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Do girls ever want to just hook up?

It seems to me that the only time a girl would ever want to pursue a guy is to make them their boyfriend in a committment, and then hope for an engagement, and blah blah blah. Personally, I do not think negatively of a woman who is just sexually active. So please answer ladies, do you ever just want to hook up, or are all of you only always looking for the father of your future children?
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Let me clarify: would girls want to hook up and ACT ON IT, not "want to but wouldn't"
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Yeah, sometimes. I'm not just going to hook up with anyone - I have to like them (even just as a person, not necessarily in a romantic way), be somewhat attracted to them, and have some kind of chemistry with them. Right now, I want a boyfriend, so in that situation, if someone possessed all of those things, I'd probably end up liking them and getting hurt that we were ONLY hooking up (that's happened to me in the past a couple times - hooking up with someone I actually liked, when they didn't really think of me romantically). But at another time in my life, if I was fine with being single, yeah I would want to just hook up. I still would want to if it was with someone I was attracted to but wouldn't necessarily go out with.

    Does that make sense?

  • yes girls just want to hook up, they don't go public about it because they are worried they will be considered a slut. my current relationship started off as us just hooking up & then it turned into something more..and now we've been dating for almost 2 years

  • I am down for hooking up sometimes. Under the right circumstance

    • what circumstances? like he has to be huge or something? because that's another theory of mine.

    • To me it's not about how big it is it's how you use it. The circumstance is that I would have to somewhat know you and think you are cute and funny. Just my opinion tho

    • then that has to be just a myth, that girls just want boyfriends, relationships, marriage, husbands, serious, committed long-term relationships, right? but would you say this is true, girls are just more picky and choosy on who they want to hook-up, have casual sex with right?

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Most Helpful Guys

  • It happens all of the time.

    As you get older, you'll find that women are usually 10x as sneaky as men in a lot of ways.

    Rest assured...women like sex equally as much as men.

    I am reasonably good looking, but not Brad Pitt or whoever is considered hot today - I've had sex with hundreds of different women (yes plural) in my life. I'm also stable, but not rich - nor famous...so...I can't be that unique.

    Women are having plenty of sex...you've got a lot to look forward to.

  • There was one time I was approached by this pretty girl who would soon be going away. We had sex in our second date. Then she told me all she wanted was just to hook up with someone in my town before she moved to another place. I still miss her.

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  • Yes.

    • Really? :-P

    • Uh huh!

    • Really really?! :-O

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  • yes, I sometimes want to just hook up. (and thus far, I've never been looking for the father of my future children, for the record!)

    • @update: yes, I act on the urge to hook up.

  • I don't want a guy who I want to be just a casual hook up, I would rather have someone who sets high standards like myself but I'm not saying I'm better than anyone either by stating this, I'm stating my preference; I prefer to be with a guy for the long haul. I don't like wasting my time or emotions. I didn't date till AFTER high school, for this reason...

    • But hooking up doesn't have to have emotions involved.

  • in high school; yes. I never wanted commitment, I just wanted to have a good time. However, I got that phase out of my system.

  • yeah but they are more picky and choosy on who they hook up with

  • Mmmm hmmm.

  • Yeah.

  • I think turning off the mental checklist is hard, but yeah, there are times that we want something with no commitment. Those are times that we're done waiting for the Prince to show up. I wouldn't say that I personally feel that way very often and I don't frequently act on it, but yeah...I think about it and sure as hell wouldn't mind it sometimes.

  • yeah we do just wanna get in sometimes. there are countless girls that want the same thing men want. you just have to find them. we're not all looking for a white picket fence.

  • Yeah. Given the right circumstances. The guy would have to be drop dead sexy and have an awesome personality. Everything would have to go right but yeah. I have just hooked up with someone and I won't lie, it was pretty sweet.

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