To the person who mentioned sluttiness in girls, that goes double for guys. No girl wants a guy who whores around but has a double standard about personal behavior. And no girls wants a guy who still thinks in antiquated terms like slutiness. Sex is sex and everybody does it, so guys who think otherwise can get over themselves.
I like to "deflower" boys ;D
It's a power and ego thing for them.
Yeah it's gross when old guys don't like to date girls their own age.
There's a strong biological reason why men prefer virgins or girls with less sex partners. Biologically speaking, a girl that has less or no sex with other men will be far less likely to have mothered children by other fathers. Look up the term "cuckold". Even if men don't want to have children with a women, they have a natural biological aversion to sluttiness for long-term partners. It is subconscious, not something the men can choose themselves overtly.
yeah...I don't and have never done so...never cared to mess with virginity...(
Disagree. Blood gets everywhere. Can't stand it. Better when that does not happen.
most of us do not focus on that. If we are given the privilege, it is a cool and boosts the ego a bit. But it does not define most of us. realistically, a virgin is not that great when it comes to the sex at that time. sorry girls, but there is a lot of stop and go, second thoughts, tears, mental baggage, so even though there might be some biological drive to pop her, reality is a bit different.
I think that it's special to be a girl's first, other than that, don't know.
well, because we know it's all new for a woman. Imagine the revelation the first time a **** goes inside her, or how thoroughly satisfying it is knowing your experience could bring her to new heights of pleasure, sensations she has never felt before. I'm sure there's dominant submissive element. Don't get me wrong, I've done it a few times, it's no big deal. But it's hot. I'm sorry that makes me a perverse animal.
As I said in other posts. Think of it as getting a brand new car, no wear and tear ;). Same reason why I don't like buying used cars,unless I'm the one using it from the start.
Deflower? I like that word. Anyway I honestly don't care if a girl is a virgin or not when dating. As long as she has practiced safe sex then I don't care.