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Guys would you cuddle and kiss a girl during/after sex or is that only if she's your girlfriend?

I'm sure plenty of guys like to cuddle and make out during sex but is stuff like that only reserved for your girlfriends? If it's just a one nighter or casual sex, would you still do that or would you worry that it would make her misunderstand your feelings?
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Update: I'm just curious after reading one of the answers here but do guys usually send their ONS home in the middle of the night? obviously everyone is different but you don't even let her stay the night?
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  • I think cuddling is not a big deal with guys compare to us girls. But if he has a girlfriend I think the level of intimacy + cuddling is more compare to hook ups.

    Ex: hook up - your in his arms
    gf - your in his arms with him spooning and hands are intertwined in his chest. Other hand he is stroking my hair.

    I notice that during encounter with my man. 1st few weeks he wasn't into cuddle thing. When we decided to be "exclusive", he's the one who initiates the cuddling and giving me lots of forehead kisses compare to being hook ups before. The more he develops feelings for you, the more he wants to touch you, feel you.

Most Helpful Guys

  • It's not only reserved for girl friends, no.

    Even on a one night stand, I want the girl I'm with to feel pleasure, and girls like to kiss and cuddle and what not.

    I know there's no danger of her misunderstanding my feelings because I will tell her to call a taxi at 3am, and to go home.

    Girlfriends get the soppy behavior . Like me listening attentively to her day. Cooking her breakfast. Not sending her home at 3am. That sort of thing.

    • Re: Update - Not always. If we're at her place, I'll get the taxi, obviously.

    • I believe cuddling is not really a big deal with guys unlike to us girls, but take note on things he does after sex. Is he making an effort? :)

  • No I do that. Even if she is not my girlfriend. It is always nice having a girl you just have sex with and cuddling around her. At least for me personally. Sometimes I don't do it though because I know I might inconvinience her and or I need to do something or have an early day the next day.

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  • The only way for her to misunderstand my feelings is if I don't discuss them--a mistake I never, ever make.

  • Doesn't matter if girlfriend or not. Every one night stand is a potential girlfriend.

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