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Guys, why do you pinch and pull my nipples?

Also, do other girls like this? For me it just hurts :(
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  • I am writing unbiasedly about experiences on a site where males can learn what women really think without worrying about their closer IRL female partners sugar-coating things.

    GUYS:

    With nipple stimulation,' the right way to do it' for most women is not as passionate and violent as you are trained (unfairly) to be for 90% of your lives.Plus, your chest is different from ours. Our nipples aren't the same.I've also read and heard from lots of guys and on sites that males like their nipples stimulated and that women do not do this enough. Wanting us to do it to you how you'd like us to does not mean we want it.

    It's like more guys claiming to not know how to be gentle and nurturing with children.

    The amount of gentleness that most women according to my years of friend ships, experience and being female reading health books,articles and women's magazines strongly suggest that most women,when given a choice,not trying to maintain a flow in the throws of passion, do not like having our nipples rubbed, pulled or bitten. Just feeling you brush against them is often titillating enough.

    Stop making your basis of sex/seduction facts be 1) what you see actresses do in p*rn 2)what acquiescing girlfriends say for you when you just do what you want when you're dating and (which they then complain about after you break up). As in :

    'Do you like that?' 'Sure." Does not mean you know what most women like.

    I do have the added experience of having a female body with female skin and have had sex with both genders. The guys always have to be brought down a peg in their furor and roughness. Yes, some women like that but, most women do not like being physically hurt, no matter what some male expert touts about pain increasing arousal- it increases fluid production which moves things along faster for the male but is not the same thing as the emotion of arousal.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Some girls are very sensitive, and need gentle breast play. Other girls like and want it much rougher, especially as they are getting worked up (they like it gentle at first, but rougher as things progress).

    You have to talk to your guys and tell them what you like and what you don't. If what they are doing worked for another girl, they're going to assume it will work for you unless you tell them otherwise. Don't be shy or embarrassed; you're different in this area than some other girls, and that's perfectly fine. And guys will want to please you sexually, so they WANT to know what you like and what you don't, so they can do the things that you'll enjoy.

  • Honestly, I don't do that but can agree that I hear about it/see it all the time.

    The nerve endings are sensitive and synesthesia can happen (crossing of nerve firings and functions like when some people see bright light, they sneeze) leading to SOME people finding pleasure.

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  • He is not doing it right if it's hurting.

    • Ya it shouldn't hurt.

    • I've never had it not hurt - sure playing with/rubbing them is fine. but pinch and/or pull... ugh it really hurts. and probably 5-6 or so guys have done it

    • I guess you are just too sensitive in that area and that's not an issue.

  • go to google and enter "Why are your nipples sensitive after sex?"

    It has some info.

  • If it hurts, just tell him. For some girls it's a turn-on, he probably assumes it is for you too.

  • Tell him to not do it next time. lol why can't girls communicate well about this stuff with their partners?

  • Pinch? Pull? wtf is up with that guy? How about a little massage instead, with soft bites and licks circling the nipples ;)

  • For some girls its a turn on so we try it and test if it works, if it does it does if it don't it don't everyones different

    • Why did you bite and pull on my ball sack ?! Testing to see if it would hurt. Remember that good friend on the play ground who was 'just testing ' to see if your favorite toy would fly? Most likely he didn't get to play with it again, right? Men's skin is not as thin as women's.What you think won't hurt your nipples will hurt ours. ASK don't just 'test' with someone else's body, especially when you are in a vulnerable highly intimate deeply trusting situation.

  • solely for quality control purposes.

  • next time cry ow and they will ease up on you :)

  • because they are obsessed with boobs... keep your bra on if it annoys you. It would annoy me too.

    • haha well I don't want to keep my bra on. I do like when they play with my boobs, just not so rough..

  • What the hell? I didn't get a turn.

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