When does a woman start fantasizing about a dude?

[kriskiss]

Most guys can see a girl walk by and not talk to her and already imagine her what she looks like naked and having sex with her and what she is like in bed-without so much as saying a word to her. Is that the same for a woman. Do women fantasize about the same thing if they see a strange hot guy walk by or just some guy who says hello. Or does the fantasy with guys not really begin for women until they get to know the guy and talk to him regularly and get a sense of his personality. Or are women just as superficial as guys in that respect. So at what point do you start fantasizing about a dude and what do you imagine ---like him naked, or having sex with him or other stuff. Just curious. thanks

[traintolondon]

I don't know, I never really fantasized about a special guy, the guys I fantasize about is usually faceless, its more the situation or the role he's playing. Sure, I have thought of it in the sense of "he is hot" or "I wouldn't mind doing him", but I haven't gotten my self off too thoughts about someone special (which I think was what you wanted to know). But on the other hand, I never been in love. I read a article once that said that a study shows while guys are more likely to fantasize about their friends and people around them, women fantasize more about famous people, or other people out of reach that they don't know.

[kriskiss]

interesting I thought it would be opposite that women would fantasize about friends and those they are closer too and guys the unknown. must have been on one of those loser tabloid magz...lol

[traintolondon]

nah, think first time I heard it was on the radio and then I read it on the internet. but was years ago so I don't really remember.. . But who knows, it might not be true anyway :)

[vmw2008]

I don't know about all girls, but I've definitely fantasized about guys I've never talked to, the fantasies just get stronger if I get to know him. I don't think it happens as quickly for us though. When I see a hot guy I'm not really picturing him naked, I just get butterflies about him being really hot. If he really made an impression or I see him for longer than just a few seconds, I'll fantasize.

[vmw2008]

I should also mention that I spent the last 2 hours in my French class fantasizing about sex with this guy I've been talking to lol I don't think girls and guys are all that different.

[kriskiss]

lol your in french class and your on the net on girlsaskguys...thats great. you should ask the dude voulez -vous couchez avec moi ce soir? lol...i took french if you ask him that hell be flattered.

[vmw2008]

No I posted this after class. I don't get online during class, I just fantasize, and I know what the phrase means it's very old lol

[kriskiss]

ok gotcha good luck with the math guy. make 5 year old math jokes. like why is 6 afraid of 7, because 7 ate(8) 9, etc or crap like that if your into him go for it...bonne chance!

[vmw2008]

Math guy? lol

[oOsweet~o~nessOo]

Of course.

Female sexuality is only slightly less than male sexuality for lack of tesosterone - doesn't mean we aren't just as or nearly as sexual as men are.

Lol I zone off in class thinking about how hot some of my classmates are :P one guy was helping me with math work and I thought,

" Oh I just want him to have me right now..."

Straight up random thought that came absolutely out of nowhere - we were talking about quadratic equations lol completely non - sexual topic :P

[ChooChooHaha]

Yep. He doesn't even have to touch me. He and I were fully clothed once. But if he wasn't a shithead to me later, he could've jumped me right where where we were.

[Anonymous]

if there's a guy I am sexually attracted too (he doesint need to be particularly attractive.. ;P) and I know his personality at least a littleeee then I will probably fantasize about him. I don't usually fantasize about people who are simply attractive that's bring to me, unless they are indescribably sexy or soemthing. but I do fantasize a lot. especially if I am bored in class XD

[Anonymous]

I can't speak for all girls, but I'm like a guy...just seeing a hot man makes me fantasize about them.

[Anonymous]

hmm I would say after getting to know him

[Anonymous]

yes of course.. But it is way better if he actually is naked with me. We are visual creatures too ya know :D