I mean, it kind of depends on the details.l. Did you talk about it beforehand, or did he have any reason to think that you'd enjoy it as a surprise? Are you super into his body making him more prone to showing off? I personally have no issue at all with my nudity, but I'd only ever share it with someone who wanted to see it, or if it would be viewed as funny (like the nude scenes in Forgetting Sarah Marshall) but I probably wouldn't just surprise someone out of the clear blue sky with anything like that without some reason for thinking it'd be welcomed by them.
Did your friends see it or something, or did you just tell them? I think they're just being judgmental and prudish when if they had the same thing going on they'd be fine with it. Do they know the guy? Maybe it's awkward for them to think about.
He asked me if that would be something that would turn me on and I said yes, so he sent it. So it was not out of the blue.
Then who cares what your friends think... Their just jealous because this guy will do anything... ANYTHING to make you happy. They should recognize that and be happy for you.
i mean I don't really get why a girl would want a video of a guy wanking.. I think girls masturbating is so much sexier (and I think that most guys AND GIRLS would agree with me) BUT if you liked it then who cares what your friends think.. .but honestly WHY are you telling all your friends anyway?!?! When I send a girlfriend pictures or something I would kinda want that to stay between us. I don't go telling everyone that I have pictures of her masturbating or anything. Just curious - not trying to hate :)
I don't think it's perverted. Look, he's your boyfriend right? Or at least the two of you are in some sort of relationship. How is that perverted?
Plus, who cares what your friends think? everyone is different and just becuase they don't like it doesn't mean that it's wrong.
Wow you told your friends? What is up with that? He obviously sent it to you because he's comfortable with you which confuses me because I don't know how someone could be comfortable with a girl who goes around sharing things like that with her friends!
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I really don't think your guy sent that video to you knowing that you'd tell your friends about it. I realize girls gossip about guys but there are still things you should keep in between you and the guy.
Either way, the guy sent it for you and you alone. At the end of the day, just as long as you're turned on by it, nothing wrong with that.
I'm going to agree with this. It was probably something he sent to you to try and please you and turn you on. He didn't send it to you so you can go around telling and showing other people. Some things should really be kept private - I mean, how would you feel if he had gone around talking about sex with you to all his buddies?
Okay just so we are clear I only told one friend, my best friend. All I said was he sent me a video. I did not show her, nor do I wish to. That is my personal video. I wouldn't think of telling anyone else but her!
"my friends all think" - Definitely implies you told more than one person.
I don't think your friends should care what happens in that area of your life, don't you think?
If you like it, then he did the right thing. I wish more girls were openly sexual about that kind of thing, but I understand for many the visual just isn't as appealing. Not a d*** move, but he may want more, hard to say.
I don't think it's perverted. But I do think he may have a fetish for performing on camera, seeing as he could have just given you a live show.
And it's not so bad that you told your friends. When you put out a compromising pic or video of yourself you've got to be prepared that it, and details of it's existence, may go beyond the intended recipient.
Why do you care what your friends think?
I masturbate in front of people quite a lot. Bating those masters is quite an accomplishment worthy of showing off.
*master bate. Damn spell check, works only when it wants to.
Here's a question...
Why do your FRIENDS know about it?
Yes, leaking wind of this video to friends is the ultimate d*** move of all time. I guess it's just part of the culture.
UMMM he sent a video. He was asking for it. Just like leaked nudes of girls. You don't take compromising photos or videos, you won't have a problem.
It could be a little bit of both its hard to say without knowing the guy. I think if you guys have a really good connection its probably because he was feeling more intimate with you. But if not he was pronoun just horny and a freak. What did you like about it?
yes he has feelings for you... but try to read his eyes... whether he is honest or not. i think you will get the answer yourself.
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I think talking about it to your friends was the d*** move.
Why was talking about it to my friends a d*** move? It is not like I showed them!
It was none of their business.
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