boots.

[danndan6]

So recommend some moistuerizer...even turn it into something fun if you don't want to offend him. tell him how much soft skin turns you on and start rubbing moistuerizer into that area. if he understands that there's reward in it for him looking after himself, he'll do it with a smile on his face :)

[louiseee]

We put lotion on it when we wake up and after his shower after work.

[danndan6]

in which case there's nothing left to say. accept him for it or don't accept him for it... if you accept him, when you're down there tonight and you're kissing around his ****, kiss the dry area. now that I think of it, you could have misinterpreted it entirely and he just doesn't want to kiss his own groin :)

[archer86]

leave it alone, and allow him to eat you until you can't walk for three days!

[yudadagger]

hilarious! lol

[louiseee]

HA, but I have work!

[leximarie]

damn hahaha

[archer86]

A good man is measured on how well he can provide oral pleasure to a woman. It is regrettable that women will not allow more men the opportunity to conduct this work(call eating p**** work?!?!?) on them. Heheh

[louiseee]

I never measure a man on that.. ever.

[themastaplan]

sh*t does itch, gotta understand that...i wouldn't have made it a big deal and rolled your eyes...

put yourself in his shoes, where he would do exactly what you did to him...you'd feel a little off too, wouldn't you?

[louiseee]

I didn't mean to roll my eyes, ha. I don't even know when I do it. And yea, I would.

[themastaplan]

lol he'll get over it...

[Ushheen]

I thought girls liked a guy without hair there, and I always thought that in a relationship it would be nice if the couple had like an agreement where they each decided how the others pubes would be 'styled', it worked great for me and my ex because I got her to shave and found out she liked me very trimmed!

Its not something that would really offend me but I think you should make a light apology, because that's the easiest thing to do in the long term.

[tom-tom-traveler]

The eyeroll may have been a bit much, but at the same time I'd think that he should be very happy to be with a lady with such a pretty face who's willing to "speak into the microphone" (as it were) for him.

Life's full of difficult moments; trust me when I say that this is not one of them.

[dnately]

If you feel that you offended him, apologize. But don't make a big deal out of it.

[arashmenalagha]

well It would be nice to mention you didn't mean it, I would love to hear an apology sometimes. my girlfriend is good with those. I had to mention it :)!

I'd say you're on the border with that one, which is pretty hard to do, but you're fine you don't really need to apologize although It would make your more ""appealing.""

[AlexCab]

well, why did it disappoint you? Mostly because you like his hair, right? Then you should have explained him that rather than just roll your eyes. Not like it was bad or wrong, but it does seem that it bothered him. He might have translated that into a slight sense of rejection, like "crap, she didn't like it!" and maybe he was aiming at the opposite, like "wow, she really likes me hairless!"

Make it up to him. Shave yourself :P lol, just kidding ;)

[louiseee]

I already shave, bahaha.

[taster]

I am totally on your side...on one hand I want hair...on the other...if I paid my SO a compliment and she turns tight around and does exactly the opposite I would feel like I had been slapped in the face...and I had better not get that feeling very often or she won't be my SO anymore.../:

[taster]

if anything, he owes YOU an apology...(:

[louiseee]

Bahaha, THANK YOOOOU.

[taster]

<3<3<3=D

[Saber6]

poeple are so seuxal these days. I get it , but I dont.

[louiseee]

Wow, you answered the question SO well.

[Saber6]

there are kids straving, people who need jobs, some single parent who can't get any help...got no time for this. I wasn't being mean. have a good day.

[themastaplan]

wtf dude, what does this have to do with starving kids...she asked a question...go to your local soup kitchen and help the poor if you want...you just wasted my time reading your bs...leave the girl alone

[leximarie]

clearly you did have time for it because you answered the question, you are a member if this site and you were browsing through the sexuality question. You mention all these people, but you are sitting here not helping any of them so what exactly did you achieve? oh ...nothing

[louiseee]

You are stupid, Saber. What do starving kids, unemployeed, and single parents have to do with my question, or even your answer which still has nothing to do with my question. It's like your spouting out random sh*t. Like Leximarie said, you have "no time" is a bunch of sh*t. You are level 5 and you have only had this account for a month, answers 223 questions. That's 6 questions a day. No f***ing time, my ass.

[Anonymous]

Guys can be very sensitive and have weak egos when we get negative feedback from the women we are with! It's like... a kick in the pills :-)

[Anonymous]

He should just get over it