Trading pictures with a guy?

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So there is this guy who tellms me that he thinkgs I'm pretty, beautiful, and asked me for some pictures in the beginning I told him I wasent ready, since I didn't know him too well so I told him no. Then one day he just starts IM-ing me and asking if I would I send him one(hes into boobs and I'm a DD)  so I sent one with me with a tigh low tank top and like a little cleavage(I was comfortable doing that) and he gets it and tells me I'm beautiful and asks me to angle the camera lower(he does that every time tells me to show more). I can't ever make him happy! I said that to him, that whenever I send anything he wants more and I'm not ready for that.(then I logged off) Then he texted that he was sorry, which he does evey time it makes me mad, I feel like if he acutally cared he would wait till I'm ready! Why can't he just take no for an answer and let me wait till I'm ready!

ElijahCynicism · Accepted Answer

He's not doing it because he doesn't care, he's just trying to get as much as he can. I know from experience a little persuasion can get you far. He just doesn't know that its upsetting you. Tell him, and not like each individual time, tell him that the fact that he keeps angling for more upsets you, and that each time, when you give him something, you won't give him any more, because that's as much as you're comfortable with.

He's not doing it maliciously, I'm sure of it. Generally, people don't come to these conclusions, so it's not taken to mean that as a gesture. Just tell him how you feel about it, in a time that isn't just before or directly after, and have a proper discussion about it. Tell him you want to be in control of it, not him.

Prof_Don · Accepted Answer

This dude honestly doesn't respect your wishes.

If he can't respect your wishes...then cut him off with pics (which I think uve donw already).

I mean, if a girl is gonna send me naughty pics of her...imma respect what she does and doesn't wanna show. :)

saelym · Accepted Answer

I'd quit feeding into his behavior, if I were you. If you're both 18 or older, it isn't exactly wrong to trade pictures but that doesn't mean you have to if you aren't ready.

If he can't respect that you want to wait, then don't give him any more pictures. The details you've given tell me that he's saying he's sorry because he's trying to appease you in order to get what he wants. From what you said, he seems manipulative and pushy.

This sounds every bit like the guy who took my best friend's pictures and distributed them around the school.

sweet_18 · Accepted Answer

I'd tell him to f*** off if he didnt' listen to me the first time

TurbulentDan12 · Answer

In the moment he's just being kind of careless. My guess is that he wants to see you so badly that he doesn't even think about the times before you told him no. He should learn, but maybe you have to make it more clear to him that if he stays patient then this may happen. Because you did show off to him a bit, so naturally he'll think you'll do more later.

NerdInDenial · Answer

I would stop because your picture might end up on isanyoneup.com

MrReal · Answer

He's just using you to see your breast-teses but since your trading pic's your probably using him too.

Anonymous · Answer

Don't ever trade nudes over the phone or computer. That's a great way to ruin your future.

Anonymous · Answer

do NOT send him masturbation material. he needs to accept that you won't send him slutty pics. don't ever send slutty pics to a guy (if you do, he might upload them).

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