What's your reaction to a guy with an erection in public?
Okay, here's why I ask. I was recently, as in yesterday, on a crowded subway train. I mean it was REALLY crowded, people packed in like sardines. I... Show More
Most Helpful Opinion
She probably thought she was the one that caused it and took it as a compliment lol. She also probably felt bad for you in a way. She's not going to make fun of you for it. Girls get turned on too, we just don't show it. She probably felt like she accomplished something haha.
What Girls Said 25
lol I would find it funny. just because it would be. she might be flattered.
I've taken crowded trains for years now. I hate getting rubbed on. It happens far too often and I'm pretty sure it's on purpose like 98% of the time. I'm not talking about when it's just one bump like when the train lurches or something. I'm talking about when the guy does it multiple times and stares at me but won't meet my eyes. It's so creepy and gross. I've always wanted to call the cops on these guys or sue them or something, but it seems like it'd be such a mess to prove.
Seriously, for me - it would all have to depend on the guy.
If you were pushing your erection onto me purposely, I would be very offended and uncomfortable. It would make me feel violated - and I would try to get away or slap you.
But if it were very crowded, and you weren't making any obvious attempts to rub yourself all over me - I would be more understanding and probably even feel bad for you.
As long as you weren't trying to draw my attention to your erection (like a perv), I would just endure it, what else could be done?
Fortunately, I live in a city where everyone has a car, no need to take public transportation at all.
If the guy was hot, I would be flattered and creeped out. If the guy was not hot, I would be just plain creeped out.
I guess it really depends on whether the girl finds you attractive. If a guy did that to me and he was attractive I'd feel flattered. But if a 40 year old man did that or an ugly teenager I'd feel sort of sick.
She probably thought it was sexy. And I think she liked it LOL.
I think a guy getting pokey-pants is SUPER SEXY. My god if it weren't for the fact that it embarrasses him, I'd do it on purpose to my Boyfriend all the time!
If it was just a strange guy who I didn't know who had an erection, I'd probably be a little creeped out...I don't want some guys hard-on in my butt...
I'd find it funny. Cause its not something you can really control so its just like okay what happens now. I admit Id be a little weirded out from a random guy pitching a tent in his pants but there's nothing really wrong with it. You can't just say "STAY DOWN!" or anything.
It sounds pretty bad, but if you had been an ugly or unattractive guy, you would not have gotten out of that subway so unscathed. She was probably flattered, and that smile she gave you was definitely flirting/teasing. My friends and I call scenarios like this RIB's (Random Instances of Boners). RIB's happen to girls SO often (Namely at clubs, movie theaters, harmless sleepovers, and other areas that are badly lit or very crowded) that we are not at liberty to even try and be polite about it when it's displeasing. Sometimes it even goes unnoticed. The fact that she smiled means she was initiating part of it. Yes, it is a huge turnon for a number of reasons. You know that you can arouse a man without even meaning to, and it's kinda taboo for something like that to be happening in public. It heavily depends though, on the person who's getting hard for you. Women aren't totally crass y'know. We like feeling desirable. If a hot chick rubbed her t*ts against your back "without meaning to" would you tell her to stop? You probably made her day = )
haha wow...I don't think I've seen one in public with the exception of the bar and have felt one before while grinding up on that person but it's not really a surprise that it would happen in a bar. I was a little turned on by it but then was turned off when he whispered "I want you so bad right now" in my ear. If I was that girl I would have been a little flattered and amused that I had caused that to happen.
yeah in english class earlier this year. this guy in front of me had one. and I am pretty sure it was me because he was like only talking to me and we are really good friends, but not in a boyfriend type of way. and then in the middle of class he just like completely shut down and didn't say anything. I felt bad for him...but I didn't say anything. I wouldn't say I was flattered but not disgusted either.
In the situation above, I would probably have just ignored you and gone on my way. It's not exactly like it was "unprovoked" and you were masturbating in public, it was just that she accidentally aroused you.
I think it really depends on the guy. If it was an attractive guy, I might be turned on, or flattered. If it's a creepy old man... ew.
I think guys getting boners in public is cute, and it's a HUGE turn on if I'm the one that caused.
If a girl makes it known that she notices your boner, just give her a shy smile and maybe go from there!
Personally, I wish my guy would lemme know when he's got a boner.
Maybe I could do something about it more often...
I go to the local nude beach a lot during the summer. Its a great place to go to check out guys. Most men have no problem walking around completely nude. I love checking out their packages. When they walk their penis' always swing back and forth, but the best is watching them play volleyball. But what I find really hot is when a guy is just walking along the beach with a complete hard on. I watched one guy walk right past me as his **** stood straight out from his body. It was really big too. He was completely shaved, balls and everything except a small patch of hair just above his shaft. I watched as his rigid shaft tried to bounce but couldn't. His balls were bouncing though,LOL! As he walked past I said, Enjoying your day? I couldn't believe he stopped to talk to me. As I was laying on my back naked myself, this guy was standing in front of me introducing himself while his massive erection was pointing right at me. We had a short talk, but the entire time I had my eyes on his hard on. What was interesting was that as he was talking his penis would bounce up and down a little, even though it was at full mast. His balls were hanging real low and looked smooth. The girl laying next to me couldn't take her eyes off him either. It was a great day.
i get you couldn't help it... I really do. but I would have felt very awkward unless you were my boyfriend, (that would be a turn on) I probably would have found a way myself, let somone else get that "seat" and I wouldn't have cared if I had to push someone out of the way, and piss someone off.. but in the case you state 100% impossible to change said position I would have completely ignored it.. and even though people bashed the girl below who said she's push a guy under the train I'm positive the girl this happened with was glad you wern't an old guy and you were you.
i would lmao, I'm so serious and think, wow...wtf ? o.o
why would she slap you?
you just got a hardon because of her and she knows it:)
she's going to go back home and call all of her friends and say guess what I did!hahaha
girls do get turned on by it.i get turned on by it.
it would have been hilarious if you asked for her number hahahaha
you're standing there with a boner and she's getting off the train while you're yelling at her, "can I call you sometime?"
that would be completely rad.
but no it's nothing to be embarassed or anything like that about.
Well, the funny thing about guys and hard ons, is that they kind of can't help it, and girls know this. Knowing that they can make you have one even if it's at a totally inappropriate or inconvenient, is kind of an ego booster. I am woman, I turn you on, Hear me roar.
If a girl can tell you have one, they undoubtedly wonder if they made it happen.
Some girls will act grossed out mostly because they either know your personally or are just uncomfortable about sex as a whole.
me, personally, I'd be kind of flattered to be honest. I made it happen to a lifeguard at the beach one time and was grinning like a fool all day.
If I was in the situation above, I probably would have tried to get away from you, not out of disgust, but because I wouldn't want to make it worse or.. make it not be there anymore if you catch my drift. Also, I'd try to figure out if it was on accident or if you were some perv trying to dry hump me in public.
So, there's my two cents. Hope it helped.
I would feel kinda special, I mean like really. It's more of a compliment that aguy thinks you're hott.=D.
1 : If a guy had an erection in public , and I fI notice it, I think I would giggle a little then smile at him :)
2 . I probably would look to see what caused it , and to see if it isn't me to get in front of the person, and aim it at me ( Yeah, I like attention)
3. Yes, I would wonder if I did it or not
4. Yuppers, I certainly did try to cause it, It's very funny to do so, like wear a mini-skirt then "accidently" bend down, or just flirt with him LOADS, and touch him...
5. I would think it's more funny then a turn-on, If it would be my Boyfriend , it would certainly be a turn-on, otherwise , no.
6. It doesn't reallly gross me out, cause girls kinda have their own way of "erecting" (it's just not as visible) .
7. I would realy think it's amusing, cause It's a thing girls don't experience to a day to day basis.
Hope that helped!
I would've been disgusted and moved away.
Even if there was no room to move, I would've found a way to move.
Even though you say the boner was unintentional, a woman might interpret it as sexual harassment.
Why didn't you reorient your body so you weren't facing the back of her body?
I'd feel really uncomfortable and it's be a very awkward situation lol. But I woulnd't say or do anything-id just ignore it.
i find it really exciting, I love the thought of getting caught, and I find it a complete turn on lol
totally agree with the "best answer," but also wanted to add that the girl prob thought you were cute too
hahahahah this sounds like a fantasy I've had about a hot guy! damn I wish I was in her shoes! lol but no really it does turn me on, but there is a catch, I either have to at least know the guy, know his name at least or should have seen him around, go to school with him , basicially have some connection with him that he's not 100% complete stranger or if he is a stranger he has to be extremely hot and good looking, and #2 he has to be in my age group, I swear if it was some old fart forget slapping I wouldve shoved him under the train!
sometimes around the guy I like or if he is someone I haven't met yet but seen around and he's hot I have a crush on him, I do wish I can get the chance to give him a boner, its like a boost for me, sort of like a thumbs up, that proves that heyyy, I can be an attractive girl who can turn on a guy...and girls just need that reassurance sometimes...it feels amazing.
one time, I liked this one guy, and we had physics lab together in class, and my leg brushed up on his because we were working very close to each other on the apparatus we were dealing with, and I was uncontrollably leaning into his area without realizing it, and he smiled at first and seemed nervous or blushed, and then he readjusted his leg kinda (which pissed me off at first because I didn't know back then guys get boners that quick or didn't know what I had caused and took it as a sign he didn't like me and I made him feel uncomfortable because he backed off) and then he got up and said he'll brb all of a sudden and went out to use the bathroom or get fresh air or something...which after seeing other qs on this website I learned and realized I most probably did give him a boner because I know he was attracted to me...it made me feeel awesome I have the ability to do that...so yes its not gross at all, its natural and makes me feel better about myself...
What Guys Said 6
Maybe this was one of those few girls who knows that sometimes that kind of thing can't be controlled. I personally have never had something like that happen to me but if I had I would've just let it be, there wasn't anything you could've done unless you wanted to try and reach between her legs and try to get it out (now THAT might've gotten you slapped).
I remember reading a quesion on here with a guy asking how women feel about giving guys erections, most of the women said they were flattered that they were able to get that reaction.
But everybody is different.
I swear I'm not a horn dog, but that is an awesome story!
What a great experience and especially the giggles afterwards.
Awesome story bro.
she probably was flattered, that she was able to do that, too bad you didn't talk to her, man, it'd been perfect
oh, and I'm guessing she was wearing something like revealing too?
So, if you ride the train often... and it gets that packed...does that mean you popped wood from a guy rubbing against you at some point in your life?