Do you expect your partner to leave after sex or sleepover on one night stand?

[Anonymous]

If you had one night stand at your own place (may or maynot be someone you want to continue the relationship with), do you expect your partner to leave after all the hugging and talking at the end (perhaps leave after taking the shower at the end) or do you expect them to come back to the bed after the shower and sleep over for the night and leave in the morning? Side question: if you want him/her to leave after the sex, how would you do it?

[LookAgain]

Well if it's a one night stand with no feelings there then they are not even getting in the shower with me it's time to go! And as far as telling them you want them to leave, well I don't think you come out and say OK it's time for you to go now but if they start to lay down beside you then tell them you'll rather sleep alone or say you wasn't expecting them to stay with you.

[Asker]

I was wondering how to know whether the girl thinks it's just one night stand or the start of a relationship. Because I have been called a d-bag few times because I left right after the sex.

[Misty_04]

No sleeping over unless you are too drunk to drive/unable to walk. Sod off. And yes trust me, they will leave when I say so.

[Asker]

so you will tell him to leave right at his face if he doesn't seems to be leaving?

[Misty_04]

Of course.

[l-hedoniste]

The don't have to leave immediately, but after breakfast, I'm going to get antsy. I need my space.

"if you want him/her to leave after the sex, how would you do it?"

A very gentle hint usually does the trick: "I don't mean to rush you, but I have a busy day ahead. I'm real glad you came."

[TheAnswerer]

1) I don't really care. I wouldn't feel uncomfortable if she stays over afterward, and it would probably be more polite to let her stay. Yeah, she can stay until the sun rises.

2) If I want / need her to leave for any reason, direct communication is the way.

[handsomejackk]

I'm a man, a gentleman in fact. I wouldn't just shove a lady out the door in the middle of the night. While I would prefer to sleep while cuddling, if it was strictly a physical affair we could always just take separate rooms.

The only time I would want her to leave is if she turned out to be a complete psycho. I would say, "Alright, see ya." and show her the door.

[handsomejackk]

It just hit me that I answered this all wrong. If I had wanted to win Best Answer, I should have said: "She can come and go as she pleases." Damn, opportunities are like sand to me.

[taster]

After reading the answers here...that is why I do not do ONS.../:

[RealMenFly]

I probably wouldn't have a one night stand, kinda risky.

[Anonymous]

Chicks who have one night stands are whores. So why the hell would you want to cuddle with a whore!? Lol just throw her out when you get what you want geez.

[TheAnswerer]

(0_0'') Uhh, I need a shotgun.

[Anonymous]

After a one night stand they need to hit the damn road. Sorry, but they can shower at home.

[Asker]

how about if he is someone that you are planning to be with after that night?

[ivarei]

if it's a one-night stand then there are no intentions to see them after that night.