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Do you think a guy's penis size affects the types of women he goes out with?

body types, I mean. I've heard (and experienced) that curvier women (not fat) attract guys with bigger penises. that doesn't mean that many big guys don't go for girls who aren't curvy. I have friends who are skinny with boyish figures who date guys with huge wangs. lol I just mean that maybe guys with smaller penises are less likely to be attracted to or approach a curvy girl with like a big butt or hips, things like that. i actually had a guy friend who agrees with me. he said smaller guys may not want serious curves next to their penis because it makes it look even smaller. it sounds funny but I think its true. most of the population is not big but I've only had bigger guys. granted, I Haven't slept with all the guys who have tried to talk to me so I could be missing a huge part of the picture but it seems weird that I've never had a smaller penis.
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  • Wow. Well...we're not here to judge. so let's talk about the topic. lol

    It might affect it some. It just depends on the guy mostly. There's attitude to be accounted for. But on a physical note I'd have to say yes, it matters.

    Because the more weight she gains or the bigger she is then the harder it is to get at the Ya-Ya, if the two of you are not in the missionary. And I know there are ways around it but lets just go with vanilla sex for now.

    And then you also can't judge a book by its cover. Truer words etc. etc.,...From my military days I can recall a guy who was 5'10", skinny frame, black, who was pretty average in size (this observation was done during hygiene time, group shower set up you freaks! lol) and another guy who was 5'1", average build, black, and his junk was to his knees. It was kinda freaky gross. (he had seven kids, by the way) So women really should go case by case than rather on general assumption or stereotypes.

    Most guys won't (and usually don't) think in those terms when it comes to their penises. It's not "what size do I need to hook up with tonight to be the Tonsil-Pounder?" It's more along the lines of performance, as in "Who looks like they'll be able to handle the Thickness tonight! Heh, Heh! Al-RIGHT! Giggety!"

    All attitude; not so much concern. We're concerned about money. lol Not our performance review. That, we leave to the ladies while we're snoring.

    Hope this was helpful! Ciao!

    • judge? ha. anyway I never said anything about the guys body size. I said penis size. and "yaya"? lol love it.

  • yes, I'm average sized and I wouldn't go for a girl with big curves because I think the bigger her butt is the bigger a penis she needs to be penetrated fully

    • but all of our vaginas (according to science) are the same size. it depends on if you are trying to reach her cervix with your penis. I know that smaller guys just don't hit that spot for me, but that there are smaller, ovulating woman out there where it may...why they insist on me being their spouse?...maybe they are insecure with themselves and knowing that if they happen to impregnate me their chances of producing an offspring with larger testes would be somewhat promising for them. idk?

    • I don't have a harpoon for a whale to put it metaphorically

    • LOL! that's f***ed! okay an example as to why I am even responding to this query. I have shorter, ovulating, girlfriends. why are the guys that should be talking to them always talking to me? My father at his average height (before he started to shrink) was 5'10. yet all these 5'5, 5'7, 5'8 guys won't leave me the hell alone! if it's really the case, that men and womans vaginas and penises are different sizes and are related to their body sizes, why can't we follow order?

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  • I am short with a flat chest. I am a little below my middle weight BMI, so I'd say I am average weight, below average height. I am known for having a chubby butt- I get comments from everyone - family,kids, perfect strangers.

    I have attracted males who have been of varying sizes height-wise and by penis size.

    The ones who actually assumed we'd be sleeping together and just 'went for it' had smaller penises.

    Three guys I dated whose penises I had seen and were also known for being 'growers',got to where they were acting like they wanted sex but seemed to be waiting for me to make the first move but then it seemed like they'd then give a mixed signal.

    One of them even got to where we were to the 'heavy petting' stage and we just never 'did it' even though he kept inviting me to sleep-I mean just sleep- with him.

    I had one guy who was about a foot or more taller than me who was always asking me to have sex,always doing gross sex flirts with me like flicking lollipops with his tongue. He was always bragging that his girlfriend or someone he had just been with had said he was too big ( which probably meant the opposite).

    So, in my experience it does seem that smaller-penis-guys go for quiet small girls and bigger guys ( and I do not mean tall) may fantasize about us but rarely go through with anything.

  • why should a guy who is being prompted by curvier woman need to talk to someone with less curves? after all it's the curves that are the sex appeal. but how am I to know. they say that all men's penis's are around 7-8 inches when erected. I've seen bigger penis's than that. petite girls, I can say from experience, hate when the only reason a man is talking to her is because of the way she looks. I think your friend is full of sh*t. How is it that a man can claim that they are more enthralled with making a girl scream if they are going to be worried about their d*** size in comparison with her body? that's like saying that rotweilers only f*** rotweilers. and if you think about it, it's the female who makes it that much more believable "i'm a bigger girl, I have a wider vagina" "i'm taller than you, that guy belongs to me" type of sh*t! yes some guys have bigger d***s but there are also such things as male enhancing hormone pills, and penis pumps!

  • No ... I don't think so.

    Smaller framed guys in general might not want to date bigger girls, as most guys are more turned on by being larger than their partner, but penis size and body size are not correleated. Even that isn't an absolute, as you sometimes see thin guys with larger women, etc.

    As small penises occur in equal distribution amongst guys of different body types, as well as taste in women ... I am sure there are guys with small penises who are with curvy women.

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  • I personally don't think there is a connection between penis size and dating. Can you imagine on the dating websites guys having a spot to enter their penis size and girls having a spot to enter the penis size they want in a bf?

    A big penis is just the luck of the draw!

    • yeah well according to most people here I just draw the same card every time. doesn't seem likely imo but majority rules here so yup lol

  • lol that's just a wives tale.

    • hmm...ok. well for whatever reason guys with big d***s gravitate toward me. I was just curious to see if this was the reason. I still think it is, though :)

  • Even though I'm 6.75 inches long (just a quarter inch below 7), I do struggle with insecurities about my size, but I still like curvy women and I will not let the size of my penis limit me.

  • That's totally bullsh*ts, it have nothing to do it penis size what girl you're going to be attracted.

  • I am well endowed in length and extra well endowed in girth. Am also rather tall at 6'5" and have a rather large build. Girlfriends, I've had gfs who were between 4'8" and very petite (she was from China) to one who is 6'2" and size 26, most were above 5'7" and wore size 16 or 18. Most had larger sized boobs though. I won't say I go for them because of my penis size but I go for them due to my overall body size.

    If it is a one night stand, I normally find for one night stands at bars or clubs or every now and then online. In a bar or club then I would be on the lookout or target the bigger sized or fuller figured white girls, a plus if they have oversized boobs and butt, a plus if she is also a mom. In a way yes penis size has something to do with it, I'm horny and my objective is I want vaginal sex. From experience, the girls who had rejected me or didn't want to continue were girls who weren't that big size unless she already had prior experience of being with a guy who was big... a bigger sized girl though she may worry about it usually won't reject me. Plus it is a one night stand, my aim is I want to be in her before the night is over, I feel less guilty if she is a bigger sized girl and wasn't gentle in getting it into her. Having said that there were many bigger sized girls who also found it too painful and asked me to stop.

  • You're way off the mark with your prediction.

  • A woman with an hourglass figure has cuves. Where are the curves on a 200-300 lb woman? Anyway, I have been with short, tall, skinny, and full figured. The size of my penis had nothing to with the girls I have ended up with.

  • I don't think so, I'm pretty large (9 inches) and I usually date petite girls.

  • I dont think its a matter of penis size.. i like curvy women but sometimes i like non curvy women

  • I have a short penis that is not too thick. I prefer or direct my sexual advances to females that are small chested to flat and chubby girls and bigger. Also towards lonelier or socially awkward females (wall flowers).

    • And I rarely lack a partner...maybe it helps that I can go longer then a lot of men with out ejaculating.

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  • Nope. I like bigger/curvier girls and I'm below average. I do think that there is a slight subconscious correlation between a person and their opposite gender parent in regards to body size/height. For example, my mom is really short and large hips/bum/boobs and for some reason I'm always drawn to girls like this? I don't know just thinking out loud. But I disagree that penis size would have any effect with the type of women he goes for.

    • do you actually go for them or you just like them from a distance?

    • I've never had a girlfriend, so from a distance?

  • I don't care

    i don't wanna look like a p*rn star :P

    • um...ok? didn't answer my question at all but OK lol

    • well i don't know, but I don't think a girl first looks at a guy' penis before she goes out with him :P i know a few virgins whose has bigger penis and a few non virgins with shorter so doesn't matter

    • how does that relate to my question at all? lmao

  • There's some thinking that guys with small penises may simply have less casual sex _period_ so all girls are seeing a skewed 'up' average.

    I'm apparently above average though not massively so, and tend to go for more petite girls.

    • i didn't down vote you by the way. lol I have no problem with you liking the smaller girls. :) interesting about the casual sex thing. idk. most of the guys I've been with were in relationships though but interesting thought.

    • There are dudes with small penises who get lots of casual sex. I know some, personally. Penis size and casual sex are not correlated.

    • Not bothered by downvotes in any case, though it's more helpful if people actually explain why they disagree. I should note that I like petite by male standards, which is different then what women seem to think is thin. I like a bit of a butt. I half wonder if its angry small guys downvoting, because they're not going to comment and identify themselves.

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