I was 17, she was 15, and it was at her request. One of her girlfriends had been talking about it and she got really excited and when we got back to her house, she started asking me if I'd ever thought about it, and what I thought about it, and eventually told me that she wanted to try it.
She showered and so forth and after a while of regular sex, she told me she was ready. We had some Vaseline (I got real lube at some point later on, but this had been a surprise so I hadn't had any chance to prepare), and I took it slow and gentle for a little while, and then she started asking for me to speed up a bit, and we were off.
After that, she probably asked for it about every 4th or 5th time we had sex, and I occasionally initiated too.
Since then, almost every girl I've been with has either liked it already, or decided to try it with me (in some cases, after NOT liking it with another guy) and liked it. A few had no interest in it, or even a strong objection, and that was perfectly fine, but all of the girls I've actually done it with have liked it and asked for it again. It helped a lot that they trusted me, and that I was gentle at first and put their needs ahead of mine until they were comfortable with it. It's not something you can pressure a girl into or rush and be likely to have her enjoy it. The fact that I never pressured them was a big reason they were willing to try it with me.
I won't. I refuse to have anal sex. I know that's not really an answer to your question but I think if you're asking this you might be interested to know that not all sexually active people want to experience anal sex. I just think it's gross and I doubt girls enjoy it at all so it does not appeal to me at all. Even if a girl begged me to I would have a hard time overcoming the gross factor and not want to do it.
I was in a committed relationship with my boyfriend, whom we both lost our virginities to, anal was the only thing we hadn't done, it was probably a couple years into our relationship. We did it in the shower and with a condom and took it real slow. First impression is didn't like it, its uncomfortable, it hurts a little, and makes you feel like you have to poo. Only recently have I enjoyed it for the first time.
17, almost 18, with my first boyfriend. It's still something I only do with boyfriends, while being more open to other activities with more casual partners.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I have never done anal personally I think it is gross and dirty,but if a girl I really love wanted it I might do it,i would at least consider it.but she would have to be very clean before hand LOL.It is just too dirty.
I did have this girl one time while we were having sexx say "you can do anything you want to me" I wasn't ever sure what she meant lol maybe she wanted anal.
20yrs old I think. My current girlfrind loves it! As do i..
It is not as dirty as people are saying. As long as the girl preps for it. I have never pulled mine out and it been dirty. Heck sex on a girls period is dirtyer.
I will never experience it :P
+1, I imagine there will be a barrage of downvotes anyway after this
Your poll is flawed as I have lived more than half a lifetime and have never engaged in anal...(:
Indeed...
My current girlfriend loves it sometimes. Its not a regular thing, just every once in a while when we are having sex, she will tell me to put it in her ass. I am 23 and she introduced it to me a month ago and we have done it twice and it feels really good!
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