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Kissing after Oral Sex?

Would you let your S/O or even your fling kiss you immediately after they come up from down there?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • lol. this questions a little old but I came across it and I find it very surprising that so many girls wouldn't kiss a guy after he did that. If my guy has his fingers in me ill even let him put them in my mouth and lick them cause I know it turns him on. I think he tastes way better than I do, but id never have a 2nd thought about kissing him after he did that. I totally understand why he won't kiss me after I have his come in my mouth. He will kiss me in the middle of me going down on him and stuff but once he comes no way lol. I deff understand though. I just mouthwash after. :]

  • i always kiss my boyfriend after he goes down on me. its not that I like the taste, but its coming from my own body so I never think of it as gross. he kisses me after I go down on him (and have swallowed everything). I know some people are grossed out by this, but if someone just went down on you and they want to kiss you, you should kiss them. that's just how I see it. its going from you, to their mouth, to your mouth. there's no other person or substance that could sneak in and get in your mouth haha I don't think its a big deal

    • Okay, fair enough. Well with that said, would you do ass to mouth? It's coming out of your body right?

    • Wouldn't *ss to mouth be a tad different seeing that feces are actually bad for your health and you can get sick from it? I mean I wouldn't make him kiss me after a bj lol, I'm just saying that its not really fair for you to compare the two because jizz is a hell of a lot different than sh*t.

    • Lmao, werd.

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  • My guy wouldn't kiss me after I gave him head and I got offended (I played my cool though). I Did say though that I thought it was selfish for guys to do that (I kinda said it in a joking manner because I didn't want to kill the mood).

    I think if a girl is willing to go down there and suck a guy off and even swallow with a smile, she should get a thank-you.

  • My guy always does and it doesn't bother me at all. Sometimes he sticks his fingers in my mouth after fingering me and that doesn't even bother me. I always kiss him after giving him head too, I rinse my mouth out first though. That's not something he asked me to do or anything I just do it to get his stuff off my tongue.

    • Exactly this.

    • No babe, I mean kissing IMMEDIATELY afterwards! Like in the heat of the moment when you're not even thinking about stopping & putting the mood on pause so you can go rinse your mouth...?

    • Well I don't swallow, it makes me sick, but if I did, or had nothing to rinse with he still would. It's his stuff, it don't bother him.

Most Helpful Guys

  • of course she needs to swallow, and even then I'm going to wait a minute or so...but, I love to kiss her afterwards, not passionately make out..but I wouldn't want to go to sleep without kissing her a little bit afterwards...it really doesn't bother me at all, but even more so I like to show her that I like kissing her more than I would ever care about that...again I don't want to taste cum, but otherwise, who cares.

    i wouldn't be offended if a girl didn't want me to kiss her after me going down on her, but it doesn't even cross my mind that it would bother her.

  • It bothers me, a lot actually.

    I can't stand the idea that my own come might get in my mouth.

    Oh god that's gross!

    I'll kiss her still though if she wants, just no tongue please. I'd

    appreciate at least a gargle with water or something but I can get over it.

    Since it bothers me I usually wipe off my mouth after eating them

    out as a courtesy to them before we make out afterwards. Though

    I haven't met a girl who seemed to care really, or at least they haven't

    told me.

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  • Sure: I don't have a problem with it at all. Why be scared of your own fluids? It doesn't really turn me on, but I think I taste okay and it doesn't bother me.

    But I also don't get offended if a guy doesn't want to kiss me when I have his come on my breath. I think men and women are different about some things, and this is one of them.

  • Not me! There's a time for this, and there's a time for that. Mixing oral with kissing doesn't work for me. I'm not into oral on myself.

    • So have you ever gone down on a chick b4?

    • Yesss, or course! It's great! Still no kissing afterwards.

  • Sure. I'm done with casual sex, so flings don't really apply. But I don't see why that would be weird. I'd kiss him after he went down on me just to show my appreciation. I'd probably expect the same. I don't see why kissing after I go down on him would be weird either after I've already swallowed it down. I think I'd be kind of offended if he refused to kiss me after I've just done something nice for him. It's intimate.

    • Well said.

    • Thanks very much! I appreciate that coming from you, because I always really enjoy reading [and pretty much always agree with] your answers. =]

  • Honestly I'd be really offended if he didn't kiss me after a bj. I already did something for him, he shouldn't feel grossed out and not kiss me.

    • Yeah, I understand that. Me personally, it just depends on the girl. If I know for a proven fact she's a slut, she ain't gonna be kissing me to begin with let alone after she gives me a BJ.

  • Absolutely yes. It's all part of the wonderful world of great sex and appreciation.

  • I've never minded at all.

  • Hell no. Even if I did want to perform or get oral sex, the kissing is over after it begins. I do not want to taste myself on his lips or at any point in my life, frankly. Eww...:S

  • I have never given a bj before so usually if a guy goes to kiss me afterwards ( I'm retarded I know) I feel bad about not giving him anything so usually I'll let him kiss me.

  • No, it's called mouthwash. Try it.

  • my guy likes to give me oral and then kiss me and I actually don't like it at all. the taste of myself kinda wierds me out. I love the taste of him though! I kiss him too. I should definitely ask if he even likes that. because I know I don't love it. good question.

    • Thanks for your answer. I'm RED-LIGHT by the way, I don't know why the hell I asked this question anonymously... ; D

  • yeah, I'd have to say no---it's gross---just think of it, who wants to kiss their own damn cr*tch? no one damn it no one! lol j/k

    • J/k?? So does that mean your answer was saracasm & you really don't have a problem with it?

  • Of course. It's not like they're swapping it to your mouth or anything. I let my boyfriend kiss me, as he lets me kiss him. Obviously, there isn't tongue until we've each gotten a drink (it wouldn't bother me if he didn't, but some guys are very EHH about kissing a girl after she's gone down on him). No big deal!

  • ~~ it perfectly fine to kiss her after she's done down there.

    itz your juice. if you don't like then just don't cum. right?

  • I don't really mind it most of the time if a guy kisses me afterwards, but it's understandable after I give them head if they didn't want to lol

    • That's cool, shows you're not selfish

  • I don't get women or men that don't kiss after their partner has gone down on them...What in balls is so disgusting...!? ITS YOUR BODY...Why are you grossed out from your own body...!? Even when a guy pulls out and finishes in my mouth...Woooo! Its me and I rawk...nothing gross about it!

    • You do "rawk"! Great answer. My feelings exactly.

  • not usally we jsut spoon and fall asleep cause is almost always right before we go to bed

    • That sounds depressing.

    • Lol well we find it nice so that's ur opoin

    • I'm just messin withcha bro, by all means you do you.

  • I've done it, and it shows you appreciate and love what she did for you.

  • yes, man up !

  • yes :)

  • you know, I never thought I would be ok with this until I gave my first bj. I was thinking about it but he grabbed my head and kissed me. it was pretty intense.

    so yes, if I ever get one, I wouldn't mind it.

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