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Girls, have you ever had a guy with a foot fetish?

Okay, so I have a bit of thing for a girls' legs and feet. I don't know why, I just do. My first ever girlfriend found out about it when she was just getting a little frisky under the table at dinner once, she put her feet in my lap and I'll be damned if I didn't practically bust right out of my pants I got so hard so fast. That led to some questions and I told her about it, and she was actually fine with it. Even got me off with her feet on several occasions. She thought it was cute. However, every girl I've had since then has not really been into it. I've hinted at it and they thought feet were just gross, so I never pushed the issue. I'm curious have any of you girls had a guy with a similar kink? Have you ever given a guy a footjob? Maybe rubbed your foot on his crotch under a table or something? Just ever indulged his fetish at all? If so, how did you do it? How did you react? Did you think it was gross but just wanted to please him anyways? Did you like it? etc. I know there are other guys like me out there, but it seems that most girls I've met think that this kind of thing is either a joke or it's just gross... I'd like to hear if there are any other girls out there who don't see it this way?
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  • First of all, the main thing guys with a foot fetish should never do is assume everyone will understand it. Don't forget its you that's lived with it all your life - you're used to it mentally. To turn round to someone and hit them with your confession will always get the same reaction.. shock, lack of understanding, judgement which will ultimately lead to hurt feelings.
    Admitting is working progress with a long term partner, 3 years on in my relationship and I finally experienced a footjob without the akwardness. Stages are as followed. Foot massage, let her become comfortable with u handling her feet. tactically place her other foot over crotch each time. joke about u not getting attention, "i'll keep rubbing if u rub me".. she started moving her feet back n forth over my crotch. stage complete. one day we discussed spicing things up in bed, by suggesting handcuffs it will obviously take away her ability to use hands. i took great pleasure in pleasuring her... toys, the lot, i moved my body into position for her to use her feet on me while i kept going with a vibrator. from the sheer intensity of it all she went all out with her feet, i went all out on her. awesome. turns out i unvailed a few hidden secrets from her too. Working progress and wanting to please each other is key. i still haven't verbally said "i have a foot fetish" but foot play is still being used.. she definitely knows. ROLE ON THE NEXT FEW YEARS!

    • I don't think that being open about your fetish should "always" be met with "shock, lack of understanding, and judgement." I just recently started seeing a guy with a foot fetish, and I found out before we were intimate. We were flirting and talking about our sexual escapades, and when I asked him, he kind of shut down and got embarrassed. I reassured him, he told me, and I wasn't shocked. In fact, I was rather intrigued. I had never met someone with a foot fetish (at least not someone who was open about it). I was excited to know what it entailed! If anything, it made me more interested...

  • I have an extreme foot fetish & am just very crazy about girls sexy legs/feet!! :-D I like 2 massage/kiss her pretty feet & suck her toes. I want 2 ultimately end up laying on her sexy leg/ "pleasuring" myself on her pretty foot!! :))) The pleasuring sensation is sooo heavenly!! :)))

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  • I never really thought about it before until I started dating a guy who has the same fetish. I always played with my feet and tried to pick stuff up with my toes. I loved my feet getting tickled, and rubbed as well. But I thought nothing of it. Turns out, it was like a gateway to new things with my boyfriend. I do everything and beyond for him now. Footjobs, while we have sex I put my foot in his face (sometimes we kiss and lick my toes together while engaged in sex), When we are standing somewhere I rub one foot on my leg, or if I am wearing flipflops I take one off and rub one foot on top of the other,When sitting, I lotion them, move my toes all around etc..I love how easy it is for him to get turned on. In turn, it turns me on ALOT. And it feels good to be praised. I'm told I have perfect feet by him, and I never really appreciated how nice they were till him. So, it's nice :)

    But he has mentioned with his past relationships that the girls seemed to get bored or got jealous of the attention their feet got. Which doesn't make sense, it's a part of them..you know? Some girls might think it's weird, some might deal with it, but find one who is really into it. But they could be like me, and not even know that they are into it until they try. :)

    • Wow... you're special, and he's very lucky! Great answer.

    • -- T-that was... *Starts crying* THAT WAS JUST BEAUTIFUL

    • um bingo! followed! lol

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  • I don't think its weird, at all!

    I never really thought about feet in a sexual way until recently. I mean, when I was in high school I asked my boyfriend if I could give him a footjob, but that was the extent of my exploration :P

    Recently, though, I've started seeing a guy who has a foot fetish, and its actually rather exciting! He was very shy about it at first, and very adamant that it was "dirty" and "disgusting," but I didn't have to ask for too many foot rubs before he stopped talking like that ^_-

    We've recently starting moving on from the foot massage stage, and I must say, it's quite fun! I love seeing him get so excited. We're very much in the "exploration" phase, and I can't get enough of his fetish! First of all, he *loves* touching and massaging my feet--and what kind of girl doesn't like that? But beyond that, it's fun to try new things. Like, for example.. the other night I took initiative and stuck my toe in his mouth--I liked his reaction very much!

    There is nothing wrong with having a foot fetish at all--I like the attention that he gives my feet! It's a body part that's usually ignored, and it's amazing to have them pampered! If a girl thinks it's weird or gross.. Well now, that's her loss, isn't it?

    • Thanks for this explanation! It’s great to hear it. I wish more girls had your mindset (:

  • my boyfriend has an intense foot fetish lol. yeah I let him lick my feet all the time. he actually begs me to give him a footjob but its not simple, well not for me... he hates when I wear flipflops =P but yeah if it turns him on I love his fetish. and I think its funny when all I have to do to get him hard is put my feet into his view LOL. the only downfall is I lose ALOT of socks =D

    • U don't think he's weird or anythin?

    • Not at all. its just what he likes. I think everyone has some kind of fetish but some are less intense. and I bet they get a lot weirder then feet.

    • So don't wear socks ;) your feet are way sexier bare ;)

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  • no, but I damn want a boyfriend that has a foot fetish! lol. ^_^

    • Would you agree to massage some one face with your feet.

    • Wow really? Cool I could help you with that

    • What did you say? I almost died reading this.. Where have you been so far goddess?

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  • My boyfriend is exactly like you xD

  • Foot fetishes are weird in my opinion. But if this girl doesn't mind, more power to you.

  • not that I know of. none of my previous bf's have had this kind of fetish..it sounds interesting! that's kinda cool that you found something so simple like that that turns you on!

    • Lol, it's not so much that I found it... I wasn't looking for it. It just happened.

  • gross? It would only be gross if the girl had horrible feet O_o. Or dirty feet. When you are in love with someone all his/her body seems beautiful and erotic :P My ex tried licking my feet once, it just made me laugh so hard cause its my tickle zone lol, so he stopped that cause he wasnt going to get anywhere xD

  • I have a foot fetish too, but unlike you I hate mine with a passion, and sure I like to lick girls feet as much as the next guy, so if oyu find a girl who doesn't mind good for you

    • What kind of girl actually would mind? id love it! and besides, girls love shoes so why wouldn't we like feet too? :)

    • Ah man cheer up I hate it a little to but hey - Find a girl that is ok with it and itll b great no worries

    • Sorry for the way I phrased that I had a bad day that involved my foot fetish. Anyhoo I can't find a girl who would let me anywhere near her feet. What do I do?

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  • For me and my boyfriend, our feet are the most important thing. He licks and rubs my feet all the time, and we are both very cool with it. When I take naps and go to sleep, he is all over. I wake up to find my feet wet. Also, he may tie me up and gag me to have easier access to my feet. I am totally fine with it. I love him and I will be willing to engage in more sexy feet flirting in the future.

    • This is very sexy

  • I love girls feet!!! Any girl that wants a footgazem let me know! Il caress your feet anytime of the day... Lol 😜

  • Wow so many girls find it sexy I would love to have a girlfriend that would let me worship her feet any time but I find mentioning it to a girl may creep them out just want a girl who loves to use her feet to turn me on mmm

  • My husband keeps his fetish to himself an involves me 0% which is hurtful. I've busted him before seeking online gratifications. I doubt he has quit. I would 100% get into anything he wanted but his preference is for feet that are over size 10 with smooth soles. I have petite 7 well cared for but not super smooth. I can't move past this.

    • can I kiss your feet?

  • I love it! It’s a huge turn to see a guy get turned on when he massages, licks, & kisses my feet.

  • i think its hot that you've got a foot fetish! I wish more guys did, if most guys did have little fetishes like that I would be getting them excited all day, I think that it would be fun!

    • Actually, with that kind of attitude, you probably are getting us excited all day. We just didn't know that you wanted to know about it...

    • Your very cool

    • Fuckin dream girl rt here

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  • I have actually tried rubbing my foot on his crotch a few times. We both think it is cute but I am not that into the foot fetish thing. I think it is extremely awkward. I would rather him pay more attention with my upper body than my legs and feet.

    I think it's totally freaky and gross for someone to be down there licking and kissing your toes.

    • Well to each their own... but seriously, what's to say that butts are attractive? Or chests... or whatever other basically arbitrary things people like... It's just a learned attraction. You can't control what you're attracted to. If I could stop liking it and wanting it I would cause god knows most girls I've been with have felt the same way as you and I've had to either hide it or suppress it to the point where I feel like there's something wrong with me even though I know there shouldn't be.

    • No, there is absolutely nothing wrong with you. I was just expressing my point of view and I wasn't trying to offend you in any way. people like what they like and no one should stop them because others think its weird. its just me and it all lies upon your girlfriend and what they think about it.

    • You're stupid. foot fetishes are cuuute. and quite fun :P

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  • lol my boyfriend has a MAJOR foot fetish.

    he loves my legs, my feet, my toes.

    it think its SUPER weird,

    and he looks at them like he seriously wants them, or me I suppose, like you just described above.

    although I find it really gross, I've tried to pleasure him, let him touch them, lick them.

    and maybe someday ill do more (we aren't quite there yet)

    but trust me, I think its freaky, and I get kinda grossed out every time he asks.

    sooo idk, its complicated, but I love him enough to let him have his funn. lol

    • You can't just be flattered or happy that he likes YOUR legs and feet so much? It's fine to not share the fetish... but everyone likes different things. Just cause what he likes is a little less mainstream he's gross? Honestly, the penis/vagina are more prone to being dirty, sweaty and riddled with bacteria than legs or feet :-P

    • If a girl wanted me to take a 12 inch dildo up my ass, I wouldn't be flattered or happy that she likes MY ass. I would find it a bit gross. It's not gross because it's less mainstream. It's gross because the person doesn't like a particular thing and it either takes time to get yourself to like something that you are normally squeamish about, or you never get there at all. If she said foot fetishism is gross, you could argue what you argued. But she said, "I think it's freaky / gross." That's her opinion / gut reaction and neither you, nor anyone, and sometimes not even she herself can control that without a lot of thought and practice.

  • i don't have that much experience with this kind of thing, but when I was younger once a bunch of my friends were all under a blanket in a circle. a guy I liked was across from me, and I tried to tap his leg with my leg, but it ended up being his dick that I tapped. He then proceeded to take my ankle/foot and rub it on him. We weren't talking and no one knew because it was a group of like 10 people, but I saw his eyes roll in the back of his head multiple times. lol. I was kind of intrigued by it but I don't think I would want to voluntarily give someone a 'foot job'. I only was okay with it because it was unplanned, seemed innocent, and it wasnt very deliberate. That's probably as far as I would go with those kinds of things.

    • Did he come? I mean, did you let him finish on your foot?

    • I have no idea. He was a little older than me, and I didn't really know all about 'finishing' back then because I was a lot younger, I really don't know because I never like 'took note' of it.

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