A question about siblings and nudity...

This is a touchy subject it seems for most people. I have no issue with nudity within my family and it's viewed as a normal thing. How about you? Have you seen or been seen nude by siblings? What is your opinion on it.
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  • Last year I wrote about my brother and I and our first time skinnydipping. Well, a lot has happened since then. Soon after our first time skinnydipping, my brother and I decided to become home nudists.Whenever our parents were out of the house, we would take off our clothes and hang out nude together. Wednesday nights is our parents bowling night. It also became Kiki & Tim's nudist night. Soon as out parents left the house, our clothes came off and we would chill out in our birthday suits until they came home. We didn't tell any of our friends about our nudist activities until just recently. It was our little secret.

    Home nudism is great, however. We Last summer we decided to make the transition from home/closet nudists to more open nudists.We waited for a weekend when our parents were in Reno for a bowling tournament and we bo0ked ourselves a room in Palm Springs at a nudist hotel and resort. The resort was fantastic. We had a very nice room with a queen sized bed and a lovely view of the nearby mountains. I was a little expensive but it was worth it. They had a swimming pool ,Jacuzzi, tennis.All the things any nice resort would have. The only difference was you could go anywhere on the property nude. Going nude in front of other people was much easier than I thought it would be. Since all of the other guests are also nude, I didn't feel like I was standing out. I actually saw other woman even fatter than me. My brother also felt comfortable

    Recently my brother and I found about a Japanese style bath house in the Los Angeles area. For those of you who don't know Traditional Japanese families bath together in huge bath tubs. We decided to give it a try and made a reservation. The bathhouse has two parts. They have private rooms with a large sunken tub, and a gigantic communal tub for soaking only. We started out in our private room and took a bubble bath together. After about an hour we decided to go out to the communal tub and joined others. It was oh so relaxing.

    In the last year both my brother and I have really embraced the nudist lifestyle and do not plan on living any other way

    • WOW - this is so like us, except we're both dudes. Well, it was us a few years ago. When my brother was like 13, he started going around naked when our parents went out. I was only 11. I just stayed in my room. He alway came in and told me I could get naked to but NO WAY. So one day he said I HAD to go naked and he made me take everything off. So from then on, I had to go naked whenever he did. I hated it at first, but now I'm naked all the time I can be cause if feels GREAT! I mean we stopped doing it together probably not even a year later (he got a girlfriend and like she was a lot more interesting that his naked little bro. But once I got used to it, back when we did it, it was fine. I am kinda glad he made me do it but I think it's better if both brothers or sister or whatever agree to it.

    • my siblings are very similar though the younger ones took to it a little longer to get use to it

  • Me & my mother don't care we're both woman have the same parts, so its not a big deal

    But I haven't seen my little brother naked since we were little kids and I would like to keep it that way.

    It really just depends on the family. I myself believe that a body is just another body, and at the end of the day I don't care. When I have kids though, I don't think they need to be running around the house naked after the age of 5, just because I think it would give them the wrong message and goes against the fact that your body is 'yours and yours only'.

    • my little brother is very curious about it all but seems to be getting use to it

  • Well, I would be completely weirded out if I saw my brother nude or vice versa; or my parents (maaaaybe not so much my mom but...). If I had sisters I probably wouldn't be uncomfortable with it. So personally it would be very strange to see any of my family members nude BUT at the same time I know that people are raised differently and what's normal for me doesn't have to be what's normal for you so I don't think people who, like you, are fine with being nude around their family members are weird or wrong by any means.

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  • Depends on your society and the values it has passed on to you. For instance, in some societies little or no clothing is worn. In some, clothing is worn constantly outside the home, but within the home the level of dress may extend to nothing and still be normal and non-sexual. In many of the Pacific island, it used to be the standard for women to wear nothing above their waists. Then the missionaries came and preached that their natural way of living was extremely bad and they were terrible sinners. (But guess who fathered the first mixed breeds.)

    If a family believes in the natural beauty of all bodies and makes it clear that sexual contact within that unit, other than by the parents, is wrong, then it can be a normal, good thing. But that should be something that is present from the birth of the first child. To raise kids with the idea that they need to be clothed within the house, then change the rules, could be damaging.

    Also, if a family believes in nudity in proper public venues, like a nude beach or nude resort, then the children raised in this environment, either living at a nude facility or visiting there often will usually have a healthy attitude toward nude bodies. They will have the same interests in the other sex but not get all freaked out and having erections just because they see the other sex. Some nudist facilities often have social events, even dances, where the contact and reaction is the same as a ballroom dance. In a slow dance the bodies touch, but there is no arousal (at least at the ones I have seen). In these cases, siblings see each other, as well as others, nude quite a bit of the time. They have less questions or curiosities driving them because so much is out in the open.

  • yeah definitely. its a slippery slope though. I know some people may judge me for it but idc - I've jacked off while thinking of my sister. she has a phenomenal body, dude. yeah, she's my sister and I would never marry her or fall in love with her, but if incest were legal and she came into my room and asked for it...i would give it to her. she's slightly tan, slim, small waist, curvy hour glass frame, flat stomach, these perfect, perky D cup t*ts, and a nice round ass. I remember once she was blasting music while getting ready for school and I started opening her door to tell her to stfu. she didn't see me, she was bent over in her closet looking for something. I saw everything. she was on her hands and knees naked with her back arched and her legs spread apart and I could see everything, p**** and a**hole. I stood there for a few seconds before closing the door and going back to my room. I had an instant boner dude. she's so f***ing hot.

    anyway that's my story. you probably think I'm d*** now, but I'm just being honest.

    • You'd be surprised bro at how common this is. It's the forbidden fruit/taboo factor of wanting what you can't have. It's not a concept that can be accepted and openly discussed in society because it is viewed as immoral. I don't frown upon your interest at all and I admire your honesty! Maybe someday she'll let ya lol.

    • no offense but your sister sounds hot as hell, like a 10/10 holy damn, nice details by the way too, very interesting story.

    • I only WISH I had a sister! I have a cousin but she's way too young. My older brother I've seen naked and two of my cousins but, yeah, they're dudes so... whatever. But, yeah, I think it's natural to want to look because like there's no drama at school and she's family so looking is OK, I think. If I had a sister (or my cousin was older, I'd LOOK)!

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  • My sister and I are very comfortable changing in front of each other. I'm slightly less comfortable being nude around my mom, but it's also not that big a deal since I'm very used to it. However, I haven't been nude in front of my dad for years. I feel different about changing in front of him for obvious reasons. And he's always been discreet in front of my sister and I.

  • not necessarily completely nude ,but if I'm with my sister or my mom & they change their shirt in front of me its no big deal. if they took off their underwear I would feel uncomfortable.

  • I have no siblings, but yeah, I'm naked around my mother a lot - I live with her, just - and vice versa. Doesn't phase me, I don't get what the BIG DEAL is.

  • All the freaking time. I've seen all the women in my family nude and they have seen me nude. As for my brother, he must wear underwear just like I must wear underwear!

  • i walk around topless/nude all the time, so my bro has seen me alot. I don't see him nude very often, just when changing occasionally. its no big deal. my dad doesn't like it, but he never says anything.

    • I think this is so cool - I wish I had a sister like you. I would share, too. It feels so great!

  • Well when I was young it didn't matter, but now you wouldn't catch me nude in front of my family, the only time my mom and my sister would see me partially naked is if I am trying something on at a store.

  • Casual nudity is discouraged, but medical and hygiene related nudity is expected in my family. Even too this day, lounging around for fun and relaxing in my birthday suit in front of my mom out in the open would be frowned upon, but when she walked in on me manscapaping my pubes not too long ago, she showed maternal concern for my health and safety, asking me about my grooming activities. If she thought I would interpret her concern for my reproductive health as an invasion of my privacy, she would have immediately turned and left me too my obulations, instead of questioning her naked son about his pubic regions with a concerned, almost worried expression on her face, so I answered her questions openly and honestly, letting her have a good look. Leaning forward for closer inspection, she approved of my preparation for the oppressive summer heat too come and indicated I turn and bend over for a closer peek from the back. Spreading by feet and cheeks in front of her was mortifying as a child, but I think like an adult, having nothing she hasn't seen before and knowing that being comfortable in my own skin will make her more comfortable, while acting embarressed will only embarress her. Telling her about my trouble spots when shaving didn't bother me, so letting her get a closer look than is possible for me too see, at the underside of my genitals and rectal areas, didn't feel like an invasive act, because a mother isn't expected too view her child's private areas as off limits to them, since she has their welfare and safety too consider.
    She is no longer legally responsible maintaining my personal hygiene or protection of my reproductive health, but she was never neglectful if these responsibilities when I was too young, or injured and sick, too be expected too do these things for myself, and I'm not going to too tell the woman who changed my diapers and dislodged my undecended testicle during my youth, that these areas of my body were off limits too her now, when I'm old enough too understand that she is seeing her own genetics in male anatomical form.
    She always respected my privacy when she could, but she looked worried, and a visual, digital examination of my anus and testicles wouldn't negatively influence her opinion of my character in any way, and what better way too compliment her good looks than too spread my cheeks and let her see how her genetics manifested themselves with a Y chromosome.
    She showed me the images of her overies during her last pregnancy and even recently before her hidirectomy, so she wasn't bashful about showing me a female manifestation of my own testicles, so why should I have a problem with her close inspection of mine?

  • didn't care till I was 12, it burns to see family members naked, to me anyways.

  • In my childhood, we weren't ever nude in front of each other.. not even in our underwear.
    I've seen my brothers and my dad in boxers, but never my mom or my sister.

    But I know that it's healthy for children to see adult bodies nude, as it gives them a more balanced look on the body in general. It kind of helps counter what they see on tv (I know this because of my education). So when I have children one day, I'll let them see me nude and in my underwear because I want them to have a healthy image of the adult body and that it's okay not to have a perfect body.

  • In my family we are ok with nudity my bro and mom dont care about it and some of my cosins (girls) also dont care

  • It is about 50:50 that some dislike my being nude, some appreciate it.

  • Once my younger brother was seen me accidentally

    • when how old were you both?

  • My brother is only fourteen month younger than me and we have never thought too much of it if one of us catches a glimpse of the other nude or semi nude.This is especially true in the morning when we both are in a rush to get ready for school or our jobs.

    A few months ago My brother and I were house sitting for some friends of my parents.It turns out our parent's friends have a secluded backyard with a swimming pool.Neither my brother or I had ever been skinny dipping,so we decided to give it a try.Not only did we enjoy swimming Au natural. but us seeing each other nude was no big deal at all.

    I think too many people are making way too much about one sibling seeing another sibling nude.

  • My cousin started seeing me nude when I was she was 17 and I just turned 23. The first time she accidentally caught me on my room sleeping with no clothes.

    We talked about it after and I decided to be open to her about my desire to try out nudity. We decided to let me try it out. It was very awkward the first time, especially since we where learned nudity was private. So the first couple if times it was quite embarrassing for us both. It didn't help me she was staring quite a lot on my penis in the beginning. But after a while we both got more used to it.

    Now we both feel more Comfortable about my nudity. And it's been so for the past year.
    She's not comfortable me seeing her though.

  • Though I was not raised in a nudist culture, however, finding it comfortable and natural, I now practice it uninhibited. Our three years daughter is also free of clothes most of the time, as we are. I wish to see my siblings in natural state, but my bro usually covers himself with small underwear while sometimes my younger sis and brother's wife are seen nude (though not very often) when I visit them. I am personally comfortable being seen and to see my siblings nude.

    • we are similar as to you my brothers are blessed so irs nice to see how is everything now that some time has passed... they enjoy seeing you?

    • @Debbie14217 Not sure if they enjoy seeing me naked.

  • Saw my sister once. I was about 14 and she was 20. She was taking a short nap after a shower. I passed her room and she left the door open. Nude on the bed - My first view of real live Bush. I didn't get a boner, but did stare for a while.
    It was mere curiosity at the time.

  • I have seen my brother naked a few times. Never bothered me. He has an amazing body so any girl who gets to see that is really lucky :)

    • I appreciate your honestly. My sister looks amazing naked herself.

    • Simple fact though, all brothers are sexually curious about their sisters at some point. Maybe you could talk to him about it.

    • Have you two been sexual ever? Honestly.

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  • I've seen my sisters naked and we change in front of each other...there's nothing sexual about it. We're just very comfortable around each other.

    But I wouldn't be comfortable with nudity around my parents. Ew.

    • That's great! Thanks for your response. Are identical triplets "identical" everywhere?

  • its weird for me, I've never seen anyone in my fam naked and I don't want to

  • i would never and I would never want to. ew