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How many different partners have you had sex with (oral sex counts) in your life? Honestly

I am curious at this question because I feel it is hard to tell and everyone is different but I guess certain types of people are similar in their outlooks. Have you had sex more than oral sex or vice versa? Have you given oral sex more than received? About how many of your sexual partners were casual (one night things with someone random; or a hook up with someone you know but it did not lead to a relationship? Were there times in your life when you were more/less promiscuous than others? Do you regret sex you had? Do you want to have sex with more people?
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Vote A
3-7
Vote B
8-15
Vote C
16-30
Vote D
30+
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write down your age and respond with the breakdown of regular vs. oral sex if you can. to give people an idea of this non scientific survey
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Most Helpful Girls

  • i'm 20, almost 21. I've had sex with three guys. I've only had oral sex with the same three people. with the first one, the oral was 50/50. with the second one, I gave oral, never received, however I only slept with this guy once. he was a friend, but it never led to a relationship because I didn't want one with him. in my most recent relationship, (the 3rd guy) I receive a lot more than I give. I would like to give more haha so I try to make it even.

    to your second question: none of them were casual. as I said up there, one was a friend but it was never a relationship, and one was a relationship that lasted about 4.5 months, and the most recent is a relationship that's lasted (so far) almost a year and a half.

    to your third question: no, not really...i didn't start having sex until I was 19 so I guess depending on how you look at it, 3 people in like a year and a half might be a lot...sometimes I think it is, but its not like I didn't know the guys, so that's how I justify that to myself :/ I don't regret any of them, though. and no I don't want to have sex with more people..the number doesn't -really- matter to me, its who it is that counts. I would be happy only having sex for the rest of my life with the one person I'm with now.

  • I have probably done oral or had intercourse with 45 guys.. I'm 22 started giving head at 13 and started having sex at 14.. maybe 35 were one time affairs.. and the rest continuous as in years.. minimum 3 years to 8 years.. the one night things were not random people but friends.. or people I went to school with .. I mean I still know them now.. just never had sexual encounters with them again. I was very promiscuous between the age of 15-19 because I was in an emotionally abusive relationship.. and I guess became the whore he kept on calling me to be.. lol but excuses aside.. I regret nothing.. it is what it is.. but I am no longer that girl now because of what it is.. I am not promiscuous and actually was celibate for a year until I met this guy now that I'm in a relationship with.. I do not regret.. lets just say I have a lot of good stories, I know a lot about dicks and thank GOD none of my stories have any first hand experience with any STDs. I plan to have sex with more people.. until I marry and that is my last partner I suppose.

    • Wow that chicks is whore, no offense but it's true, 45 guys and your only 22. Holy crap want make it 46? I don't judge but damn I bet your good in bed.

    • I suppose I was a whore... but in reality.. it was my own thing .. cause I only did guys I wanted to do.. not guys who asked. my numbers probably just higher then urs cause guys are whores. lol.

    • Well, you still are a whore! your are in a relationship and you say you will still f*** other people. that makes you a dirty skank in my honest oppinion

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  • I've given oral sex to more men than I've slept with. I would say I've given oral to 7 or 8 guys, had sex with 3 of them and only dated 2 of the 3 I slept with. One of which I am still dating.

    I don't regret anything I've ever done with any guy. I learned something different from each one of them and that's what mistakes are for. Learning. The guy I lost my virginity to was just a random hook up I had with a guy I was talking to for about a week who really wanted more and I thought I did but I was just desperate at the time. We had sex and after that I realized I didn't want to be with him so I told him and left it at that. Then I started dating my first boyfriend and had sex with him. We dated for 2 months and broke it off. Then I started dating my current boyfriend and we've been together for 7 months now. He's the one and even though we both feel the same way, we don't regret our past sexual partners. Going through that has made us both the strong individuals we are today and we'd do it all over just to find each other again.

  • I'm 19, I've slept with 7 people. I haven't had oral sex with anyone I hadn't already had sex with [only four out of seven], because for me, oral sex feels a lot more personal and requires a different level of trust. I'm not sure why. Most of those were casual hookups with friends, and some of those ended up being friends with benefits. The third was a serious boyfriend, but everything else was pretty casual. I don't feel like I have anything to be ashamed of. I'm a girl. I like sex. I'm on the pill. I get tested regularly. I'm responsible. I see no problem there. I don't regret anything, but I know I DID go through a weird period of time where I slept with a few people. As of right now, I haven't slept with anyone in the past six months; no one new and no repeats. I'm holding out for something more serious now.

Most Helpful Guys

  • I've had sex with around oh I don't know 14 women, some were my age I am 26, most were 18-22, and I even had sex with a milf. I don't even know how many girls I have given oral to, probably cause I was drunk, and I can't even begin to remember how many girls have given me head, its probably more than 14 though. Recently I have had 5 one night stands not the same night but the night after. Good thing you didn't ask how many girls I have kissed cause your guess is as good as mine I have no clue.

    Do I regret having sex hell no, will I do it again you bet probably this weekend.

  • I'm 25, male, straight.

    Oral: 3 (both ways)

    Anal: 1

    Sex: 0

    I was chronically ill for a number years, so I'm an outlier for that reason alone. I'll graduate college next year so basically I'm graduate-student age in undergrad classes. Soon I'll add my current girl for anal and then sex.

    I'm looking forward to sex, but not in a rabid-dog sort of way. I guess my experience with poor health wisened me beyond my years, so I have a minorly aloof sort of restraint rare in most college guys. Girls seem to dig that though.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • 60 - 75 for sex, including oral (hard to remember an exact number)

    received oral without sex - 6

    given oral without sex - about 20

    This is going back 11 years so some memories are hazy

  • I don't like talkingn about how many partners to people I don't know. I'm always afraid they'll think I'm a slut. (Ie, quite a few partners).

    26 years old

    Only on extremely rare occaisions do I only have oral sex. Most of my intercourse sex is combined with oral. I've received more than given.

    I've had a dozen girlfriends and boyfriends. I've had a number of friends with benefits who were serious but not in a dating way.

    In college I was more promiscuous because there were more people available. But my sex drive has never changed.

    There were a couple times I regret. Not many. Of course I want more sex.

  • I'm 21 and I've had no sex of any kind and proud of it! Though some of it has to do with the environment I grew up in but I'm also choosing not to be sexual with a guy until I'm married to him.

  • 16: and responded none, never had sex (of any sort)

  • 1 to be more precise.

  • I'm 21. I lost my virginity at 18. Slept with 5 guys total (3 one night stands, 2 relationships) and only given oral to 2 (the two relationships)

    I regret all of my one night stands. There's just no excuse for bad sex. Haha

    • Were they like guys you just met at bars or guyfriends you had known previously?

    • Two were guys that I had gone on a few dates with, but it quickly ended after that. Haha, horrible I know but I don't want to be in a relationship with someone if I'm going to have to endure awful sex! The third I met through a mutual guy friend. We were at the lake camping out. It just seemed like a good idea at the time. I think I was more of a conquest to him than anything cus he knew my ex, Chris. It seemed like after Chris and I broke up all the guys that knew us wanted to get in my pants

    • "There's just no excuse for bad sex." I agree :).

  • i'm 17. and these days everyone is all over each other. but I never had boyfriends during my younger years; and I'm glad.

    the only things I have done sexually have been with my boyfriend of 6 months. I'd only ever kissed a boy once before him.

  • I've has sex with 3 people, all long term relationships, (1st Lost V to/2nd we dated for 8months before we did anything sexual/3rd We've been dating for 2 1/2yrs and waited 1yr before we did anything sexual)

    Never given oral to a guy, had oral done by both male/female gave oral on girl(middle school experimentation). I

    I regret losing the V Card..should have waited.

    Plan on having sex with the one I'm with for the rest of my life!

  • I'm 18. I don't count or think to keep track. When my partner asks I can tell them that without lying and that way they won't feel crappy thinking about the others who have been there before.

    • If you were to tell me that you havnt counted or havnt been able to keep track, that would worry me more than if you said youd been f***ed by 30 guys.

  • im 22, an di have had sex with only one guy, but have given to 2 guys.

  • ive never had sex before but I've given oral to 3 guys

    • So vote 3 (B)

    • Would you like oral from a stranger? why or why not?

    • Well I've never had a guy do oral sex on me before and I don't know if I would want them to because I would be too self-conscience and I might not like it.......i don't think I would want it from a stranger either because I would have wanted to know the person really well first....and plus he might end up getting the wrong impression of me and I don't want anybody to think of me in a bad way

  • one,

    everything.

    want to keep just her too :)

    • Pussy!

  • So much for virtue--

    37 years old, lost my virginity at 16, oral at 14. Stopped counting partners at two dozen, the next year. I'm probably in the low triple digits by now.

    About as much sex as oral, giving more than receiving.

    Most of my partners last 3-6 months. I don't know whether those are relationships or not. Don't waste much time with labels.

    If I'm not in an exclusive relationship, I'm pretty promiscuous.

    The only sex I regret is the sex I could have had, and didn't.

    • Low triple digits?? Wow!

    • No big deal really. It's a new girl every month or two on average, over twenty years, excluding LTRs. I may even be lowballing it. Again, I don't count.

  • Hmm... Likely over a hundred for intercourse. Add 20-50 more for oral sex and 5-8 guys for oral sex.

    I don't regret any of the sex I have had. It made people happy and isn't that the point of being alive?

  • Lost it at 15.

    Had more oral than sex.

    Oral = Countless people

    Sex = 7 people

    Oral + Sex = Probably 8-15 people

    Had sex with one friend for one night.

    I can't say I regretted any of the sex.

  • f***, I answered this post a year ago, my numbers have changed a bit hahaha. Iv slept with 36 women, and had sexual contact (head, fingering and tossing off) with about another 20. About 10 threesomes.

  • im 21, lost virginity day before my 19th birthday, have had LTR for 18 months, and have f***ed 18 girls, and given/recieved head to maybe 10 more.

  • Im 20 and I have never had sexual intercourse. I have never given oral but I have received it from two guys. The first was my long term boyfriend and first love, I was 18 at the time. The second started about a moth ago. It is a guy friend that I think is nice but can't see myself in a relationship with. I was just sexually frustrated because it had been about a year and a half since the last time. We still are friends with benefits and I don't have any regrets. I was never very promiscuous because I have to really be in love to have a good time in the bedroom. It kinda sucks for my friend with benefits because he has to do everything...lol. After me and him end our friend with benefits escapade I don't plan on getting sexually involved with anyone else other than my future husband.

  • 2 if you include oral.

  • um some of these #s are kinda gross but yeah um 15- 0 sex 1 oral both ways :p I'm such a little whore lol

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