Is it possible to tell if a girl has lost her virginity by body language and gait?

Okay so my friend's mom figured out that my friend lost her virginity.

She said could tell because she walks differently.

She also says she can tell from body language.

Is this true? If so, what does she mean by body language, and what does the walk look like afterwards?


Most Helpful Guy

  • I found this article while trying to clear my doubts and hopefully it will be useful, check it out

    Nope! Girls who have had sex do not walk differently from girls who have not had sex. That's just one of the many myths about people who have sex. Rest assured that having sex does not change a person's outward appearance.

    One reason behind some of these myths is the changes associated with puberty. For example, some people believe that girls who have had sex get bigger breasts and hips. Although girls may notice that their breasts and hips grow around the time they start to become sexually active, this is not caused by becoming sexually active. The changes are actually caused by puberty. During puberty, hormonal changes cause girls' hips to widen and breasts to grow. These changes are completely normal, and they happen whether or not a girl becomes sexually active.


What Guys Said 9

  • It's true. I don't know how--I hope some girl explains it--but girls can tell almost infallibly when another girl got laid.

    I would guess that a girl who's flirts strangely or spooks around guys, was a virgin. I often guess wrong, though.

  • No way.

    It makes my MaleBoveineManure-detector ring very loud and and clear ;-)

    Your mother is guessing or speaking about the general impression she has about the girl, not about a fact.

    Of course there is a one in two chance she guesses right and a one in two chance she guesses wrong.

  • I am guessing her mom was right? I would like to know how that works or if it is more common also. Good Q.

  • Hell no. Its complete bull shit.

  • NO. Her mother tricked her. They were saying that same old line 20 years ago when I was your age.

    • But how did she know?

    • Her mother didn't know. Her mother jist said that to see if she would admit that she did have sex.

      Your friend probably said yes & that's how her Mother tricked her into telling.

    • Yesss,

      totally agree with you.

  • It's called motherly intuition, she could be wrong, but I doubt it...

  • I don't think so.

  • Well when a girl walks, if you look closely to her back-side. In between her legs you can notice an opening. While other girls have no openings when they walk normally. So this may be a possibility

    that they had sex or not. I may not be right, but it is worth a shot.


What Girls Said 8

  • Very You can't tell by how someone walks or by body language if they have had sex. Sex doesn't change your body structure..seriously not.

    Your friends mom tricked your friend...and very well at that. She must have had a hunch, and used that as an excuse/trick to get your friend to fess up...but no sane, informed adult woman would truly think such a thing about the female body.

  • That's insane. There is no way to know this by the way someone walks or holds themselves. She was just duping the girl into telling the truth. Most people thought I was a virgin for the longest time because I was (still am) squeamish about people who make out in public. I'm private with my physical affection. I can talk about sex with no problem. But you will never see me hang all over a guy, suck face with a guy or anything so explicit. I will hold hands, give a quick peck and hug. Attitude? Maybe. The way they walk? Heck no.

    Getting laid and then walking somewhere can really be uncomfortable if the sex was rough (sometimes my crotch is sore so I may walk a little funny) or if you had sex without a condom and all his come is trickling out (then yes I would walk funny too). But this is right after getting laid. I personally would take a shower before going out like that but some people don't.

  • I can usually tell when a person is a virgin or not, not always but sometimes. It's like before they were immature about sex, the way they talked about it or reacted when it was brought up. And now that they have actually done it they can see it from a personal point of view and act differently about it. Also, they are usually less nervous or shy when it's brought up after they have done it. You don't really walk differently though that I have noticed, maybe a little more confident or something I guess.

  • she probably had a slight spring in her step looked a bit happier? mothers are good at seeing what's up with their children. It's like your mom ALWAYS knowing when something was wrong or bugging you.

  • ok...after I lost my virginity my grandmother had told me the same thing...i guess the walk is that ur feet curve out more...and body she dresses or acts around guys now...i went through the same thing

  • My mom said that she can tell by looking at your walk your hips widen and you take wayyyy smaller steps and your shoulders are more firm and you look older

  • im not sure... for a day or 2 after ur first time ur really sore down there and certain positions hurt, so she could have been walking unusually. but its only for a day or so nothing permanent

  • okay, lol, I never heard this question before, but I know what you talking about, my mom says the same thing. buts its not quite true. I didn't loose my virginity, until I was in highschool and guys thought I wasnt a virgin in middle school bc, of my beautiful curves, and because I can cute and sexy and flirt and know exactly what to say to get the guy's pants high. a female can go along with the ccrowd, just to feel like she is "in". just like it when a guy is embarrassed to say he is virgin to his guy friend, or whomever.a female has capabiltity of lying about her virginity and you want even know it. a virgin can know more about sex and how to please a man than a whore would. that's one of the fascinating things about clever females, is that we know more about a guy, and how he will react, before they do. and moma is right, most females nowadays, aren't virgins, and their whole walk changes, along with the way they approach guys, and talk about sex more unconservatively.:) those females are the females that belittles themselves, and don't care if their respect for themselves is getting diminished by the minute because of their lack of bein smart. ibut don't get me wrong, loosing our virginity, and not bein a whore, yet still bein active wasnt a good choice either,but its better then not saying anyone is dumb, because we all are in some way, its just some are a whole lot dumber then most but people are allowed change, so you can't hold that against them. and if you just ask a female she is a virgin, 95% of the time she is telling the truth.