Guys do you prefer virgins or non virgins?

[Anonymous]

when it comes to dating a girlfriend do you prefer a virgin or a non virgin?

[G-Daz]

I would prefer the virgin. I'm not saying I couldn't overlook everything else and date a girl who wasm'y a virgin, it deffinitly could happen but a girl who is a virgin would be my preference for a host of reasons.

- It tells me she has a high degree of self control and can stick to her morals

- Maybe sex actually means something to her

- No worry of STD's

- I would prefer to be dominant anyway so no problem with her not being experiences, she can learn with me and id be up for the practice lol

- Maybe religious

- It'd also mean more to sleep with her

[thisGUYknows]

If I'm dating her then it doesn't matter. I'm not gonna expect her to be decent at it for a while. but if I like her then its no problem with me to take things slow. some guys might be hesitant to take a girl's virginity cause its kinda a big deal for the girl therefore she might put more into the relationship than its worth. other guys look at it like they won a new car. it depends on the guy.

[CatholicVirginia]

Once again, guys, you're all assuming the virgin would actually want to give you her virginity. If she's held out for this long, what makes you think you're entitled to it? What if the choice is between "Virgin until marriage" and "non-virgin"?

[Ceomoss]

lol better said then done I always say.. "fullcourt"

[CatholicVirginia]

lol what does that even mean?

[Asker]

they can still have a preference

[CatholicVirginia]

Yes, they can. I'm asking what their preferences are if the virgin is not willing to sleep with them. I'm betting those preferences change.

[CatholicVirginia]

I'm sorry if you think I infringed upon your question, but I see nothing wrong with collecting more data.

[TheAnswerer]

Personally, I think that the input you have provided was quite unnecessary. The question asker is asking us what our favorite color is, and you're saying "Don't forget that cyan is a possible color!" I don't see your answer being of much use other than trying to bring up a "Cyan is the best color!" kind of argument.

[G-Daz]

Vigin till marriage would be fine

[CatholicVirginia]

Honestly, TheAnswerer, I'm just wondering. It's more along of the lines of "Cyan or Royal Blue?" Okay, now that you've answered that, "Royal blue or periwinkle?" Once again, just curious. I'm not going around saying, "YOU HAVE TO BE VIRGINS ON YOUR WEDDING NIGHT OR GOD WILL SMITE YOU!"

[CatholicVirginia]

By the way, if you're not a virgin on your wedding night, God WILL smite you! (just kidding)

[CatholicVirginia]

Oh ouch. A troll, really? I do not believe I have done any trolling... once again, I'm asking questions. Not trying to piss people off, but getting to know people on this site. I'm not telling anyone they're wrong, or trying to impose my beliefs. However you, BOY, are imposing your beliefs. YOU SIR ARE THE TROLL! Victoryyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy! Victoryyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy!

[BCRanger10]

:-)

[baliguy11]

no preference. but the virgin thing better not be for long, unless she gives awesome head.

[CatholicVirginia]

Seriously?

[baliguy11]

how so? nice name. should I guess where this is going?

[CatholicVirginia]

Unless you've spoken to me/seen my comments before, I doubt you could guess (aka stereotype) where this is going. But seriously, your relationship would be based on sex? She either gives you her virginity, is an oral sex connoisseur, or you're out?

[baliguy11]

easy Virginia. never said where anything was going. just asking. got some sand in your panties today? sex is part of adult relationships. I can work around the virgin thing. give her oral. mmmm love to. may be return the favor. cool? never said anyone was out.

[baliguy11]

lets be friends Virginia. what do ya say?

[TheAnswerer]

lol at the way CatholicVirginia replied to baliguy11. In every healthy relationship, there is a sexual aspect, let it be before or after marriage. I probably don't have to remind where babies come from, right?

[CatholicVirginia]

You can all leave your condescension at the door. I was merely asking a question. I would like to think that sex is not something that would make or break a relationship so easily.

[baliguy11]

OK miss Virginia. if you say so. peace now.

[wallaber]

While it's not a deal breaker, I would prefer a virgin, because that way she'd be like me and we could learn, experiment, explore possibilities and just get better at it together without having to worry about any expectations or making a mistakes because we'll both be learning. :)

[Cantremember]

Who cares about the past? It's how you go about it that counts.

[Ceomoss]

Doesnt matter if I made that move! Because she's bad AF

[TheGodEmperorLeto]

In general I don't care, but if I had to choose probably a virgin only because it'd make it more intimate and special that she hasn't shared it with anyone else yet. But it really doesn't matter so long as she hasn't been sleeping with anyone and doesn't sleep with people easily. Basically I care more about our opinions on it matching up than the set amount/standard whatever.

[BCRanger10]

I am waiting until marriage, so I would prefer a virgin.

[taster]

No...lol..just no...young boys like virgins...I never did..even when I was a young boy...lol...(:

[MikeK]

It doesn't matter to me.

If she is a virgin, I'd hope she'd be willing to learn.

[jayzee]

A: Virgin 0 6 6 (75%)

B: Non virgin 2 0 2 (25%)

WOW

[Anonymous]

I voted virgin because I think it would be better for me personally since I'm a virgin. If a girl was really cool and not a virgin it wouldn't stop me from being in a relationship with her though.

[Anonymous]

Virgin

CatholicVirginia keeps saying that on questions like this, and I don't get it. It doesn't even make any sense.

[Anonymous]

On this website with so many insecure guys and virgins expect the majority to choose A. They are all terrified of being compared against previous men and found inadequate.

[answermethis20]

so true

[MikeK]

I wouldn't be - sex tends to get better as you go along, so in hindsight, past partners would probably tend to pale in comparison with me :P

[Opinion Owner]

Mike, just look at the stats - you're in the minority.

[Anonymous]

I prefer virgin girlfriend.

[Anonymous]

Would we prefer a new car over a used one?

[TheAnswerer]

That is a horrible analogy, because it suggests that a human being loses value just because she does not have that extra bit of skin. I completely disagree with that kind of logic.

[Opinion Owner]

Well in a way yeah a girl does lose a bit of her value just like a car when you drive it off rhe lot. I love my car though.

[glitterberryalisa]

LOL

[Anonymous]

Virgin, I don't want to be compared to other guys

[Anonymous]

I would prefer a virgin or girl who has slept with very few people.

My reasons:

1. I don't mind being her teacher.

2. I know she isn't going to be comparing me to a bunch of other guys.

3. I know she has self-control and isn't sleeping with guys just to get their approval.

4. I know she's not going to be giving me an STD.

5. I know she's not the kind of girl that rushes into things or allows others to force her to do something she wasn't comfortable doing.