Hand jobs without lotion or lube?

Question

A few months ago my boyfriend told me he really likes hand jobs, and I've had just has much fun as he has learning how to give them. I hadn't been using any lube or lotion, and one day while I was pleasuring him I asked him if he wanted me to, because I was afraid I was hurting him. He simply shook his head no. At first I thought it was because he felt so good in the moment and didn't want me to stop to go get some. But I've been doing this for weeks now, and I figure he would've said something if he is uncomfortable. So guys, do you masturbate/receive hand jobs without lubrication? What's comfortable for you? Discuss please!

ElijahCynicism · Accepted Answer

It differs from person to person. I'd probably really enjoy a handjob with lube, but I've never done it and wouldn't go out of my way too. It's not the same, too me, I love feeling... Eurghnngh, well, yeah. I would ultimately prefer it dryhand, I guess. But, some guys find that painfully uncomfortable, and couldn't take it. A lot of guys who are circumcised find they chafe a lot from hand jobs without lube.

By the way, I'm so jealous of your boyfriend for this; "...and I've had just as much as he has learning how to give them." I've never been with someone who's enthused about them, I'd love that ;_;

indy7 · Accepted Answer

No need for lotions or lubes. They're often inconvenient or messy, and frankly, they're just not needed. You ladies aren't going to hurt us! I'm sure most guys pound their peckers much harder than their ladies would ever dream of!

Besides, when using lotions or lubes you're much less likely to perhaps go down on us at the very last moment when we really want you to!

EverythingReal · Accepted Answer

My boyfriend doesn't ever use lube. I thought it'd be uncomfortable too. Nope! You just have to be careful to not "tug".

Joshbgosh · Answer

I don't use any lube. But as it was said in the show "Workaholics", dry guys are always the serial killers...just saying.

haleyyyyy · Answer

i always worry about this too

sunseeker11 · Answer

we have done it so much we know what feels good, listen to him yeah like that right there like this - I love to let some one masturbate me to orgasm. try restraing him tie him up and masturbate him - get him close then stop or smack his ass hard then masturbate him again - that is edging, keep him close to c uming , it drives a guy crazy, LOL :)

AlexCab · Answer

No lube for me, other than hot sweet saliva :)

taster · Answer

I prefer dry but not all males do...not sure if it is has to do with physiology or what...we tend to finish quicker with lube and I am OK either way..just like the feel of dry better..can't explain..(:

Xx_DRE_xX · Answer

i master debate without because its what I'm use to.

Anonymous · Answer

I don't need it, but it would depend on your grip and speed because it's going to eventually hurt me. If you grip it real loose and it's almost like a tease/tickle I wouldn't need anything. but it feels so incredible and diff with a massage oil or lube or your spit. It helps and feels the best with something.