Oral sex. Do you feel obligated to return the favor?

If a guy/girl gives you oral sex, do you feel you need to return the favor, especially if that person dose not get to orgasm at all?

Updates:
Wow, thanks for all the answers. A lot of good advice. Another way to look at it would be weather the other person is just a hook up or if he/she is a boyfriend/girlfriend. Again, lots of good advise, but I have to go with how I _really_ feel.
 

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  • I do it because I want to.

    I want it back.

    They're unrelated. Its not a quid pro quo. And if she doesn't want too, its not good.

What Girls Said 5

  • I think oral is the best. Plus why woud not want to give the whole joy ride to give each other pleasure. I love to give bjs to my boyfriend and the look on his face when I do it. Then when he goes down on me and he here's me moan I know he's enjoying it He keeps it up and then goes faster.

    • thank you

  • not obligated but if he wanted it and I felt good with him, sure why not

  • If he does a good job on me and he is clean then sure.

  • Uhhh no I give oral because I want to plus he enjoys it, I never feel obligated that would just be a turnoff for both of us.

  • I'm a virgin, so I don't know how much my opinion will matter in this...

    But personally, it really turns me on to think about going down on a guy. I probably wouldn't care if he did for me. It might actually make me uncomfortable if I really didn't feel open enough with the individual guy.

    I've always thought oral was a much more personal and "intimate" thing than other sexual stuff, just because... you're all up in their business, to put it simply. So because of that, I'd probably go down on a guy before I'd let him do the same to me.

    Honest opinion here.

    • yea that makes sense to me, I agree with you

    • im the same way, I go down on my guy all the time. but I really could care less if he did it to me or not,

What Guys Said 8

  • Not at all...I don't care if I ever get bjs and I give oral all the time and expect and want to...(:

  • If you give oral sex and expect oral sex back, obviously you're not that into the girl. I would make it a rule not to give oral sex and even if she wants to do it back, don't let her. And likewise, if she goes down on you, and expects you to return the favor, it just kills the romance, unless of course both of you just care about getting off. I hate it when a girl feels obligated to go down on me after I go down on her. It shouldn't be like that.

  • Of course I would, it'd be a bit dodgy of me to just take and not return the favor! Plus I'd enjoy knowing I'm pleasuring her.

  • When you get a gift, do you feel obligated to return the favor? You should give one when you feel like giving one, nit when you feel obligated.

  • Lol umm obligated? No I enjoy it though the way she pulls on my hair =P mmmm

  • No. But I might feel guilty if I didn't return the favor.

  • I'd do it to please them if they please me :D

  • If she makes an effort to do a good job, sure why not?

    Two exceptions:

    1. She isn't shaved (no mouthfuls of hair please)

    2. She doesn't wash (take a shower!) or is on her period (really?!)

    Other than that, I like to make my girl happy.

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