White guys don't want white girls who've been with black guys?

Ive read it on this site and seen it in real life too. Most respectable white guys don't want to be with a white girl who's dated a black guy. she's seen as damaged goods and trashy, not classy and respectable. I also know of a lot of white girls who wouldn't date black guys- not because they aren't attractive but because they don't want to lower their "value" like that. Do white guys really think they're better than black guys? I have never dated black and don't plan to ever, but unwashed just curious on others' opinions
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  • Everyone is going to have different reasons for not wanting to date someone. I don't want to date outside of my race because, well, I simply don't want to. I have seen plenty of men of different races who are attractive and wonderful people, but I don't want to date them. I doubt I would turn down someone because they had dated outside their race, unless they had a weird history of ONLY dating that particular race or something. My guy wouldn't date a black girl, does that make him racist or is it a preference? What if a black guy wouldn't date a white girl? Would he be looked down on as much as the white guy for doing the same thing? I doubt it . . . How about BET, what if there was a White Entertainment station, I doubt that would fly very well. I'm sick of all the racist finger pointing, can't we all just have our own opinions let others have theirs and live our own lives? What a pointless thing to concern ourselves with. Yes we have evolved a lot but our basic instincts are still there. Maybe men don't want to date women who have slept with someone outside there race because they are trying to ensure the survival of their own race, acccepting a female that could be carrying the seed of a different race is not going to help his cause now is it? If we can blame men not being naturally monagomous because of natural instincts then we can blame instincts for this too. Looking forward to comments on this topic.

    • Every white parent needs to read this article and share it with their children. https:// russia-insider. com/en/what-every-white-parent-should-explain-their-children-about-blacks-talk-john-derbyshire/ri30423

    • So who cares what anybody thinks if I don't want to sleep with a black girl or I wouldn't be with a white girl cuz she's been with a black guy that's my decision. I don't give a shit whatever someone thinks. Blacks are usually more racist than any other race anyways. So if u think I'm racist suck on this bwc. Maybe I just dont like you in particular doesn't mean I wouldn't fuck your mom. Makes sense

    • Right on.

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  • Here's the whole truth. About 60% of white girls have had sex with a black guy at least once; most of them only once. It's the wild experimental phase of the late teens (think college) years; girls are trying things that they aren't supposed to do, just like guys do. Getting drunk? Check. Losing virginity? Check. Cheating on boyfriend with a one night stand on spring break? Check. Flashing the crowd at Mardi Gras? Check. F-ing a black guy? Check. OK, not every girl does everything on my list, but let's pretend you are going out on a date with a 25 year old white woman tomorrow night, there's over a 95% chance she's lost her virginity, an 80% chance that's she done the topless thing (in front of random strangers) somewhere, 90% chance she's been drunk, 50% chance she's cheated on a boyfriend, and yes, a 60% chance there's been a black penis inside her vagina. And while she will probably admit to being drunk, losing her virginity, and flashing the crowd or being topless at the beach, she probably won't admit to the black penis or the cheating. So good luck with it all.

    • " About 60% of white girls have had sex with a black guy at least once" Complete bullshit. The vast majority of white women aren't even located around black men. Black men are a minority.

    • @LThunder In the United States, they are. It's called high school, college, work, there are black guys and white girls found in all of those places.

    • Its not even close to 60% studies have found only 12 to 15% have been with a black guy but to be real i can see if it was 60 why you white girls are all single at 30 with black kids taking selfies saying bs like single life is amazing when truth is no one wants yo ass

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  • It all goes back to racism...about 60 years ago, a black man would be killed for even looking at a white woman. ( read up on Emmit Till...google him) A white woman who liked black men was considered just as bad. The world may consider that racism has diminished...but it's still there. There will always be some type of hatred on both races. And when a white man who still has that ounce of hatred sees a black man with a white woman it upsets him. And yes, white men do see themselves superior to black men. It's been that way for over 400 years.

    • if youd like to explain the reason why 88% of black males in the US are currently unemployed I might elaborate more on why we feel you're inferior

    • It's NOT about racism. It's about preserving your own existence. If all the kids from interracial relationships came out white black men would be hesitant to mess with a white women cause they'd breed out their own existence. Black men should be embarrassed for not wanting to be with a black woman and preserve their existence. It's hysterical too see all these rich black athletes breed the black out of themselves. LOL I'm not breeding the white out of me EVER!

    • It's the kind of women that date black guys, most of them are usually really trashy which isn't always obvious but when you see they have dated a black guy it's a dead give away. Other minorities are fine especially Asain since usually only quality women date them.

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  • no better way to advertise to the world that you're "coming up short" than to condemn girls who've been with black guys. I mean, it so blatantly reeks of a thinly-veiled attempt to cover up your own insecurities that I can't believe guys would even say that without being embarrassed. have some f*cking confidence in yourself. if you have a 5, 6 inch d!ck, rock that sh!t like you're packing the footlong. I'm fairly big, myself, but not ridiculous big, and I find some girls have a hard time with it and it hurts them, and that limits me, and it kinda sucks. so I'm thankful that I'm not walking around with a 2x4 in my pants, I actually feel bad for guys that are abnormally big. I've had friends and girlfriends who have told me about turning guys down for being TOO big. plus, I've seen girls trying to blow dudes in p*rnos that have 11 inch d***s, and it looks like you can't even get a decent beej. that's my nightmare! I come in at about 8, and that's more than fine for me. I'd rather be smaller than that than bigger, if faced with the choice. but regardless, I wish other white guys would stop embarrassing the hell out of the rest of us with that nonsense. you make us all look ignorant on the surface, and insecure beneath the surface.

    • Said it before. I'll say it again. Muhammad Ali was strongly against interracial dating. Do you think it was because he had a small dick and was intimidated by white guys? Stop projecting, cuck.

    • @mikeo86 Yawn. . . don't selectively quote Muhummad Ali. Later in life he totally rejected racial segregation. He had several grandbabies who were "mixed". Well, from a certain perspective.

    • Not wanting to put my penis where a black's has been has nothing to so with any insecurities. I am from a country where whites are raped and murdered by blacks every day. We are minority white and know the true nature of the beast. To be honest I don't think half the liberals who don't care about women throwing away their genetic heritage would be able to survive here for a day. We are a tough breed of white people, not insecure at all. We know the black man well, even speak native African languages. Take it from me, white women who had engaged with a black man on an intimate level are forever tainted by micro-chimerism and not worth the future genetic contribution of a white man in order to procreate. I would rather die alone than conceive a child with a woman who ever had a drop of black DNA in her and is likely contaminated for life through micro-chimerism with that DNA. That doesn't make me "come up short" or any other insult you can throw my way. That makes me a principled man who knows the true nature of the black race.

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  • You're right.

    But here in Northern Europe are not too much.. or actually - at all blacks so it's not an issue.

    They would freeze to death within 10 seconds anyway after coming here!

    To pretend there is such situation.. there's a pretty white girl I fancy but I've found out she's been with a black guy.

    Honestly I would be majorly turned off.

    It's very hard to explain it.. but it is there.

    Just to imagine such.. creature was touching her is so off-putting, of course the same is about any other guy she's been with but about blacks it's even more severe.

    • The way you word this posts shows a lot of racism. When you refer to a black man you say creature but any other race is referred to as guy. Why is that?

    • A lot of white men are racist subconsciously and consciously, then. That's pretty sad.

    • So racist

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  • First off this is very off base. I see the points you are trying to make but the wording is totally wrong. Most White guys don't care who a White girl dates. Some do harbor some resentment against it but most don't care.

    If a White man doesn't care who a White woman dates, then He IS THE RESPECTABLE ONE. The one who seems to frown on someone else for dating outside of their race is far from respectable.

    As far as the damaged goods thing, that's just a stereotype that's facilitated by that same small percentage of White men who resent White women dating outside of their race. A lot of it comes from their lack of confidence in their manhood. Most White men would care less.

    Any woman, whether she's White or not who live a promiscuous lifestyle is trashy and is devalued by such actions. Her having been with a Black man has no effect on her "value" at all.

    I can't answer your question regarding if White guys think they're better than Black men or not, but I can tell you that my White male friends, never placed any value on me either way. I was just two guys, no one better or worse than the other. I personally don't think of them as above or beneath me.

    Of course it's your right to choose whomever it is you want to date and from your attitude, I'm pretty certain the feelings mutual in terms of Black men not wanting to date you.

    You come off as biased, uneducated and down right racist and I am so happy that not every man and woman in this world don't share the views expressed in your post and the way you speak down on everyone else only devalues yourself and not those of us in the civilized world.

    • You are so wrong and can tell you're female. It's a testosterone thing. MEN in general want to breed our own likeness. The same reason Jamie and Cersi Lannister slept together. A white woman is not looked as damaged goods but rather a poor decision maker. Why be with a minority and have minority kids? It's like going backwards in life. The Kardashians, Ariana Grande and Iggy Azalea will be with black guys FOREVER because no white men will want them. I have no clue why a white woman would want to take that risk and date a black guy especially so young. One mistake in high school and they're tainted for life.

  • I've gone through and read everyones posts, and it has occured to me that maybe its not just one thing?

    A LOT of people choose to date only within their race. for whatever reason, we tend to find those that look similar to ourselves to be classically more attractive. yes i know that some people prefer to enjoy all the flavors of the world, but most like the flavors they grew up with.

    now as with any sort of romantic endeavor, we tend to project a certain amount of our own beliefs and desires upon those we choose to persue, so its not unreasonable to think that if a guy has zero interest in black girls, he would have a similar expectation of his girl.

    after this its a matter of not really knowing what to do with said information if it does unsettle you. its fine for people to start pointing the finger and claiming things like cock size, but i dont think its just that. sure it will be flat out racism or penis envy with some guys, but for others i think it might just be something else.

    in reality, it shouldn't matter where you have been or whom you have been with. but for most of guys, black or white, we really dont want to know who youve been with in the past.

    • Your syntax is terrible.

  • white guys are just insecure. they probably assume they can't messure up to the bed qualitys

    • It's the kind of women that date black guys, most of them are usually really trashy which isn't always obvious but when you see they have dated a black guy it's a dead give away. Other minorities are fine especially Asain since usually only quality women date them.

    • No, it's just disgusting.

    • Nah girl its just doesn't look right and no one wants a roast beef sandwich

  • I will say this, to all the people who are saying it's penis size related: that always isn't the case. Some white guys just don't like the idea of minorities, especially black guys, being w/ their white women.

    Sometimes it's more of a dominance thing than an penis thing.

    • It's a lot of crap that black men are hung better than white men.

    • it's the kind of women that date black guys, most of them are usually really trashy which isn't always obvious but when you see they have dated a black guy it's a dead give away. Other minorities are fine especially Asain since usually only quality women date them.

    • Black men are far more masculine than white guys period! That's the reason. Women want men who will stand up for them against anyone and defend them with their own life. Think about it. Disrespect a white guys woman and most of the time yet tuck their tail in and speak under their breath unless they have their buddies with them. Then white guys are tough as nails. Disrespect a black guys woman and it could 20 people and he's gonna stand up most of time and get Damm near killed or speak up defending the honor and love of his woman. I work in a club part time as a bouncer and see it all the time. Why be with a sheepish, timid as ass guy who won't defend them I have seen it

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  • I really think it's cock size fear. I've never heard a white guy say he wouldn't date a white girl because she had an Asian ex and 'if that's her type he could never love up to it'

    • When a non-black girl dates a black guy it just shows how trashy and screwed up she is, if a girl dates an asain guy no one cares because trashy screwed up girls don't usually date Asain guys, usually only the quality ones do. No I'm not Asain I'm just stating the truth.

    • Really? Did you know Muhammad Ali was against women dating outside their race? Hmmm. Yeah. He was probably just intimidated by white guy's superior masculinity, right? Or maybe he was just a guy who cherished his people and their culture and wanted to preserve that people and culture.

  • I think white guys get intimidated by white girls who date black guys. some feel inadequate and think they can't satisfy her like a black guy could because of the stereotypes. some are just racist. on the flip side, I've known plenty of white guys who really get off on knowing I date black guys.

    • absolutely right. it all comes down to penis envy. I'm a white guy, but I'm hanging pretty strong, and I don't bat an eyelash if a girl has been with black guys. I'm sure I'm not quite on their level. I play footballon a mostly black team, and I've glanced in the wrong direction at the wrong time in the locker room and seen some straight PYTHONS that put me to shame, lol. but you gotta get over it. some girls might even be scared of that. tell you what though, the first time I slept with...

    • ...a girl who had previously dated a black guy, she made a comment about my size, and I was jokingly like "thanks, but I'm sure I can't compare to your old boyfriend", and she goes, "actually, I think you might have him beat." ego boost like you read about, lol. but it's true, most guys just feel inadequate and turn it around to make it seem like something's wrong with black guys, and not them. and some are just legitimately racist. either way, they come out looking bad.

    • but the thing is black guys aren't the biggest. the smallest d*** I ever saw was the size of my pinky and on a black guy.

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  • It's a tactic I've seen a lot.
    If you can shame women enough for being with men of a certain ethnic background whom you hate, there's a chance that they'll be less likely to do it.
    Meaning that the hated group will be less likely to gain success with the women you've claimed pseudo-ownership over.

    It seems to be working pretty well...

    ... oh wait

    • .. oh wait, makes curious girls want you try you out even more.

    • Nice try "little Negra", but you get a fail. Most white guys don't hate negros, we just see the very great differences between us and want to protect our women. Black guys think they can own women, white guys know better.

    • @groof You might want to take an English refresher course, but I understand what you are trying to say. Yes, girls are very curious about most things, but only trashy girls want to try out a nigga. They are called "mud sharks" and you negros are welcome to them. Take all you can of them so when they spit out baby nigglets these confused nigglets will hate the both of you for conceiving them.

  • You sound like some extreme white trash and I am embarrassed that you are part of my white race. How about, stop being so judgmental to a race that hasn't done anything to you and learn some respect please. But than again, you probably live in a town full of people such as yourself and you were raised without knowing any better. I feel sad...

    • If you are willing to inter-breed, it is definitely not YOUR white race. As a matter of fact if you are willing to race-mix, the white race can do without you even calling yourself a part of it. The bottom line is, no matter what you think of the men and their reasons for not dating, marrying or even associating with a woman once she has dated a black man, they will not be dating you once you dated a black man, period. You will not shame us into dating you by calling us racists, insecure or whatever you want to throw our way. You will not bully us into dating you for any reason whatsoever. You want to have the choice to be able to date a black man. Well, no-one stands in your way, but white men have the choice not to want to touch you after and we are exercising our choice, no matter what you say or whatever names and insults you attribute to us. By the choice to date a black man, a woman shuts the door to the possibility of dating any white man with an intact backbone.

  • I'm a White guy and I couldn't care less if a White girl has been with a black guy, that said I am not attracted to White girls in general because I find Asian girls are much superior in terms of appearance, intelligence and personality.

    I believe people should date whoever they want to regardless of what others may or may not feel about their dating choices.

    • don't say superior that screams racist

    • @brie10 dumb wench, you ARE a racist.

  • racists (filler)

    • Yes I agreed

  • it's about competition and the male ego.

    • It's the kind of women that date black guys, most of them are usually really trashy which isn't always obvious but when you see they have dated a black guy it's a dead give away. Other minorities are fine especially Asain since usually only quality women date them.

    • That's really your subjective view. There are successful white women dating black guys.

  • never mattered to me. i was the one they were currently with.
    people really need to get over this hang-up regarding race.

  • I wouldn't have anything to do with a girl who dated a black guy. They are seen as whores by most people. Don't ask me why but that's the way it is

  • resectable white guys? how respectable is one when they think their race is superior than others

    • It's the kind of women that date black guys, most of them are usually really trashy which isn't always obvious but when you see they have dated a black guy it's a dead give away. Other minorities are fine especially Asain since usually only quality women date them.

  • you are so stupid that's pretty much thye only thingj I can even say about this post

    is open yourr eyes its 2012

    • Shes not stupid its a reasonable thing to ask. I am a 21 year old, well educated white women who has dated black men. I have been called everything you can think of and them some just because of my bfs skin color. 2012 or not racism is still out there! ... I'd also like to say however, I don't think it is the majority of white guys. I have found its a few guys but they makes such a big deal out of it that it seems like a bigger issue than it is

    • How brain dead do you gotta be to not realize this actually happen? And don't answer hun, it was rhetorical. You'd have to be autistic to think it doesn't happen.

    • I have definitely experienced this so this question is not stupid. I have recieved outright harassment for dating black guys. When I have dated white guys I have often heard many snide remarks about dating black guys.

  • Because we are told all black guys are above average in the dong department. To bad that is scientifically impossible lol. Slightly larger on average? MAYBE. But all hung? Please

    • And for the record I couldn't care either way

  • "Respectable?" I don't find that respectable at all. In fact I think it's super insecure for a guy to be like that regardless of the races involved.

    Make sure you don't confuse superiority with insecurity.

    • Make sure you don't confuse superiority with insecurity.>this especially

    • It's the kind of women that date black guys, most of them are usually really trashy which isn't always obvious but when you see they have dated a black guy it's a dead give away. Other minorities are fine especially Asain since usually only quality women date them.

  • There might be some guys who think they are much better than others but not all are.

  • YES I AM A WHITE GUY I HAVE A VERY GOOD JOB AND YES I WILL NOT TOUCH A WHITE WOMEN WHO HAS BEEN WITH A BLACK GUY. IT LITERALLY DISCUSSES ME OUT. AND ALSO WITH MOST HIGHER CLASS WHITE GUYS THEY DO NOT LIKE IT EITHER. I KNOW THIS WILL PISS a lot OF PEOPLE OFF BUT WHITE LADIES YOU WILL MAKE YOR BED IF YOU SLEEP OR GO OUT WITH A BLACK GUY YOU WILL BE ON A MENTAL LIST THAT SAYS STAY AWAY FROM HER. SORRY THAT IS THE TRUTH AND IF THERE IS ANY ONE THAT SAYS IT IS NOT I CALL BULLS HIT THEY ARE PROBABLY NOT A HIGHER CLASS WHITE GUY

    • Why are you shouting? You are saying what almost all older guys and some younger guys feel on the matter. There's no reason to shout.

  • Unfortunately this is somewhat true. I'm white and I've avoided white girls who dates black guys. Everyone's a little racist subconsciously, so whenever I catch myself thinking that way I mentally slap myself because I know its wrong. It's not terrible as long as you don't let if effect your judgement of a person.

    • It's the kind of women that date black guys, most of them are usually really trashy which isn't always obvious but when you see they have dated a black guy it's a dead give away. Other minorities are fine especially Asain since usually only quality women date them.

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